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Friday, May 31, 2019

Shabbat-O-Gram for May 31:Big Win for Israeli Democracy; Jerusalem Day and D-Day; Keep-On Kippah; What is Tikkun Olam?

Shabbat-O-Gram

The Shabbat-O-Gram is sponsored by 
Marni and Michael Handel in honor of their daughter,

Elexis, becoming a Bat Mitzvah.


"Pray for the Peace of Jerusalem," by Shalom of Safed

This Sunday we celebrate Jerusalem Day.  

Click here to see our Jerusalem info packet, including an annotated time-line, maps explaining ancient history and current events, Biblical and Talmudic sources, as well as poetry and art.  Look at the maps on pages 11 and 12 to better understand the city's shifting boundaries since 1967 and the enormous challenges facing those hoping for two distinct, contiguous states.
 



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Shabbat Shalom!

Mazal tov to Lexi Handel, who becomes Bat Mitzvah this Shabbat morning, with the portion of Bechukotai wrapping up the book of Leviticus.  Click here to read Adam Kinderman's commentary from last Shabbat.  During the service, which had an American History theme (see his speech for the reason why), I gave Adam an American Jewish History Quiz, which he aced.  Take it yourself and see how you do! Answers are at the bottom of this O-Gram.

A special thank-you to Ellen Gottfried, who will be leaving our office staff on Friday after nearly a decade and a half of service to our congregation.

Jerusalem Day is commemorated on Sunday.  As is often the case, TBE congregants will be all over the map this Sunday, doing good wherever we go.  Some will be in NYC to march for Israel, others will be marching on behalf of the Bennett Cancer Center here in Stamford, and still others will be heading to Washington for the American Jewish Committee's Global Forum.  That's where I'll be, and I'll report back on what I see.

Next Thursday is the 75th anniversary of D-DayHistorians estimate that 600,000 American Jews served in the American military during World War II, and that giant collective experience marked the "coming of age" for the American Jewish community. See Rabbi James Rudin's commentary from RSN.

Next weekend is Shavuot, with services, blintzes and other goodies on Sunday and Monday mornings, June 9 and 10.  On June 8, following Sisterhood Shabbat in the morning, we'll join with Temple Sinai at 8 PM to welcome the festival with a Tikkun Leyl Shavuot - a session of study, meditation and song.  The cantors and rabbis of the two congregations will lead.  Here's the info:
Cultivating Kindness
A Tikkun Leyl Shavuot
Sat. June 8 @ 8:00 PM at Temple Beth El
Join us for meditation and conversation, through sacred song and reflection
As we focus on the middot (Divine Ethical Qualities) of
Patience, equanimity, fear and humility
Nurturing the better angels of our nature
As we join hands with our neighbors
*cheesecake included!
For a sneak preview, here are three tips to practice equanimity, and here is a practice for when you lose patience.  Interested in cultivating humility? Click here.  And click here for fear.


Keep on Kippot in Germany

This yarmulke cut-out from a major German tabloid, as reported here in the Jerusalem Post, is an encouraging response to the upsurge in anti-Semitism in Europe.  For an item devoid of any official religious meaning, the kippah has become perhaps the most meaningful garment Jews wearOn the surface, it seems to pale when compared to other ritual objects. Unlike the tallit, it has no foundation in the Torah and law; unlike the siddur, it can be tossed into the garbage. It has long been the butt of jokes, partly because it sounds more like a Japanese motorcycle than a ritual garment, but mostly because our ambivalence regarding the yarmulke mirrors our ambivalence about Judaism itself.  (See my essay on the ubiquitous yarmulke, which also appears in Mensch-Marks.)

What is more distressing even than the upsurge in anti-Semtism is that the German government appears to be giving in to it, as was evidenced by the official who warned Jews not to wear kippot in public. This only encourages more attacks and validates the efforts of those whose goal is to intimidate, to convince Jews that Germany cannot be a home for them.  The response of non-Jewish Germans donning the kippah is reminiscent of the Montana menorahs placed in windows throughout Billings in response to anti-Semitic attacks from KKK and skinheads. Such gestures address the problem constructively and courageously.  Advising people to hide their religious diversity in the public square does not.  While there are lots of places where I personally would opt for a baseball cap rather than a kippah (including parts of Jerusalem), were I a government official I would not be recommending it.

