Showing posts with label bo. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bo. Show all posts

Sunday, January 24, 2021

The restored power of words (Medium )

One of the most inspiring moments of week’s Inauguration was the recitation by the 22-year-old poet Amanda Gorman of her poem, “The Hill We Climb.”  When asked what images from the January 6 attack on the Capitol inspired her, she said something to the effect that she doesn’t perceive the world in images, but in words.  She talked about how her speech impediment had taught her about the unique potency of words, which she considered much more evocative than visual or felt experiences.

And she’s right. We’ve known it all along. But we’ve forgotten.  We say that a picture is worth a thousand words, but a thousand well-chosen words can paint a much clearer portrait of an event than a perfect photo.  Amanda Gorman reminded us of that with her poem, and she managed to do it in just 713 words.

Gorman’s masterwork reminded us of just how word starved we’ve become, as we emerge from a period where literary (and all other) expertise was undervalued, where even daily security briefings went routinely unread.

In the Torah, as in life, words matter, and a sensitivity to the power of every letter – all  304,805 of them, to be precise – is of paramount importance.

Gorman’s poem is a reminder that we now must return to the landscape of language – and as we do, we see that it has suffered nearly as much as other, more natural landscapes, the flooded shorelines, burning forests and parched fields of our desolate world.

Certain words that used to be innocuous have been tarnished forever by the past four years.  Think of “ice.”  It used to be something that you ask for your glass of Coca Cola.  Now if you say “ice” and “coke” in the same sentence, it might have nothing to do with grabbing a cold drink. “ICE” has been tarnished with the fear of abrupt deportation.  One of the most gratifying moments for me this past week, in fact, was when the executive order was signed that effectively ended the random seizures of immigrants.

In that field of tarnished words, we must include the verb “to trump.”  For the past few years, we’ve had to apologize every time we’ve talked about something “trumping” something else.  We’ve strained for alternatives, often settling on awkward formulations like, “bested,” “topped,” “superseded” or “exceeded” rather than “trumped.”  The substitutes work to a degree, but no one can hold an “exceed card.”

And so, as we try to restore the power of language, we wonder whether it will ever be possible to Make Trump a Verb Again.

Donald Trump’s Orwellian attack on truth took a terrible toll on words like “patriot,” “freedom,” “free and fair elections” and “religion.”  “Facts” were virally infected when the word “alternative,” was allowed to get within six feet, as it did early on.  We joke about invented words like “covfefe,” but it is no laughing matter that the truth took a battering.  Bigly.

Some words clanged their way into the room, desecrating our verbal landscape like that Confederate flag in the Rotunda — words like “libtard” spewed like diarrhea from bilious brains, offending especially those like me who have loved ones with intellectual challenges.   Trump’s Twitter trash spared no one, even defaming our canine friends by calling his enemies dogs.  And his responses to any presumed provocations were so predictable as to become cliches, each one degrading our language even more.

Gorman’s poem reminded us of how much we’ve lost, not only to Trump, but to our Covid-induced year of degraded communications.  The pandemic (another word whose meaning has been transformed) has separated us not merely from one another, but also from relationships and travel, the oxygen that fuels new experiences and with them literary flight.  Words were on a respirator before Amanda Gorman rescued them; and paradoxically, only that rescue awakened us to the depth of our descent.  We realized how far we had sunk into the swamp of platitude and convention, how out of sorts our words had become.

Fittingly, while the word “trump” ceased to be a verb connoting bravado, no problem with Biden, who seemed to be bidin’ his time in Iowa and New Hampshire, and we are still biding our time, patiently, while awaiting inoculation.  Yes, the verb “bide” — like patient Joe himself – has survived the war on language.

Other words too managed to hide among the ruins of the four-year Orwellian assault and emerge from the furnace unscathed.  And some are reappearing after an enforced hiatus — words like “decency,”  “dignity,” “civility,” and my personal favorite and nominee for 2021 word of the year, “mensch.” (Full disclosure: I wrote a book about how to be one).

Words can transform worlds.  In Exodus 12, as the tenth plague in Egypt is dramatically depicted, we are introduced to the word that will become central to many faiths: pesach, a term that has developed multiple meanings through centuries of linguistic evolution.  Only in the 16th century did Christian scholar William Tyndale first translate it as “passover,” based on a suggestion by some classical Jewish commentators that it is connected to the word “to skip.” But that is not the only possible meaning of pesach, and when you think about it, why would we want to demean God as playing some kind of primordial game of hopscotch over Israelite homes?

