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Thursday, February 23, 2023

In This Moment: "I Am Jewish," Shabbat for Ukrainian Jews, What does Adar joy look like?

 

In This Moment


As the Israeli government plows ahead in passing the initial readings of massive upheaval that will remove Israel's precious judicial checks and balances, here is a letter sent by the Federations of North America to the prime minister and opposition leader. At the bottom of this email, I've pasted the Conservative Movement's most recent resolution. The Federation letter correctly states that "such a dramatic change to the Israeli system of governance will have far-reaching consequences in North America, both within the Jewish community and in the broader society." I am not confident that the ruling coalition will slow down this process, now that it is rolling downhill. They are too close to their goal. It also is clear that the security situation is unraveling speedily on the West Bank. Perhaps we need to emulate Queen Esther with some heavy duty prayer and three days of fasting. I just hope that American Jewry's purported leaders have a solid Plan B in mind for when all the diplomatic niceties fail. It would be even better if they made those plans public now, to provide an incentive for the government to stop this process and actually negotiate.

What does Adar's joy look like?


Adar is the most joyous month of the Jewish year, but what kind of joy is it? Last Shabbat I proposed eight responses, based on material in a source packet on joy that can be accessed at this link. You can watch my brief talk on the video below.

Adar's happiness is not the stoic acceptance and autumnal gratitude that characterize Sukkot joy. Rather, Adar joy is filled with anticipation; it is a joy that is enduring, one that erases worry and promotes intimacy, a re-communing with nature, community and God - and a joy of transition and transformation. With the overturning of winter's chill, this is a joy at the margins of life, where sometimes rules are meant to be broken and national calamities can be suddenly reversed. Adar is the joy of liminality, where previously unbreachable boundaries suddenly melt away, where what seemed impregnable suddenly becomes pregnant with possibility. Adar is, in fact, called the pregnant month; seven times every nineteen years, it births a leap month, an extra Adar, an added bundle of joy.


And what do you do if you feel joy? The great poet Mary Oliver shares a suggestion that seems perfect for our times, and for the days before Purim.

"I Am Jewish"


In anticipation of what will quite possibly be my final "Intro to Judaism" class here, beginning next Thursday, I present this gem from the archives. Back in 2004, I asked the congregation to share what it means to be a Jew. You can find some of the responses here. That year I dedicated my High Holidays talks to that subject, inspired by the heroism of Daniel Pearl, who died as a martyr while proclaiming "I am Jewish." Here how I concluded that sermon cycle discussing what it means to be Jewish:


What does it mean to say “I am Jewish?” To be a Jew is to have the courage to traverse the narrowest of bridges on the highest of mountain passes – but then, to find it within our hearts widen that bridge, through the power of our convictions and the depth of our capacity to love. To be a Jew is to act, because we can, to be humble, because we should, to confront fear and look the Evil Eye straight in the eye, because we dare, and to love, unconditionally, all people of all backgrounds, all over the world, because we must.


What do you think? Sign up for the ten-session class, which begins next Thursday at 7, and let us know.

More on those "He Gets Us" ads....
After I wrote my op-ed expressing concerns about the billion dollar Jesus "Gets Us" marketing campaign, I received this email from a clergy friend and colleague at a large church here in Stamford. It helped put it all in perspective for me - and really made my day. (I also found the signature slightly ironic - but "got it.") With her permission, I'm sharing it here.
Hi Josh,
I pray you and your family are well this day. I wanted to thank you for your recent article that found its way into the Presbyterian Outlook magazine recently responding to the Super Bowl commercial He Gets Us. 
I was having a long discussion with our youth here at church on Sunday after worship, and when it came up the kids had lots of questions, but one was, "what have people of other faiths said?" They really felt it was what one boy called it, "a really rude commercial to people of other faiths." So, I pulled up your article and we all read it together. 
First off, they were very impressed I knew you. Second, it really helped them process things and helped give them a framework for how problematic it was for people of different faiths as well as how it was problematic for them as Christians. We have had a lot of conversations about how many Christians put out generic messages of Jesus' love but that it always seems to come with conditions that aren't always clear at first. It's been a bit of an eye-opening thing for many of them. 
Again, thank you for the work you do. it's a pleasure to call you a colleague in these crazy times. 
Peace in Christ,
Rev. S....