Meanwhile, as admirable as those cut-out kippot may be, I recommend that readers of Bild check out our TBE gift shop.


Is "Tikkun Olam" Authentically Jewish?

A number of conservative thought leaders have been suggesting that the notion of "Tikkun Olam," "world repair," a foundation for the Jewish ethic of social justice - which happens to parallel many causes identified as progressive, is somehow counterfeit and not authentically Jewish.  I don't intend to get into a political debate here, but it is clear to me that delegitimizing has become an urgent agenda item for those hoping to loosen American Jews' long-established tendency to vote for candidates who embrace principles of social, economic and environmental justice.  


As this balanced analysis of the matter from the Jewish Funders' Network explains, "Around 70% of Jews in America believe that “working for justice and equality” is a key part of what being Jewish is all about. They often equate it with “holding liberal values” broadly understood, and consider these values a key component of the American Jewish experience. They note, rightly, that there’s a big overlap between those liberal values and traditional Jewish ones."
The meaning of the term has evolved over the centuries, but its roots are biblical and the term is found in our daily prayers - most specifically in the second paragraph of the Alenu, which speaks of "repairing the world to create a heaven on earth."  The Jewish Funders' Network article explains, "It would take gallons of ink to list all the traditional sources that encourage us to embark on what we call today Tikkun Olam. Considering how many of these sources are traditionally understood to be directly and authoritatively quoting God, whoever has an issue with Tikkun Olam needs to take it up with the Boss Himself. So no, it’s not a marginal idea that evil liberals brought to the forefront of the Jewish agenda; it’s been central to Judaism for millennia."  

That article then goes on to point out that, while Tikkun Olam is central to an authentic Judaism, it is not all that there is to Judaism.  "Judaism has a history of emphasizing timely aspects of our tradition, even to the detriment of others. The Pharisees emphasized the Oral Tradition over literal interpretations of the Torah; the Mussar movement emphasized moral virtue; the rationalists emphasized the philosophical elements in Judaism; kabbalists, the mystical; Hasidim the emotional over the intellectual and mitnagdim ( 18th-19th century opponents of Hasidism), learning and sternness over fervor. By stressing one particular aspect of Judaism (probably to the detriment of others), Tikkun Olam advocates are keeping in line with millennia of precedent."
The embrace of Tikkun Olam needs to be nuanced.  We need to understand that those two words should not signal an uncritical acceptance of an entire political agenda.  We need to be able to question aspects of it.  In Israel, for instance, social justice needs to be weighed sometimes against security needs; and short term economic concerns must be weighed against long term universal visions. Just as airlines instruct us to put on our own oxygen mask before helping another, sometimes you've got to feed yourself before you can feed the world.

But world repair is a bedrock Jewish concern.  To prove this point conclusively, Rabbi David Seidenberg has assembled 29 Jewish sources on Tikkun Olam.  Click here to see them all.  The next time you hear someone parroting talking points disparaging the vision of Judaism that nearly three quarters of American Jews embrace, pull out Rabbi Seidenberg's packet.  Progressive Judaism is not the only version of Judaism out there - but it as every bit as authentic as all the rest.


A Political Earthquake in Israel


While we here in American are never lacking for things to keep us up at night, especially in dealing with threats to first amendment rights and to the rule of law, I've been sounding the alarm for the past couple of weeks about an enormous threat to Israeli democracy.  Israelis understood the dangers, as a huge rally last weekend in Tel Aviv demonstrated, one that brought together most of the Israeli political spectrum, including Arab parties.

Daniel Sokatch wrote, "Israelis gathered in the tens of thousands, pouring into the streets around the Tel Aviv Museum and standing shoulder to shoulder from Shaul Hamelech Boulevard to Weizmann Street. These were citizens saying "NO" to a prime minister running roughshod over democratic norms. The protest was a resounding response to the very real threats to the independence of the judiciary - all in service of a desperate prime minister's attempt to avoid criminal indictment. It is a showing that should stiffen the spines of champions of democracy in Israel and around the world."