Two other theories of the development of the word pesach are much more satisfying.  One, from the midrash and the medieval commentator Rashi, says it means “to have compassion.”  Another, based on Isaiah 31:5 suggests that it means “to protect.”

So, if those understandings hold, God’s destroyer didn’t “pass over” the houses with the blood on the doorposts.  God had compassion and protected those who resided therein.

What an amazing transformation in language.  To take a mechanical, emotionless act like “passing over,” and injecting it with compassion, turning a bloodstained home into a shelter, a place of divine caring and of sanctity.

Kind of like what happened at the Capitol this week.

Granted, we’ve come too far to change the name of the holiday from “Passover” to “Compassion-not-over” or some such.  In any case, the word pesach should not be a harbinger of vengeance, vindication, or of passing over people that you care for;  it should be a celebration of the power of love.

There’s one other meaning for pesach that is proposed by commentators. The word “pisay-ach” can also mean “lame,” as in Isaiah 35:6 “And the lame shall leap like a deer, and the tongue of the dumb shall sing out loud.” Perhaps it’s not the angel of death who is doing the leaping, but the rest of us, those of us challenged by the afflictions of life, yet able to overcome enslavement… those who can’t walk but suddenly are able to leap.  Just as those with speech impediments, like Amanda Gorman and Joe Biden – and Moses, for that matter – who were never “dumb” in the least, are able to sing out loud with magical words that inspire us all.

Friday, January 22, 2021

In This Moment: Rolling Up Our Sleeves

In This Moment
 Shabbat-O-Gram, January 22, 2021

Shabbat Shalom!

So nu? Bo!

I'll speak more about this eventful week at services this evening. But as we embark on this next phase of our journey together, the first line from this week's portion comes to mind. Moses is commanded by God to "come to Pharaoh," (Bo el Par'aoh). Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai in the Zohar asks: Why does the Torah say "Come to Pharoah", it should have been "Go to Pharaoh", why say "come"? Rabbi Ashlag replies: "The difference between come and go, is that "come" means that we go together, as one says to a friend: 'come'."

It's true that in Hebrew, we often will say "bo" idiomatically as a means of starting a class, a project or a conversation.  It's similar to the way we might use the word "nu" in Yiddish.  "Nu...let's get started." (Here's some history of "nu" from the Forward).  I'm not sure there is an English parallel.  I suppose there's "so..." which is often used as an initiator in conversation.  (Next time you find yourself watching talking heads on cable news, first ask yourself whether you might be better off reading a book or taking a walk.  It's time to breathe deeply and let the world be boring for a little while.  But then, count how many times people begin what they are saying with the word "so.")

"So" and "bo" are far from synonymous.  The former is a simple silence breaker, a neutral expression designed to shift the topic or answer a question.  Bo brings with it a sense of purpose.  It's a word that summons us to roll up our sleeves and get to work.  It's not merely an initiator of action, it's a call to action.  In English "come" is usually a command reserved for dogs, one of the first words most dogs learn.  It's also only the second Torah portion whose name is a command.  The first, from Genesis, is "Go!" the command to Abraham (Lech Lecha) to leave their homeland.  God sends Abraham and Sarah off on that journey.  With Moses, God announces that God is coming along for the ride.

In Hebrew, we begin a new venture with "Bo."  Come.  And in the true spirit of Hebrew, the journey is never taken alone.  As Rabbi Ashlag states, it is a journey that we must take together. 

This new journey that began on Wednesday is one that is best taken together.  Unity has all kinds of political implications, which will sort themselves out.  I'm talking about a more fundamental unity, one that sees the innate dignity in everyone around us, one that sees everyone, no matter who they voted for, as a fellow traveler.  

So "bo natchil."  Come, let's begin.  Let's roll up our sleeves and get to work!

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Here are some interesting items to read and watch.


Check out this Israeli song of hope during the latest wave of Covid 
(make sure to set it for cc to get English subtitles)

שחר נהרי, נועם צוריאלי, אייל מזיג - כשנצא מזה | Kshenetse Mize
שחר נהרי, נועם צוריאלי, אייל מזיג - כשנצא מזה | Kshenetse Mize (When We Emerge from This)

And speaking of soaring anthems of hope, read Amanda Gorman's poem again and again...

Or better yet, watch it:

Amanda Gorman's inaugural poem 'The Hill We Climb'
Amanda Gorman's inaugural poem 
'The Hill We Climb'




Watch Senator Warnock's sermon at the Temple in Atlanta last Shabbat.