Recommended Reading

Classic Parsha Packets for Terumah

Where Does God Live?


Why would God insist on a physical place, in the desert, in which to dwell? Can't one experience holiness everywhere?

Love, Unity (God's and Ours), the Sh'ma and the Tabernacle. Why One is Not the Loneliest Number


A deep exploration of our prayer of Unity, in light of the construction of our place of Unity.

Holy Spaces: The Tabernacle, the Temple and the Kotel - More verses are dedicated to the construction of the tabernacle than any other thing in the Torah. What makes these places "holy?" Does God truly dwell there?

The Tent Peg Business, Revisited


In this week's portion we begin a long description of the construction of the tabernacle in the wilderness. When the tabernacle is completed, near the end of the Book of Exodus, we are told, “And it came to pass that the tabernacle was ‘one’” (Exod. 36:13). Commenting on this curious expression, Rabbi Mordecai Yosef Leiner of Izbica (d. 1854) observes:

 

In the building of the tabernacle, all Israel were joined in their hearts; no one felt superior to his fellow. At first, each skilled individual did his own part of the construction, and it seemed to each one that his work was extraordinary. Afterwards, once they saw how their several contributions to the “service” of the tabernacle were integrated – all the boards, the sockets, the curtains and the loops fit together as if one person had done it all. Then they realized how each one of them had depended on the other. Then they understood how what all they had accomplished was not by virtue of their own skill alone but that the Holy One had guided the hands of everyone who had worked on the tabernacle. They had only later merely joined in completing its master building plan, so that “it came to pass that the tabernacle was one” (Exod. 36:13). Moreover, the one who made the Holy Ark itself was unable to feel superior to the one who had only made the courtyard tent pegs.

 

This midrash inspired a seminal article that has influenced synagogues greatly over the past two generations. It’s called “The Tent Peg Business,” by Rabbi Lawrence Kushner, and it was more recently updated by his daughter, Rabbi Noa Kushner. These ideas have been integral to my thinking, as a longtime admirer of Lawrence Kushner, whose congregation in Sudbury, MA became a place of pilgrimage for me and many others back when I was in High School. He also spent a weekend here as a scholar in residence back in the ‘90s.  You can find the complete essay at https://ejewishphilanthropy.com/the-tent-peg-business-revisited-part-1/

 

There are so many lessons to be found in this motherlode of out-of-the-box ideas. Here are about a third of the Kushners’ suggestions, many of which have become only more relevant over time.

 

1.   Jews need one another, and therefore congregations, to do primary religious acts that they should not, and probably cannot, do alone. Doing primary religious acts is the only way we have of growing as Jews. Consequently, it is also the only justification for the existence of a congregation. Everything else congregations do, Jews can always do cheaper, easier, and better somewhere else.


2.   There are three ancient kinds of primary Jewish acts: communal prayer, holy study, and good deeds (or in the classical language of Pirkei Avot: avodah, Torah, and g’milut chasadim). This is not a capricious categorization. Prayer (avodah) is emotional: song, candles, dance, meditation, and silence – a matter of the heart. Study (Torah) is intellectual reading, questioning, discussion, and rigorous logic and argument – a matter of the head. And good deeds (g’milut chasadim) are public acts: helping, repairing, matching, fighting, and doing – matters of the hand. Only rare individuals are able to do all three with equal fervor and skill. And so our membership in a congregation and association with a broad spectrum of Jews will compensate for our personal deficiencies.

 

3.   We can broaden the description of primary Jewish acts to include all mitzvot. Specifically, I (Noa Kushner) want to emphasize a religious connection to Israel as well as interpersonal ethics (l’shon hara, etc.).

 

4.   In order to maintain their congregations, Jews must do many other things that are not inherently Jewish. These secondary acts include maintaining a building, raising money, and perhaps forming a board of directors. (It should be here noted, however, that in the long history of our people there have been healthy, vibrant, and solvent congregations that had none of the above.)

