Friday, March 9, 2012

Passover Guides and Seder Supplements

-- Click here for the downloadable 2012 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide.
-- Click here for my "Passover Preparations Guide to the Perplexed"
-- And here for the 2012 Sale of Hametz form 
-- And here for Rabbi Barry Dov Lerner's Seder supplementm chock full of those silly songs and explanations everyone loves.


Here are some other downloadable thematic Seder supplements 


From the Religious Action Center of the Reform Movement:
Invisible: The Story of Modern Slavery, A Social Justice HaggadahWhat you make of liberation - that is the trick. Can you, unshackled, set someone else free? Religious Action Center.

A Common Road to FreedomA Common Road to Freedom Haggadah
Black-Jewish Haggadah, rich in songs, ancient & contemporary writing and reflections by Jewish & African American leaders. Religious Action Center.


LGBTQ haggadahLGBTQ HaggadahMixing traditiona dn progressive elements to create a uniquely Queer experience for all. Human Rights Council & the Gay & Lesbian Outreach & Engagement of DC.

Hunger SederHunger Seder HaggadahLet All Who are Hungry Come and Eat: A Seder Dedicated to Hunger Awareness and Activism. Jewish Council for Public Affairs.

Earth Seder HaggadahEarth Seder HaggadahFreedom Seder for the Earth: Facing the Plagues & Pharaohs of our Generation. The Shalom Center.




Israel-Palestinian Peace Seder
Passover of Peace HaggadahA Seder for the Children of Abraham, Hagar & Sarah: An Organizing Tool for Israeli-Palestinian Peace-Making. The Shalom Center.



Save Darfur HaggadahIn Search of Freedom HaggadahA Passover Seder for Darfur. Save Darfur Coalition, Jewish Council for Public Affairs, American Jewish World Service & Tents of Hope.



Pesah in Cancun—An utterly brilliant retelling of the Exodus by dancing sillouhettes!

A wonderful quick matzah baking film

Here’s an upbeat and ajzzy explanation of the seder plate


From JewishBoston
HAGGADAH SUPPLEMENTS
Also see some ideas for adding drama , funny songs to sing at your Seder, and Hillel's  plethora of supplements for everything from modern slavery, to feminism to the righteous gentiles.



From the American Jewish World Service:




Thursday, March 8, 2012

Purim 2012

Click on the photo below to see our album of Purim photos, including the megilla readings (family and adult and Shorashim nursery school celebration.
2012 Purim

AIPAC 2012 Videos

Here are complete recordings of the mahor plenary speeches given at the 2012 AIPAC Conference  For other videos click here.

President Obama
 Prime Minister Netanyahu
President Peres
 Senator McConnnell
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 Senator Lieberman
Rep. Pelosi
 Sec. of Defense Panetta

 Idan Raichel Project Concert

 Rick Recht Concert

 Political Roundtable

Purim Articles from Hartman

See below some thoughtful material from the Hartman Institute on the holiday.  Happy Purim!


Hartman Institute Explores Purim, the ‘Strangest’ Holiday
06.03.2012, by Shalom Hartman Instituteshare this article:           


Ahashverosh and Mordechai, from Megillat Esther by Arthur Szyk
Over the millennia, Purim has generated the most outlandish collection of traditions.
Unique in the Jewish year, Purim represents, on the face of it, the penetration of a series of most un-Jewish - almost pagan - customs into the sober Jewish culture. We use the word “sober” advisedly, because one of the principal manifestations of Purim celebrations is, of course, the practice of drunkenness.
Indeed, Purim seems to resemble a Bacchanalian revelry with its atmosphere of carnival and abandonment of the usual norms of a civilized Jewish lifestyle. Is Purim-life really reflective of Jewish life, or is it a most terrible aberration from that life that somehow has been swallowed up and allowed to stay in a defined place in the Jewish year?
Is Purim just a time out from Jewish ethics to let us relax and have a good time or does it offer an alternative worldview that can contribute to our self understanding?
The following articles offer a broad range of provocative commentary, explanation and analysis. Read them, engage with them, and comment on them. Purim Sameach.
Culture and practice
God and fate
Women and men
Purim and politics
Much of the material we are presenting here is derived from course materials developed by master teachers Steve Israel and Shalom Hartman Institute's Noam Zion, and we gratefully acknowledge their support of this project.