Martin Luther King Jr. Shabbat featuring annual sermon by Rev. Raphael G. Warnock
Martin Luther King Jr. Shabbat featuring annual sermon by Rev. Raphael G. Warnock




What Trees Can Teach Us

Join Katie Kaplan and me for our adult Tu B'Shevat Seder this Wednesday at 7 PM.  Go to this Zoom link to participate. Passcode: 661785.  We'll explore the kabbalistic, Zionist and environmentalist roots of this increasingly popular holiday.  As with a Passover seder, we'll drink four cups, representing the four worlds, which represent the four spiritual realms in which we live. To participate fully, it helps to have some white and red wine or grape juice nearby, along with examples of the symbolic foods listed in the chart below.  And below that you'll find my own personal tribute to trees.  You can preview our haggadah or take a look at another example.  Join us on Wednesday as we inaugurate a new TBE tradition!

 
 
 
Tu B'Shevat has changed over time, reinventing itself in at least four incarnations: Talmudic, Kabbalist, Zionists and environmentalist.  Now we can add one more dimension: relational.  trees are teaching humans how we might all get along.
 
Deuteronomy 20 asks, "Are trees of the field human" that they should callously be cut down?  No, they aren't human - but the Torah implies that they might be able to teach humans a lot about how to act toward innocent bystanders in times of war.  From the very beginning, trees have been seen as receptacles of our highest aspirations - the Torah itself is called a "tree of life."
 
I've always been inspired by Shel Silverstein's timeless classic, "The Giving Tree" (which you can read here in full).  It speaks of how a tree continues to give of itself long after it is no longer useful, even when it becomes merely a stump.  It's a lovely poem, but the premise, that trees actually form relationships, seems a little far-fetched.
 
Or does it?
 
Now we are finding that trees indeed interact with those around them. Dr. Tamir Klein of Israel's Weitzman Institute recently made a startling discovery that neighboring trees relate with one another in complex ways. Klein found that the same trees not only compete for resources such as light and nutrients, but also engage in sharing.  Trees form communities and protect one another, and amazingly, they also form families, with parents protecting their children.
 
These discoveries are echoed in the recent bestseller, "The Hidden Life of Trees,"  by Peter Wohlleben, which I picked up a while back.  The complexities of a tree's ecosystem are mind-boggling.  As Wohlleben writes, "There are more life forms in a handful of forest soil than there are people on the planet. A mere teaspoonful contains many miles of fungal filaments. All these work the soil, transform it, and make it so valuable for the trees."
 
When strong trees get sick, as happens inevitably, other trees rally to their support, through root networks and crowning in ways that maximize water and sunlight for those who need it most.  This all plays out at a much slower pace than humans are used to - but it does play out.  Trees mount defenses.  Trees even feel pain. Leaf tissue sends out electrical signals, just as human tissue does when it is hurt.
 
Wohlleben speaks of a "wood wide web" of soil fungi connecting trees and other vegetation "in an intimate network that allows the sharing of an enormous amount of information and goods."  He writes of how trees communicate through emitting and interpreting scents, often as warnings when predators approach.
 
"If every tree were looking out only for itself," he adds, "then quite a few of them would never reach old age."
 
Here's another gem from the book:
 
Under the canopy of the trees, daily dramas and moving love stories are played out. Here is the last remaining piece of Nature, right on our doorstep, where adventures are to be experienced and secrets discovered. And who knows, perhaps one day the language of trees will eventually be deciphered, giving us the raw material for further amazing stories. Until then, when you take your next walk in the forest, give free rein to your imagination-in many cases, what you imagine is not so far removed from reality, after all!
 
While comes as no shock to us that trees are living beings, perhaps it is time to stop calling them "things." Decades ago, Martin Buber wrote in "I and Thou,"
 
I contemplate a tree. I can accept it as a picture: a rigid pillar in a flood of light, or splashes of green traversed by the gentleness of blue silver ground. I can feel it as movement: the flowing veins around the sturdy, thriving core, the sucking of the roots, the breathing of the leaves, the infinite commerce with earth and air - and the growing itself in the darkness.... One should not try to dilute the meaning of the relation: relation is reciprocity. Does the tree then have consciousness, similar to our own? I have no experience of that. But thinking that you have brought this off in your own case, must you again divide the indivisible? What I encounter is neither the soul of a tree nor a dryad, but the tree itself.
 
I'm not suggesting that we stop picking fruit or using wood for our homes.  Even Wohlleben acknowledges that in order to survive, we need the help of organic substances of other species.  All animals do.
 