 

5.   Congregations, unfortunately, often get so caught up in doing secondary acts that they actually begin to think that maintaining the building, raising money, or the board of directors is the reason for the existence of the congregation. Their members are busy at work, but because they have forgotten why they are at work, their efforts are hollow and come to naught

 

6.    It’s so easy for everything attached to a Jewish organization (websites! dues!) to become sacrosanct. But supportive facets of Jewish communal life (what Lawrence Kushner calls the secondary acts) are ripe for experimental approaches precisely due to the fact that they are not inherently holy. In other words, because the stakes are relatively low, we can afford to swing and miss. 13. Precisely because they are inherently holy, we must also experiment with our approaches to Torah, avodah, and g’milut chasa-dim.

 

7.   A goal of all institutions is stability and longevity. But our question is: At what points do stability and longevity compromise the business of nourishing and enlivening Jews and Jewish experiences?

 

8.   Forty years ago, Dr. Eugene Borowitz wryly proposed the creation of biodegradable congregations – communities that had predetermined life spans. (This may now be happening in many communities even though it was not part of the original plan.) To be sure, some synagogues will continue successfully on their current trajectories. But for many, it may now be time to consider “disruptive business models.” Kodak, for example, lost sight of its primary mission of “capturing moments” and became fixated instead on its own technology. Our own “technology,” too, is only relevant so long as it builds Jews and those ready to practice Jewish life.

 

9.   At the same time, to be sure, an innovative idea is not inherently successful by virtue of its novelty alone. There is only one test: Does the idea build Jews?

 

10.There is no evidence whatsoever to support the notion that people who are drawn into the congregation for an innocuous nonreligious event, such as gourmet cooking, move onto activities of more primary religious worth any sooner than if they had been left alone to discover their own inevitable and personal religious agendas and timetables. Indeed, there is substantial data to suggest that congregations that run many “basement” activities in hopes of getting people from there onto upper floors, only wind up adding on to the basement.

 

11. Just because it works for one generation does not mean it will work for the next. In fact, we might even say that if it worked for one generation, that is a good indication that it will not work for the next.

 

12. It’s time to quit asking: “Who is a Jew?” and, instead, ask: “Who wants to do Jewish?” Enough with being gatekeepers; it’s time to invite in the people who might well want to connect with Judaism but don’t know that they are welcome.

 

13. Finally, the members of the congregation must nurture one another because they need one another; they simply cannot do it alone. Hermits and monasteries are noticeably absent from Jewish history; we are hopelessly communal people.

More Recommended Reading






  • Dealing With Troubling Texts (MJL) This is the question I needed to voice: “Would a holy text say something like this?” I articulate the question in this way in order to make it more, not less, difficult to answer. If this story were found in any other text, it would bother me to the extent that it reflected a certain attitude that was abhorrent. Yet, once the moral judgment was made, and the political investments deconstructed, I would move on. I had then fulfilled my obligation as scholar and teacher. This, however, was not the case when I confronted a text that was part of the sacred core of my tradition.





  • "I was here in 1995, and this time could be worse." (Daniel Gordis) It (almost) doesn’t matter any more what one thinks about the judicial reform. The greatest danger facing Israel may not be the judicial reform (or “judicial overthrow” as others call it), but the civil war that it could spark. This country does not have a gun problem, but there are a lot of guns in the homes of this country. It’s hard to know exactly what civil war looks like, but it’s not hard to imagine violence at any one of the massive protests now popping up across the country. If that should happen, we’re in uncharted territory





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Click here to see enlarged Israeli front pages (English and Hebrew) of this crisis

The bold headlines here read, "The Protest / The Vote."


Hear the headline states, "The Cry," as protesters unscroll Israel's Declaration of Independence. On top it states, "The entire country is flags," an ironic take on a patriotic song usually sung on Independence Day.