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Letter from Netanya - Jan Gaines on Purim


Dear Friends,

   Purim is here with sunshine and perfect weather. Israelis say it always rains on Purim but this year, after weeks of storms, Purim is a treat.

  Yesterday, schools held their Purim parties, with kids from 4 to 17 getting into some sort of Purim ensemble.  The teenagers amused me the most. The girls found every kind of strapless and mini-skirt outfit possible, from waitresses to bunnies.and brides.  But the boys only dress their hair, coloring it every shade possible, often 3 or 4 kinds together. The little ones have the same kind of Halloween regalia you are used to seeing except for specials this year: Israeli police and IDF for the boys, and TV characters for the girls. It seems to me we have fewer Queen Esthers and Modechai's every year.  There are huge Purim parades to rival Macy's in both Holon and Tel Aviv, but here in Netanya it's very amateurish. Still, it's a happy time, for everyone except the two working parents who have to take time off for the next 4 days.

   I find it kind of awesome that this year we celebrate Purim as if it were 2500 years ago when we also faced destruction from the same Persians. Does history really repeat itself?  I guess for the Jews, always!  However if you ask me are Israelis scared, emphatically no!   Not even spooked. It may be in the back of people's minds but certainly not in the front.

  The government hasn't ordered us to clean out our shelters, or get our gas masks replaced.  In fact, there is a shortage of gas masks because the govt. claims it ran out of money. Nobody believes that.  Take your choice of reasons:

the Home Front command doesn't think gas masks will do any good, or they have about half the population quietly covered and they don't want protests from the other half,  or they don't want the Iranians to see preparations for war- - - -who knows.?  As for me, I turned mine in 5 years ago with everyone else, for refitting, but never got to the distribution location to pick one up.;  I finally went the other day only to find it has closed down.  !!!

   Before the 2nd Gulf War I remember well how extensive preparations were and how it seemed daily the govt was urging us to get our shelters ready.  But of course that was when everyone expected to be attacked.  This time we will do the attacking!  Perhaps they feel there is still a little time left to prepare. However, most of the Israelis I talk to in my unscientific poll, feel that there will be a war. They say we are dealing with the determined and "irrational" mullahs who don't operate like responsible leaders and who don't care about killing their own people.

   What is really interesting to me is how many "secular" Israelis feel that in the end, God will somehow protect or save us. Maybe that is a reaction to the realization that we are sitting ducks (appropos of Bibi's great speech at AIPAC) just waiting for the nuclear ducks, or maybe it is based on Israeli's great awareness of our history of miraculous survival here in the land, in one war or skirmish after another. But I'm reminded of what Kerrin Behrend said, "They are more anxious about getting a parking place in Tel Aviv" than the threat of war.

  So don't cancel any trips you've planned for the summer, PLEASE. Remember, Israel has never lost a tourist!  And maybe we'll scrape through this crisis too.

  Finally, BE HAPPY.  IT'S ADAR.  Hag Sameach.  Jan

The Book of Purim



HAPPY PURIM - ENJOY THIS HILARIOUS PARODY OF A PARODY!

Friday, March 2, 2012

Shabbat-O-Gram for March 2


Shabbat Shalom

Purim, CMTs and CAPTs
It's March, I'm back from vacation and things are unbelievably busy here.  We've got about 150 people coming to Shabbat Across America on Friday evening, and while reservations are now closed for the dinner, anyone can come to the Klezmer Service in the sanctuary at 7:30. Join us! On Shabbat morning we'll celebrate with "leap couple" Sherry and Ken Cohen on their anniversary and "leap year baby" Herb Horowitz on his birthday.  I will also be discussing themes related to this special Sabbath, Shabbat Zachor.  With Purim just around the bend, we focus on the serious questions of how to remember those who caused bad things to happen to a good people, "a certain people," as Haman called the Jews. 

Purim arrives on Wednesday night, with our fun-for-all family Megilla reading beginning at 6 PM and the carnival following just after.  Unfortunately, when the holiday was first declared, Mordechai and Esther did not realize that Stamford school kids would have standardized tests this week.  Alas, we can't move Purim, but we can promise to get things rolling as quickly as possible so that everyone can have at least a little time to enjoy the carnival before bedtime.  And I promise a special Rabbinic Blessing for those kids who come!  High scores are guaranteed - or your hamentaschen back.  Plus, you'll get to shed those pre-test frustrations by hitting me with a sponge!  That's got to be worth a few points!  Plus, you'll get to see what costumes our clergy and teachers are wearing...and wear creative costumes of your own.  And bring creative noisemakers too, so we can drown out HIS name whenever we hear it.  How could any Jewish child miss a year of Purim? What kind of message does that send?  "Sorry Joey.  You get to beat your chest and fast and sit in services all day on Yom Kippur...but Purim, the fun one, we're gonna skip this year."  And don't forget this Sunday at 10:30 - bring the family to our Mishloach Manot making party!