But just as we have now come to understand that other animals too have complicated emotional existences (yes, even fruit flies have feelings), we need to see that tree as a fellow traveler on this increasingly fragile planet, a "thou" rather than an "it," and one not existing in isolation but living in relationship with all of us.
 
Shel Silverstein was not far off base in bringing us that immortal tree-buddy.  Neither was Disney's Pocahontas.  And if we can begin to anticipate every walk in the woods as chance to forge new and fascinating relationships, sort of like a high school dance with sap, maybe our world would be much better off.
 
Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Friday, February 10, 2017

TBE Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary: Charlie Schwartz on Bo

Shabbat Shalom!

This is a very special week for me.  Not only am I becoming a Bat Mitzvah today, but Thursday was my birthday. 

Not only that, but Thursday was my birthday.

And interestingly enough, Thursday was my birthday.

OK, I think you might get the message that I was born on Groundhog Day.  It’s not really a holiday (not the kind of day where I would get presents anyway), but I think of it as holiday and it’s kind of cool to have it as a birthday.

A few years ago, I saw the movie “Groundhog Day,” where the day repeats over and over, much like the winter goes on and on if the groundhog sees its shadow.   That’s a good thing if your birthday is on that day, because that means that every day is your birthday!

What made this movie interesting for me was the idea that history repeats itself, demonstrating that there’s a lot of the past in the future and there’s a lot of the future in the past.

In my Torah portion of Bo, Exodus chapter 12 describes how the Passover festival will be celebrated in the future, and how the Exodus from Egypt will be remembered years and years from then.  The only problem is that when these details are being given, the Exodus hasn’t even happened yet!  It’s like the past and future get scrambled together.

That’s what the Seder is all about.  It’s a ritual that repeats again and again every year, as if the Exodus is taking place over and over, every year – just like Groundhog Day.

We remember special days – holidays, birthdays, bat mitzvah days – and rituals help us to do that.  The word “ritual” means to repeat. 

One of the rituals of the Seder is to spill drops of wine to remember the 10 Plagues – three of those plagues are in my portion.  My mitzvah project is a way that I am trying to eliminate three of the great plagues that affect our world – the plagues of illness, disease and loneliness.

I’ve made a donation to the Circle of Care, an organization that provides gifts to children who hospitalized.  I’m collecting toys and other items especially for teens, since two days ago I became a teen – things like coloring books, hand held puzzles, Rubik’s Cubes, Amazon and iTunes gift cards.

Having seen up close the challenges my brother Eli has overcome, I know how hard it can be for a child to have to spend many nights in the hospital.  When he was at Yale New Haven, I went a few times to visit him – I really missed him – and I know how much he appreciated it.  I also saw how organizations like Circle of Care brought him toys and how clowns would visit to cheer him up.  I know how much these things helped him and so now I want to pay it forward, to help end these plagues.
       
     So, in the spirit of Groundhog Day and the Exodus, become bat mitzvah means to stand on a bridge between my past and my future.  But even as I cross to the other side, my past stays with me.  I will always look back on this day, even as I relive it over and over again.  Every year at this time this same portion is read.  Oh, and the cantor and rabbi have already invited me to come back and do my Torah readings next year. 


It will almost feel like Groundhog Day!

Friday, February 3, 2017

Shabbat-O-Gram for February 3

Shabbat-O-Gram

Mazal Tov to Deborah Schwartz and to Douglas Schwartz on their daughter, Charlie, becoming a Bat Mitzvah and Todah Rabah for sponsoring Kiddush in honor of Charlie
 
 
Shabbat Shalom!

Join us for services this evening at 7:30 and tomorrow morning at 9:30, when Charlie Schwartz becomes Bat Mitzvah.  Mazal tov to Charlie and her family! I also look forward to seeing so many at our annual Temple Rock bash tomorrow night - thank you to the MANY who have worked such long hours to ensure the success of this amazing event. 

This week’s Torah Portion: Bo
Click here for a summary.  See a family-friendly video:



Two Initiatives - Two Jewish Values

This past week has seen two White House initiatives that have evoked widespread concern within and beyond the Jewish community.   Here and as we move forward, I will always strive to make clear the moral basis for any concerns raised that relate to current events.  Each of these issues transcends politics-as-usual.