Shabbat for Ukrainian Jews


As mark on Friday the one year anniversary of the Russian invasion of Ukraine, we dedicate our services this weekend to all Ukrainians, and in particular to the Jewish community that has been so decimated, yet, like their compatriots, remains resilient. Slava Ukraini. See the materials below (and click here for high resolution pdfs), and make this Ukraine Shabbat part of your home Shabbat experience too.

  
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Thursday, January 26, 2023

In This Moment: "Status Quo," "Transgender" and Other Borrowed Words. International Holocaust Remembrance Day, More A.I., Women of the Wall

 

In This Moment

Click on the photo to hear the service held by the Women of the Wall this week at the Kotel for Rosh Hodesh Shevat. Assisted by an all-women's choir, as you can read in the article below (see the full article here). You'll note a familiar name in the article, Cantor Deborah Katchko-Gray. If you listen to the video, you'll hear the intentionally disruptive loudspeaker nearby, attempting to drown the women out.

Shabbat Shalom


Last week's conversation about A.I.generated a good deal of interest. You can see some of the sermons generated for last week's portion by ChatGPT here and others here. And click on the icon below to listen "live" to my first-ever A.I. assisted sermon delivered here.

International Holocaust Remembrance Day

Friday is International Holocaust Remembrance Day. This year, Yad Vashem is involved in two significant exhibitions, One is at the U.N., where a Book of Names will be dedicated, a literal book with tangible, searchable pages containing the alphabetically arranged names of 4,800,000 Jewish men, women and children murdered by the Nazi Germans and their collaborators during the Holocaust. The names in the Book have been meticulously gathered over the past 70 years by Yad Vashem, the World Holocaust Remembrance Center, from a range of sources, including Pages of Testimony. Empty pages at the end of the Book leave room for over a million names of Holocaust victims still to be recovered. 



I'm especially excited about the "16 Objects" exhibit that will be opening in Berlin. It features unique Holocaust-era items, one from each of the Federal States of Germany, whose stories are intertwined with individual Jews hailing from across that country. The objects range from this toy kitchen to a piano, all of which were sacred to a Jewish family. See the artifacts.

Almost Paradise?

The Garden of Eden in Christianity and Judaism


Join me and our interfaith partners for another of our sessoins based on the new book, "The Bible With and Without Jesus," tonight (Thurs) at 6:30 (note the time - check the flyer for the Zoom link). This week's topic is "Adam and Eve." You can find the chapter here. Join us as we discuss the very different ways Jews and Christians understand the concepts of "Original Sin," "Paradise," and the status of women as reflected in the Genesis account. Are men and women equals in both Creation stories or is the woman "cursed" to be subservient? Is Eden supposed to be a reflection of heaven, or simply a place of where humanity and nature coexist in perfect harmony? Is THAT heaven (or is it Iowa)? Is death a curse? Is the knowledge of good and evil a bad thing? Was the forbidden fruit an apple? Or maybe a fig? Lots to chew on.


How do you say "Status Quo" in Hebrew?

"Statoos K'vo"

Transgender? "Trens-g'endair"

Both are loanwords from English.

What does that say about our sacred language?



Plus, a word about Fauda,

a Hebrew show with an Arabic name


This week's Hebrew Front Page (below) has an English front page right beneath it. Both are from Wednesday's Ha'aretz. Note that in the headline highlighted in yellow, the English term status quo, is transliterated directly into Hebrew (second line, middle). "Netanyahu Promises Jordanian King to Preserve the Status Quo on the Temple Mount." It's odd and a little disconcerting that there is no Hebrew term for "status quo." The status quo on the Temple Mount has been sacrosanct since the 6-Day War, and it is under threat right now, as this article attests (and Jordan's king fears). Preserving the status quo with regard to holy places enables the Muslim authorities to supervise worship while Israel maintains security while (usually) respecting the sanctity of the place for Muslims. That arrangement has allowed for an uneasy but stable peace to prevail for over half a century. By resolving not to resolve the conflict unilaterally, the parties allow the status quo to become a baseline, albeit an imperfect one, forged in compromise, but durable enough to hold things in place until the time is right to address prevailing issues constructively and incrementally. Status quo is so important to Israel's continued survival that it's hard to believe there is no Hebrew word for it. There are six Hebrew words for peace, but not a single one for the time-tested method for preserving it.