To the shock of everyone, Prime Minister Netanyahu failed to gain that crucial 61st Knesset member to cobble together a narrow right wing government, as he was thwarted by Avidor Liberman, not usually a big supporter of democratic norms - and the best Bibi could do was have the brand new Knesset dissolve itself (its only legislative "achievement") and set up new elections for September.

I watched live coverage of this vote on i24 and the commentators said it "looks like Tisha B'Av" as they voted.  I took a screen shot (see it above) and the Prime Minister's face looked particularly ashen. In the short term, his gambit to curtail or even kill judicial review has failed and Israeli democracy is safe. 

Since it's important for American Jews to understand what is happening, I'm sharing here an article by one of Israel's best known political analysts, Yossi Verter of Ha'aretz, who explains that Bibi's face was ashen because he knows that his chances of escaping justice just took a humongous hit. You can also read Newsweek pundit Marc Schulman's analysis here.

Analysis: Even Netanyahu Knows It's Over - Yossi Verter, Ha'aretz

Netanyahu may win the new election, but it will be too late to push through the High Court override and the immunity from prosecution: Who will sign a coalition agreement with someone on his political deathbed?

On Thursday, May 30, the countdown to the end of the Netanyahu era began.

On the very same day, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu was supposed to look over five signed and sealed coalition agreements with his government allies. He was supposed to call up the Knesset members from his Likud party and divide up the remnants his coalition partners left behind after they finished extorting positions and promises from him.

Next Monday, the Knesset was supposed to have convened for a festive session and voted its support for the fifth Netanyahu government, his fourth consecutive government since May 2009. The next day, without any delay or pause, a marathon of two-headed personal-legal legislation was to begin: One part was meant to rescue the suspect from justice, and the other was meant to deal a lethal blow to the Israeli legal system, its independence and power.

But it won't happen now. Not here. Israel is going to the polls again on September 17. This is the insanity, Italy at its worst. A politician entangled up to his neck in crimes, with a harsh indictment hanging over his head - is dragging an entire country to the polls and no one in his party and no one in his planned coalition has put his foot down and told him: Stop! It's over! Leave us alone!

Netanyahu realized on Wednesday night, and he showed it clearly, that the story was over. Elections on September 17, a new government - assuming that he wins and puts together 61 MKs without Avigdor Lieberman, this time - at the beginning of November. This will be a month after his pre-indictment hearing. The Supreme Court override law will not have passed, nor will he have immunity from prosecution: There will be an indictment and Netanyahu will be history. It is doubtful that any of his "natural partners" will agree to sign a coalition agreement with someone on their political deathbed.

One of the most despicable days in the history of the Israeli parliament came to an end late at night on Wednesday when the only 30-day-old 21st Knesset - it is superfluous to say the shortest in Israel's history - met to vote to dissolve itself. Netanyahu, the man who on the night of the last election on April 9, arrogantly and drunken with power celebrated his "incredible victory," entered the Knesset chamber defeated and humiliated.

So far, Israel has had two candidates for prime minister who failed in their task to form a government after being given the task by the president: Shimon Peres in 1990, after the political "dirty trick" of breaking up the second unity government; and Tipi Livni in 2008, after the resignation of Ehud Olmert. Peres did not have 65 MKs in his bloc, and Livni was a political rookie who had never put together a government coalition.

Netanyahu is the third prime ministerial candidate to earn this dubious honor. His failure is the most stinging of the three: It came immediately after the election, after a clear victory for the right and with political experience that no one else in the Knesset had. What is the right-wing bloc now?  Avigdor Lieberman, whose insistence on the approval of the passage of the new Draft Law - which no one understands in detail, has driven the political system crazy - can no longer be considered an integral part of the bloc. Not as long as Netanyahu is its leader.

This is Netanyahu's second total defeat this decade, after his efforts to prevent the election of Reuven Rivlin as president five years ago ended in a rout. To add to the rage and humiliation, Netanyahu spent the tensest hours on Wednesday in a pitiable, sweaty, humiliating and ineffectual pursuit after potential deserters on the left. Both individuals and groups.