The White House statement regarding International Holocaust Remembrance, which intentionally did not make reference to the six million who were murdered because they were Jews, has caused great concern across the Jewish political spectrum. These days it is rare indeed for similar distress to be expressed by the Republican Jewish Coalition and the National Jewish Democratic Council.  No one can revel in this rare picture of unity though, because the matter of denying the uniqueness of this genocide is gravely serious.  To understand why such a statement can logically be seen as step in the direction of Holocaust denial, read this statement from the National Holocaust Museum, along with this article written by noted Holocaust historian Deborah Lipstadt, depicting the statement as “Softcore Holocaust Denial.”  The film about Lipstadt’s famous court battle to protect the memory of the Shoah, “Denial,” is a nominee for my Jos-car awards. I highly recommend the film, which is now available to stream or purchase.

The ADL explains why Holocaust Denial is a form of anti-Semitism (“What is on the surface a denial of the reality of genocide is, at its core, an appeal to genocidal hatred.”).  A poster found in the US Holocaust museum lists fascism’s early warning signs, and it has gone viral on Twitter this week.  The museum also tweeted out  this important quote by Elie Wiesel“Not all victims were Jews, but all Jews were victims”.

In an atmosphere where Holocaust Denial is possible, it is not hard to understand why this week, for the third time in recent weeks, a dozen bomb threats were made against Jewish institutions in the US, and why a noted white supremacist cheered the White House statement.  It all makes us wonder, why would the White House do this, and then double down on it when the problem was pointed out afterwards?
Join us this Thursday at 7:30 as we will hear noted Holocaust historian Samuel Kassow discuss “Secrets of the Warsaw Ghetto,” and no doubt, this incident as well.  And the reservation deadline for our Jewish Heritage Tour is just a few weeks away.  Now more than ever, we need to bear witness.

THE JEWISH VALUE MOST DIRECTLY CHALLENGED BY THIS WHITE HOUSE STATEMENT IS ZACHOR - REMEMBERING AMALEK (and by extension, fighting Holocaust denial)

The Executive Order on immigration has also caused great concern among Jewish groups across the denominational spectrum.  See Conservative Judaism’s joint statement.  See our Interfaith Council’s joint statement.  I was among 1900 rabbis thus far who have signed this petition welcoming refugees. See HIAS’ website for more background and suggestions as to what you/we can do.  And see how congregations in the New Haven area are embracing the idea offering sanctuary to those most vulnerable.

TBE young adult Sam Rosenfeld shared with me this moving Facebook post.  And see the Jewish Theological Seminary’s statement, which echoes mainstream Jewish values in saying, “Let us be clear: there is no religious obligation more central to Judaism than the protection of refugees and immigrants [...] We will not stand idly by, nor will we be silent in the face of this injustice."

THE JEWISH VALUE MOST DIRECTLY CHALLENGED BY THIS EXECUTIVE ORDER IS AHAVAT HA-GER - LOVING THE IMMIGRANT / STRANGER.
 

Why the Patriots will win (Jewishly) 

Over the years, my annual Super Bowl predictions, based on Jewish sources, have been known for their astonishing accuracy. This year, in the interest of transparency, I’ll not even pretend to be objective. So here are my top ten reasons why my hometown team, the New England Patriots, will defeat the Atlanta Falcons this Sunday:

  • In the Talmud (Berachot 9a) a protector is called a “Patranos.”  This clearly refers to the New England offensive line.
  • Also, in Hebrew, “Pitriot” are mushrooms. Go here to see some gorgeous looking Israeli mushrooms, likely from the Hefer Valley (a fertile strip of land in Central Israel). This area of the country was redeemed by the Jewish National Fund in the early Zionist days, and the great symbol of that redemption, at least here, are Pitriot.
  • This game features two teams with Jewish owners, but Robert Kraft is the only one who has built a stadium in Jerusalem. His dedication to Israel and Jewish causes is well known.  Some have criticized his friendship with Donald Trump, but the operative word is “friendship.” Kraft is a loyal friend, who does not forget those who have been associated with his family. I’ve seen that personally, in how the warm relationship his father had with mine has carried forward in his kindness to my family.  Kraft, who rarely is overtly political, has been a major donor to both Republicans and Democrats, and his relationship with Trump began long before the President adopted his current policies.  I hope he has the president's ear and will speak up about fundamental Jewish concerns (which I know Kraft shares) like embracing the stranger and affirming the uniquely Jewish dimension of the Holocaust.
  • Ever the guardians of Kashrut, the Patriots’ last two Super Bowl victories have come against unkosher birds of prey - the Eagles and Seahawks. Beating the Falcons will continue the trend, which next year will continue with a defeat of the Cardinals.
  • Indeed, the falcon is listed in Leviticus 11:14 among those “detestable things” that should not be eaten. The next bird listed, incidentally, is the raven, who the Patriots already have defeated this season.
  • The Talmud describes the falcon as a skilled hunter, trained by people and used in the chase. Atlanta’s linebackers are indeed skilled at chasing down opposing running backs, and their receivers can chase down errant passes. But can these Falcons themselves avoid being caught? Apparently not. In 2013, Turkey arrested a falcon and accused it of spying for Israel. When it comes to birds, at least, one can take the approach of President Trump, who prefers heroes “who don’t get captured.”
  • The Jewish population of Atlanta: 200,000. Boston: 261,000, and if you throw in other New England cities like Providence, Hartford, Springfield, New Haven and, yes, Stamford, the number soars well past 300,000. No contest.
There you have it, my top ten reasons the Patriots will win. As for the score, Patriot Super Bowls in the Brady-Belichick era are always close. I see a three point win (there were three patriarchs, after all), 34-31. 