Hadassah Hop-ital
How could any adult miss Purim either? At 8 on Wed. night we'll daven Ma'ariv and read the full Megilla. And then the joint will be hopping for Hadassah. This year, Purim for Adults honors Hadassah on its 100th anniversary.  In the Purim story, Hadassah is Esther's Hebrew name and there is no better time to honor the heroism of Jewish women, ancient and contemporary.  I thank our local Hadassah leadership in advance for the presentation they've prepared honoring their organization.   And  for those interested in further exploring the Whole Megilla, I'll be leading an hour-long Lunch & Learn study session on Wed. at noon. 

Downton Abbey and Shabbat at Hillel
Last week's vacation seems like it was a month ago.  On Friday night I had the chance to welcome Shabbat at Brown Hillel, along with over a hundred students at their Havurah service. We were there with Ethan, celebrating his 21st birthday.  It was the first time I've been at Brown Hillel for Shabbat since I was leading services as a student there a few eons ago.  All I can say is that rumors of the impending demise of the Jewish people are greatly exaggerated.  Brown's is only one of many campus Hillels that are thriving. Hillel's going to great length to avoid the cliquishness of the past and, with the help of outstanding crossover programs like Birthright Israel, they are reaching Jewish kids who would never have been caught dead doing Jewish things on campus only a few years ago.  (And check out Ethan's acting debut in this Hillel Purim promo).  This week we'll get to see Dan in D.C., where he is already becoming a leader of Jewish student activities at American.

While away from then office, and having sworn off ESPN ever since the Super Bowl, I managed to do two things I'd been hoping to accomplish in order to keep up with the zeitgeist:  I read "The Hunger Games" and watched the entire second season of "Downton Abbey." 

For now, I'll have to hold onto most of my thoughts on these cultural phenomena, except to say that  I'm now ready for this month's Harry Potter-like onslaught of "Hunger Games" hype in advance of the long awaited movie premier.  And I was thrilled to discover that "Downton Abbey" is nothing less than "Fiddler on the Roof" in tux and tails.  What we see in Abbey-tevka is this:  a tradition-espousing patriarch who holds it together as his world crashes down around him, lovely daughters who challenge those traditions to varying degrees - and a house full of yentas.  I look at Sir Richard Carlisle and see Lazar Wolf, a manipulative, unfeeling rich guy proposing a match of status rather than love.  Tom Branson, the Downton Abbey chauffer and resident revolutionary, IS Perchick - only Siberia in this case turns out to be Ireland.  I can't say much more right now without giving away the plot (although I suppose you already know that they leave Anatevka at the end).  I'll return to "The Hunger Games" in a few weeks.

What I'll be looking for at AIPAC: an Iran-Clad Agreement
And last but certainly not least, I'll be joined by Cantor Mordecai, Mara and many from our community this coming week at what will certainly be a historic AIPAC Policy Conference.  I'm pleased that over a dozen from TBE will be there, a marked increase from the past. If all goes well and my battery allows, I'll be tweeting and blog posting as time permits - so if you haven't already, look for me on Twitter and friend me on Facebook.

Put simply:  We'll be hearing from President Obama on Sunday morning and PM Netanyahu on Monday night. In between, they will be meeting.  What they decide when they are together will be of enormous significance, for Israel's existence, for American security, for Iran and its cronies, for the world economy and for the American election.

Nothing else matters.

Not that there won't be a slew of other dignitaries on the rostrum - with names like Peres, Panetta, McConnell, Pelosi, Lieberman and Gingrich.