Acceptance of the status quo has not only kept peace between Israel and Muslim authorities, but it has also allowed Israel to preserve its own fragile balance between religion and state among the Jewish population, particularly in areas of Shabbat and holiday observances, kashrut, family status, education and the military. So, for example, in some cities buses run on Shabbat and in some they don't. Compromises were made back in the early years, and once that happened, things were kept basically the same, for the sake of peace. It was all about finding some middle ground that everyone could live with, even if no one was completely happy with the arrangement. At its best, status quo allows the pot to simmer just long enough for fresh ideas to germinate. It should not be a prescription for eternal ossification. In some cases adjustments to status quo policies need to be made for compelling moral reasons, especially regarding basic human rights, but allowing Jewish prayer atop the Temple Mount has never been cause to upset the status quo - until now.


Prime Minister Netanyahu traveled all the way to Jordan to assure King Abdullah that he would preserve the status quo, but will he? Watch out for what happens on Passover, when right wing extremists will undoubtedly try to stir the pot by sacrificing a goat in the shadow of Al Aqsa. It's been tried beforejust last year, in fact. The police have stopped these attempts in the past, But now the inmates are running the asylum. The police are supervised by Itamar Ben Gvir, the right wing zealot who has already made his first official visit atop the Mount, and the Temple Mount movement is planning for a robust return of Jews to the site. And this year, Passover, Easter and Ramadan all coincide. Circle the first week of April on your calendars and stock up on canned goods. Things could get very tense around the world.


Still, there is no Hebrew word for "status quo."


And on the very same front page, another word lacks an authentic Hebrew translation.


In the red-highlighted story, about a transgender child being removed from a religious school because of parental pressure, you can see that the term "transgender" is also transliterated directly from English to Hebrew. (Read the entire sorry Ha'aretz story here). There is no Hebrew word yet for "transgender," just an English loanwordlike טלפון, ×’’ינס and ביי ("telephone," "jeans" and "bye") and like "status quo."


In this situation, though, I think I'd rather not see the Israeli language authorities take a crack at creating an organic Hebrew word for trans, considering that the best they've been able to do with LGBTQ is "homo." I'm happy just keeping things as they are. Let English carry the loan-load on this one.


The fact that the Hebrew language can't handle either gender fluidity or historical flexibility, (which maintaining the status quo ironically requires), suggests that Judaism's sacred language might have a problem with fluidity in general. The Hebrew word for fluidity is × ְ×–ִילוּת ("n'zilut")which comes from "nazal," "to ooze." There's another word as well: ×–רימה, ("zrima,"), which comes from the word "zerem," a biblical term for downpour (see Psalm 77:18). Somewhere in between those two words, in between the oozing and the gushing, between stagnation and revolution, there is a simple, flowing stream - a fluidity that recognizes that nothing is static and unchanging, not regarding gender nor ownership of sacred spaces. Because of that, we need to be respectful of people who pray in different ways, for whom the very same location might have a very different history - different but also holy.


Fluidity is a key to understanding how, over the coming few weeks, the Torah cycle takes us from the blood-soaked banks of the Nile to the rising and ebbing tides of the Red Sea, and from the depths of winter's frost to the first oozing of sap on Tu B'Shevat.


In some ways, Israelis have always been very good at going with the flow. But with the current government's approach to both the Temple Mount and LGBTQ, and so many other areas, there has been a considerable hardening of the arteries. That needs to change quickly. As Pharaoh discovered, nothing good comes from a hardened heart.