Our magician tried to pull a rabbit from up his sleeve, but what came out was a dead parakeet - and then another one and another. What didn't he offer? The defense and finance portfolios to Tal Rousso and Avi Gabbay of Labor - who fell into the trap and said he would "consider" the offer - the Communications Ministry to Labor and the Justice Ministry to Shelly Yacimovich. He promised to give up on the Supreme Court override bill and the immunity law, which were intended to be his escape tunnel from a trial, and possibly prison. Yes, he was even willing to sacrifice the things most precious to him, the original reason he moved up the election, just so he could stay in office and hope that even after the indictment he could continue on in office - as the law allows.

Wednesday's disgrace only shows how much of a failure the coalition negotiations were. He needed to have made such arrangements earlier, at his leisure, in secret. After all, he suspected Lieberman form the very beginning, so why didn't he make sure he had an alternative? That is the price of his arrogance.

Oh... and the American Jewish History Quiz answers: C,A,B,D,A

Shabbat Shalom 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Shabbat-O-Gram for the end of Pesach

Shabbat-O-Gram

הַנִּצָּנִים נִרְאוּ בָאָרֶץ, עֵת הַזָּמִיר הִגִּיעַ; וְקוֹל הַתּוֹר, נִשְׁמַע בְּאַרְצֵנוּ

"The flowers appear on the earth, the time of singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land."
Song of Songs 2:12
  


Passover 2016 in Israel: Buttercups on Kibbutz Nir Yitzchak

 
Passover 2016 in Stamford: Blossoms at Beth El Cemetery


Happy End of Passover to all.  The seventh and eighth days are full festival days; our office will be closed on Friday and services will take place on Friday and Shabbat mornings at 9:30.  On Friday, Gerry Ginsburg will give a guest d’var Torah.  Saturday’s service will include Yizkor prayers.  The festival ends on Saturday night slightly after 8:30 PM, or whenever three stars appear in the sky and the aroma of hot bagels rises over Fairway.  Ironically, Israelis, who normally observe only seven days of Passover, will also have an eighth day of breadlessness, because the festival runs right into Shabbat.  Sorry about that, Israelis (not!).

Text-Driving a Siddur

 

Friday night’s service will be at the usual time of 7:30. Since I will be “going solo” this week (we miss you, Cantor Fishman!), and since the service is abridged (we skip Lecha Dodi and other parts of Kabbalat Shabbat on a festival) I thought we would take the opportunity to sample the new Conservative prayer book.  Read about Siddur Lev Shalem here.  Our ritual committee has taken a good look at it and recommended it.  I’ve also been sharing insights from it over the past several weeks and inviting those attending our services to peruse the text.  Before our board discusses it over the coming weeks, I thought it would be a nice idea for us to take it out for a test drive at services. You can call it a text-drive.  Your reactions will be most helpful!  On Friday night we’ll also be getting a briefing on the much anticipated arrival this week of a Syrian refugee family to our community.

Go in Peace, Return in Peace
 

Several of our students and families will be heading to Israel this coming week with Carmel Academy and Bi Cultural Day School, and Steph and Mindy Hausman will be going on the March of the Living.  We wish them all a safe and amazing journey! And if any of them are in town this Friday or Shabbat, we are offering an aliyah to the Torah and special blessing, on the house!


Mazal tov to our 7th Graders (class wedding is Sunday)!

 



Judaism as a Path of Love
Song of Songs and the Holocaust


It’s customary on Passover to read the Song of Songs, arguably the greatest love poem ever written (with a polite nod to a certain W. Shakespeare).  In a speech delivered in early April to a group of interfaith scholars,  Rabbi Arthur Green looked at the centrality of the Song of Songs in framing Judaism as a path of love, rather than legalism and obedience.  He writes:

The Song of Songs was in fact first spoken at Sinai itself, the day of the mystical marriage (between God and Israel). While the public voice of God may have been heard as declaring do’s and don’ts, at the very same moments He was whispering sweet nothings into His beloved’s ear. 

To stand in God’s presence, Green asserts, is to live a life shaped by love.