But all that matters is what happens between the President and Prime Minister.  The best case scenario, in my mind, would be an iron-clad agreement (or is it Iran clad?) defining what red lines the Iranians must not cross and what each party will do if that happens. If the US agrees to take on the burden of military action providing Israel holds back, this would send a strong signal to the world that sanctions will be taken to the limit, but that there is a limit.  It would demonstrate Israeli pragmatism and American resolve, two things the world needs to see. Such cooperation could well bring the Iranians closer to blinking, as the North Koreans seem to have done this week.  It would keep the pressure and focus on Syria and not let Assad off the hook.  It would keep Hezbollah off balance and Hamas at bay and increase the diplomatic isolation of the Russians and Chinese.  It would de-politicize the matter here in America, where Israel must not become a partisan issue.  And it would eliminate that dreaded daylight between American and Israeli positions that threatens to sabotage the special relationship that AIPAC, among others, has so carefully nurtured. 

I hope we can hear clearly that an agreement has been reached. If not, the two leaders need to get back into a room until they have one. My fear is that both will succumb to political miscalculations and try to weaken the other politically.  I'll grant that Obama and Netanyahu have not had the smoothest relationship.  But for now - and quite possibly for years to come - they are the guardians of this special alliance, and right now BOTH nations face real peril. By standing together, the US and Israel could do a lot of good for the world.

That's what I'll be looking for in Washington.  Follow events closely next week - and check out my tweets and postings.  Meanwhile, read Israel's Last Chance to Strike Iran from Thursday's NY Times, Jerusalem, Washington and the Iranian Bomb by Ari Shavit in Ha'aretz and James Besser's analysis of the current state of AIPAC and American Jewry.   Each article points out the urgency of this moment. Shavit writes, "Next Monday, in the White House, the man from Washington and the man from Jerusalem will look into each other's eyes. Each will see the abyss in the other's pupils. If U.S. President Barack Obama and Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu fail again to rise above themselves and don't start working together as allies, they will bring disaster on their nations."

Impending disaster....at the hands of a lunatic from Persia...  Something tells me we've been here before. 

Shabbat Shalom and Happy Purim!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

More Purim goodies:

Friday, February 17, 2012

TBE Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary: Jacob Koester on Yitro


Jacob’s Speech
Shabbat Shalom!
As you know, today’s Torah portion
includes the Ten Commandments.  While I have no problems with the Torah’s choices, I thought this would be a nice opportunity to reflect on what my own Ten Commandments would be.
o   Thou shalt not hurt another human being or any living thing, including your sister, at least so long as she is bigger than you.
o   Thou shalt visit Israel.  And when you do, thou shalt go to that gelato place on Ben Yehuda Street in Jerusalem.
o   Thou shalt not judge people by appearances…unless they are Patriots or fans (sorry about that loss, Rabbi.). But seriously, for my mitzvah project, I’ve donated money to the Wounded Warriors Project, which helps soldiers rehabilitate after suffering major injuries in battle.  These injuries may have altered their appearance, but we can never forget that they are heroes. 
o   Thou shalt never quit learning or you might not be able to handle what challenges life throws at you.  I understand that bar mitzvah is not the end of my Jewish education.  In some ways, it’s only the beginning.
o   Honor your parents, because they can really make life miserable for you if you don’t.  But seriously, I love you guys.
o   Thou shalt not rip your quarterback anonymously in the papers, especially when you have just choked away your chance at the playoffs. Don’t worry, fellow Jet fans.  There are brighter days ahead.
o    Thou shalt not hate anybody, because as Jews we know how it feels to be hated. 
o   Thou shalt have no other gods before me, including such false idols as money, success and popularity.  Or, in other words, the Miami Heat 
o   Thou shalt not steal…especially when I’m crouched behind home plate 
o   And finally, thou shalt always wear matching clothes.  Yes, it’s true, my clothes always match – and I’m the one who picks them out.  It’s important to wear matching clothes because it demonstrates self respect and it shows organizational skills. I’m a very orderly person, although I must admit, I don’t always clean up my room.
So there you have it, my Big Ten.  Not including the Golden Gophers, Hawkeyes, Cornhuskers, Buckeyes, Badgers, Spartans, Wolverines, Hoosiers, Boilermakers, Illini, Wildcats and Nittany Lions.  They are the other Big Ten, and there are actually twelve of them.  But for my Ten Commandments, there are just ten.
Actually here’s an eleventh.  Thou shalt always be thankful to those who have helped you along the road.

Shabbat-O-Gram for Feb. 17


March to Passover

Sign up now for ConTEXT, a month-long exploration of Passovers past and present that we are piloting with the Jewish Theological Seminary.  We're calling it our "March to Passover."  Each of the four classes will focus on how Passover developed at a different point in history, employing JTS's signature approach to teaching, one that bridges the gap between contemporary scholarship and the quest for personal meaning.  The classes, taught by top-notch professors, journey will take us from the biblical Passover to the Seder of rabbinic times.  We'll view the holiday through the prism of Jewish-Christian relations and then, in the fourth session, taught by Dr. Ellen Umansky of Fairfield U, we'll learn how it has been re-imagined in contemporary America.