Which brings me to Fauda, a show that thrives on fluidity. Having binge-watched the fourth season this week, I come away amazed at how interchangeable the Jewish and Arab characters are, as they flow from language to language, from tragedy to tragedy, from love to revenge and back to love again. The great tragedy is that the the fighting protagonists can never see, just for a second, just how similar they are to those they are killing, and in those fleeting moments when they might see it, they are betrayed by those who don't, whose hearts have been hardened beyond repair. The way the show flows from hatred to love, from enemy to friend, and from death to birth, might present the illusion of hope that the cycle can be broken. But the only ones broken in the end are the people themselves,exhausted from their endless battles. Even the births seem tragic because there is little hope but for a repetition of the cycle of stuck-ness, of an eternal, unending, unbending status-quo, and not the good kind of status quo, the one borne of inertia rather than compromise. As if we needed more proof, art imitated life last night in the streets of Jenin, where an israeli raid resulted in the deaths of nine Palestinians.


But transcending a plot that is replete with tragedy, there is one glimmer of hope. This Israeli show that glides effortlessly from Arabic to Hebrew, from Beirut to Tel Aviv, is Netflix's number one show in Lebanon and highly rated throughout the Arab world.


Everyone is watching. and that counts for something. On some level, we're all speaking the same language.


That portends a fluidity that just might upend the "statoos quo" some day, And it just might save us all.

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To this list of 15 top prayer moments, we might now add the final scene of this season of Fauda, but no spoilers. I'll just say that the prayer - at least in part - is the Sh'ma. The finale lent the powerful impression that we are all connected, no matter what tribe we support, at birth, in death, and everywhere in between, but especially in death.




  • Wear It, Plant it: World's First Fully Compostable Footware (No Camels) - You wear it and plant it. Israeli startup Balena has developed what it describes as the world’s first fully compostable plastic fashion product. Balena has developed BioCir, a pioneering plastic that maintains its shape and use like conventional plastic. It’s only when it’s exposed to the specific bacteria and conditions of a compost facility, that the breakdown is triggered – so ethical consumers don’t need to worry about the slides disappearing on their feet. Balena released their first 1,000 pairs of men’s and women’s BioCir slides – with a cinnamon scent – in Tel Aviv, its hometown, together with designated take-back spots for when they wear out. Owners return the slides to be shredded, then planted back into the ground for full biodegradation at a local industrial compost facility, instead of tossing them into the garbage to be landfilled.



  • I want Judd Hirsch to win an Oscar — but not like this (Forward) - In a piece for The Hollywood Reporter, Simi Horwitz said, “Boris is well beyond Jewish stereotype.” I described him variously as the entire fish line at Zabar’s and an entire Upper West Side apartment block. (My editor punched this up with “as scripted by Mel Gibson.”) While there’s no doubting Hirsch’s Jewish bona fides, there is the uncomfortable fact that his performance plays somewhere closer to Eddie Murphy’s Jewish barber shop patron in Coming to America — except that that was funny.I have to say, I don’t blame Hirsch, who is one of two Jewish acting nominees this year with Jamie Lee Curtis for Everything Everywhere All At Once (a film which, in the theatrical cut, credited Jenny Slate’s character as “Big Nose”). I’m more inclined to fault Oscar-nominated screenwriters Tony Kushner and Steven Spielberg, who penned a character bordering on offensive even for a Jew to play, and that would be worth some kind of sanction from the ADL if performed by a gentile.






Parsha Packets for Bo

Did the Exodus really happen - And does it matter? - A provocative discussion of the deeper truths of the Exodus, and whether they need to correspond with proven historical fact.

Deja Jew: Does history repeat itself and if so, is that a good thingJust in time for Groundhog Day.Have you ever experienced a feeling of déjà-vu? What are the “rituals” of our daily lives? How do these rituals help us – or not? Does repeating something make it boring or more meaningful?

Tefillin Sourcebook - The World Wide Wrap is coming up soon, and this week's portion contains the foundation for the laws of tefillin. All the "hows" and "whys" of this ancient, powerful and mysterious ritual - all wrapped up" in a source packet that has been distributed to famlies at the annual "Wrap."

Fear and Faith - "Fighting fear when homes become tombs; leaps of faith from narrow places." Initially prepared after the devastating earthquake in Haiti, this packet looks at the tenth plague and the symbolism of Egypt's hidden meaning as a "narrow place." a place of narrow escape as well as a birth canal toward a new life.



  
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