As you all hopefully know by now, this message has been a central one in my own rabbinate.  It has been an uphill climb to convince people that Judaism really is a religion based on love, for two main reasons:

One is that it flies in the face of what the non-Jewish world - as well as most Jews - have long considered Judaism to be.  We’ve bought into the notion of the vengeful “Old Testament” God and of Judaism's obsession with do’s and don’ts.  It’s noteworthy that the Song of Songs didn’t make it into the Hebrew Bible until the last possible minute, during the second century - by which time the Gospels had already taken shape, along with their negative stereotypes of Judaism.  Perhaps Rabbi Akiva had that PR problem in mind when he became such an advocate for adding the Song to the canon.

Secondly, there is the specter of the Holocaust.  Green understands that it is very difficult to speak of God’s love when so many are still asking where that loving God was in 1944.  Green asserts that the Jewish soul is only now beginning the slow process of recovering from that trauma.  That progress is enabling us once again to explore spiritual path of openheartedness and compassion, less burdened by anger, cynicism and grief. 

Green’s essay is an important one, especially this week, as we are nestled between past and future, closing Passover and re-reading the Song of Songs as nature comes to life around us, while anticipating Yom Hashoah this coming Wednesday night (join me at our community commemoration at Temple Sinai), seven decades years since the last embers of Auschwitz were doused.

By now you should have received the Yellow Candle from our Men’s Club.  Read about the Yellow Candle here.  It will be very meaningful for every TBE family to remember the Holocaust by lighting this candle during the coming week.  By supporting this program, we can also support Holocaust education for our teens by helping them to go on the March of the Living and other similar pilgrimages (including our TBE trip to Europe now scheduled for the summer of 2017).
Judaism as a Path of Kindness
Pirke Avot 6:6 as it appears in Siddur Lev Shalem

During the 49 day period between Passover and Shavuot (the Omer), it is customary to read that classic work of rabbinic wit and wisdom, Pirke Avot.  In chapter 6 of Avot, we find a list of 48 qualities that enable us to acquire Torah, nearly a perfect match for this period of counting as we ascend to Sinai to receive the Torah.  That connection  has been drawn explicitly by rabbis devoted to ethical behavior, or "Mussar" as it is called. Each of these Middot (qualities) is a crucial turn on the path toward a life of holiness - and happiness.  My suggestion is that we each try to explore one of them each day.  You can find the full  list here, or click on each of them below for helpful study guides. I plan on focusing on each of them later in the year as we approach the High Holidays - but it’s never too early to start!

















































Getting our Goat
   



Last week I wrote about the tragic overtones of the song “Chad Gadya.” Little did I know how, just as I was writing this, another little goat nearly caused a great deal of commotion.  If the headline weren’t so scary it would have been laughable: “Three Jewish Men Arrested for Attempting Goat Sacrifice” on the Temple Mount in Jerusalem, just as Passover was about to begin.  That tiny piece of real estate has borne its share of controversy.  Just a few days before, in an act of outright anti-Semitism, UNESCO tried todeny Jewish ties to the Temple Mount altogether.  What this combustible piece of land requires is level headedness and compromise.  Not an attempt at restoring an ancient ritual that many very pious Jews consider barbaric.  Maimonides himself considered sacrifices a paltry pagan predecessor to prayer.  Thankfully, and all kid-ding aside, the Israeli police once again proved that they are the G.O.A.T., at least when it comes to goat-spotting, and an international incident was averted - though I suspect that for the goat the reprieve was only temporary. 

 
Shabbat Shalom and 
Happy End of Pesach!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

We Still Haven't Put Bernie Away (Jewish Week)


Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Joshua Hammerman
Special To The Jewish Week


Bad Boy Bernie is the gift that keeps on taking.

Although tucked away in jail for the next 148 years, Bernard Madoff continues to be front-page news, as new revelations continue to appear about the people who bought into his massive Ponzi scheme. People like Mets owner Fred Wilpon, who traveled in the same social circles as Madoff and who claims to have been bamboozled like the rest of Bernie’s victims. Irving Picard, the trustee for Madoff victims, is seeking hundreds of millions of dollars from the Mets, whom he believes were knowing co-conspirators to the fraud — or, if they didn’t know, they should have. One would think that astute businessmen would be able to sniff out a Ponzi a mile away, but evidently when that fraud is returning 10 percent every year, the nose becomes stuffy.

Bernie’s legacy is much more insidious than a few headlines about wayward baseball owners. Cheating has become rampant in our culture. We may have put Bernie away, but he did not take our greed with him.