Our March to Passover will culminate on March 29 with a community Interfaith Seder, co-sponsored by the Interfaith Council of Southwestern CT.  Together with our neighbors of different faiths, we'll sit down and discuss the impact of the Exodus story and Seder ritual on all our lives.  This Seder is an outgrowth of the highly successful Comparative Religions class taught earlier this year by the cantor and myself.  The Seder will be open to the entire community.   See all the info here and sign up for ConTEXT.
  
Washington's Letter 

In honor of President's Day, read
George Washington's famous 1790 letter to the Jews of Newport."To Bigotry No Sanction..."


"Dung Happens" - a look at this week's portion and Shabbat Shekalim

Rabbi Dardashti will be delivering this Shabbat morning's D'var Torah, and Hank Silverstein next week's (thank you in advance to both), so a few of my own reflections on the weekly portion to set the stage:

Last week's portion of Yitro, you may recall, ended with the bang of God's thunder at Sinai.  This week's portion offers a stunning contrast.  We go from the mystery and cacophony of Sinai to the nitty-gritty of daily life -- the laws of slave and slave holder, the details of petty feuds, of accidental death and injury, the goring ox, the thief in the night.  Mishpatim thrusts us back into the midst of daily life, facing its mundane concerns, and that's where we will stay for most of the rest of the book of Exodus.  Yitro and all the portions before it  describe life lived at the peak a life of cataclysmic events, like the Exodus and Sinai.   Mishpatim is life as it is lived every day.  We add to it the fact that this is Shabbat Shekalim, with the special portion dealing with the most mundane subject imaginable, taxes.  But these are the building blocks that create a just and caring society.

At first glance what we have in Mishpatim looks like an anthology of laws -- but they are best seen as stories told around a fire, or at a card game, or at a local pub.  They are the stories from the back pages of a newspaper.  Did you hear the tragic tale of Joanne, who was pregnant and lost her baby when she accidentally wandered into that fight between Joe and Sam?  And how about what happened to Judah's ox!  It wandered away from the threshing field and fell into that open put that Joshua dug!  So who is going to pay?  And did you hear the latest gossip at the market -- about that guy who lent that other guy a sheep and then one night it died - and whose fault is it anyway?   Stories intertwined with stories -- leading to hours and hours and weeks and weeks of discussion.  These discussions are what became eventually the Talmud.  No portion is a greater argument on behalf of an Oral Law than this one.

And there are principles too: Don't give a false report, don't follow a multitude to do evil; don't oppress a stranger in your midst; don't take a bribe.  But these too are stories, even without the narrative.  We fill in the details.  We imagine the members of the crazed lynch mob that killed Leo Frank in 1915, or the mean kids in a middle school classroom today, each one following the multitudes, each one a living example of what happens when the stranger is oppressed. 
  
And then there's this week's incident at a Florida airport, where a woman left her $6,500 Rolex watch in a bin while going through security and a man then stole it. Who is ultimately responsible?  The TSA?  The woman? Or the thief? This issue is in fact right out of Mishpatim, which deals with issues of responsibility and compensation.

Mishpatim is a vast painting -- not a landscape, but one of those medieval Bruegel painting, a portrait of all the real people, teeming with life.  What lies behind it all is the Torah's eternal plea for justice, compassion and nobility.

The people described in this portion are not named.  Justice in the end is not about fame, or in some cases, infamy.  God is not in the peak moments of Sinai, Mishpatim seems to be telling us, as in the details of every day life.  God is not in the words of Moses or other great leaders so much as in the stories of the little people and their travails.

And really, God is in both.  It's instructive that if you visit Jerusalem, you can approach the holy Temple in all its grandeur.  Even as an archeological ruin, that grandeur is still palpable.  And yet the entrance to the old city closest to the Temple mount is called, of all things, the Dung Gate.  Even with all the nobility of that exalted spot, the most sacred spot in all of earth, "dung happens."
            
And dung is good.  Dung is real.  As real as the laws of  Mishpatim.  If God is in all the details of daily life, God is most certainly in the dung.  

Shabbat Shalom!