Greed alone does not a cheater make. Two other factors must be required: pressure and opportunity. People must feel that there is no choice except to cheat in order to keep up with everyone else, because, after all, everyone else is cheating. Plus, it must be relatively easy to break the rules. Those two factors are now more prevalent than ever.

How widespread is cheating? Take the recent scandal at the University of Central Florida, where 600 business students were forced to retake an exam after the professor got wind that hundreds of them had gotten access to the answer key online. The professor’s speech to the students has become a YouTube classic. The incident has sparked soul searching on that campus and well beyond, as people have speculated about a generational divide as to what constitutes cheating.

A recent poll by Common Sense Media reports that 23 percent of teens said that accessing stored notes on a cell phone during a test is not cheating, and 19 percent gave the thumbs up to downloading essays from the Internet to turn in as their own. The current “Tiger Mom” craze and the popular documentary “Race to Nowhere” depict a world of unbelievable pressures on teens to achieve — and the rampant cheating that naturally occurs in a Lombardi-esque society when winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.

According to one survey, 74 percent of undergraduate business students admit to trying to gain unfair advantage on tests and other assignments. These are the students who will be steering the economy 10 years from now — steering it, apparently, into another moral ditch. People are cheating everywhere, in their public and private lives, in the workplace and in the bedroom — but I’ll leave Kosher Sex for others to discuss, while I focus on Kosher Stocks. Business schools report an upsurge in cheating. Scandals still abound — most of them likely not yet discovered.

If current [cheating] trends continue, the Wall Street gang of 2020 will make the slithery coterie of 2008 look like a Cub Scout pack in comparison.
Financial scandals have become a fixed component of our civilization. In 2003, Forbes created a Corporate Scandal Sheet tracking major corporate accounting scandals of the prior year. They listed 22, including Halliburton, Enron, K-Mart and Merck. But those were the “good old days,” an innocent age when most people would have thought a Ponzi scheme was something hatched up by Henry Winkler on “Happy Days,” quaint in comparison to what was to come.

Then in 2008, we were walloped by an ethical Katrina — or more accurately, Sodom and Gomorrah — because the cascade of outrageous revelations seemed biblical in scale. Shearson begat Siemens, which begat Morgan Stanley, which begat the auto companies’ mismanagement and AIG’s post bailout spa retreat. And towering above all was Madoff’s magnum opus, called by British investor Nicola Horlick “the biggest financial scandal, probably in the history of the markets.”

Madoff perpetrated the mother of all Ponzi schemes, but in his wake more Ponzis were uncovered, and the rogue’s gallery grew to include such schemers as Allan Stanford, Barry Tannenbaum, Scott Rothstein and Brian Jared Smart. The list of the investigated, indicted and convicted since Madoff is long and tawdry, a Who’s Who of corruption and the collateral damage has been almost incalculable.

But these scandals have yet to produce the moral sea change one might have expected in their wake. Washington has punted on serious reform, which is to be expected, but religious organizations have also been strangely apathetic — and that is blasphemous. At a time when honorable voices have most been needed to be heard, few have risen above the din of talk show accusations and Capitol Hill grandstanding. In fact, I can’t think of one.

When Bernie Madoff was captured, we had a narrow window of opportunity, a moment when religious, political and business leaders could have come together to transform the culture. That moment has passed, and now we’re faced with the worst possible scenario, a landscape of public mistrust and cynicism for a business world that has yet to be reformed. This is bad for everyone, but for Madoff’s coreligionists it is even worse. Like it or not, Bernie Madoff has become the poster boy for Jewish business ethics, and now that he is back on the front pages, we’re back in the morass.

We may have put Bernie away, but we’ve yet to exorcise Madoff’s disease from our midst. As long as greed is allowed to run amok, we’ll be hard-pressed to return to the values of basic honesty and the hard-earned dollar. Religious, political and business leaders need to unite now to neutralize Wall Street’s moral meltdown — Jewish leaders especially, because the stench we smell comes from the smoke-filled rooms of our own country clubs and philanthropic boardrooms. If we don’t, that will be the greatest scandal of all.

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman is spiritual leader of Temple Beth-El in Stamford, Conn.