Incidentally, a Hebrew numerical equivalent of 34 is Gimmel-Alef-Lamed, “redemption.” After two years of inflated accusations and a bogus four game suspension, that’s exactly what Brady and the Pats will achieve this Sunday.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Friday, January 23, 2015

The Bread of Deflation - Shabbat-O-Gram

Shabbat Shalom

With wintry weather in the forecast for Shabbat morning, a reminder of our policies.  Shabbat (adult) services are never officially cancelled.  Obviously, we want people to stay safe and use discretion in deciding whether to come.

On the other hand, when we have children’s programming, such as tomorrow, when our Hebrew School is scheduled to meet on Shabbat, that could be cancelled.  In that case, parents will be informed and an announcement will be sent out.  Because we do not send out email announcements on the Shabbat, we will make that call by mid afternoon on Friday.  Because of having to decide the day before, we will typically lean on the side of safety.

Regardless, Tot Shabbat (5:30) and Friday evening services (7 PM) are definitely ON for tonight.  Last week we had over 100 people for our service and the Oneg at my home.  It was wonderful.  Tonight our special musical guest will be David Bravo, long time accompanist for the immortal songstress Debbie Friedman.  Let’s keep things rolling!  And let’s pray for good weather next weekend, with our service downtown on Friday night, followed the next night by Temple Rock.

Mitzvah Opportunity: Used Car Needed

Jewish Family Service seeks a car donation for a client, one who happens to be part of the TBE family. Cars in any condition will be accepted and donations are tax-deductible.   If you have a car to donate, or know someone who does, please contact Rebekah at JFS: (203)921-4161 or rkanefsky@ctjfs.org 

The Bread of Deflation

As a lifelong New England Patriots fan, this has been a painful week.  I won’t go into all the details of the so called “Deflate-gate,” some of which are widely known and many of which are as yet unknown.    The public has not yet heard from the NFL or Patriot’s owner Bob Kraft.  I’ll be listening especially for Kraft, because the guiding light of his life is his late father Harry, a man who was a tremendous role model for me as well.  He was a true “mensch,” a man of the utmost integrity and moral stature.  And humility.  All the kids at Kehillath Israel looked up to him.  My father, whom Harry helped to hire as cantor, loved and respected him.  Harry Kraft used to work with Bar Mitzvah students and he wrote my Bar Mitzvah speech with me… actually for me – in those days, that’s what they did. 

So I know one thing, that when Bob Kraft weighs in on this, Harry will be looking over his shoulder.   If anyone is responsible for compromising the integrity of the game and the reputation of his team – his family – he won’t let that slide.  But he also knows his quarterback and coach better than just about anyone.  If he is defending them, that will mean a lot too.  In the meantime, my inclination is always “innocent until proven guilty,” but we’ll see how it plays out.

This week’s portion of Bo includes the Torah’s most detailed description of the night of Passover, introducing us to that most deflated of foods, matza.  I’ve written much about matza’s symbolism, but the most important aspect of matza is that it is not allowed to inflate – to ferment – beyond a certain amount.  The stipulations for making matza are even more precise and strict than those for inflating a football.

So why that precision and strictness?  The Chatam Sofer explains that hametz (leaven) is symbolic of the inflation of the ego, and also a metaphor for negativity.  Perhaps this whole “Deflate-gate” controversy also revolves around inflated egos and cynicism, whether on the part of the Patriots, their legion of haters, the league, the media – whose feeding frenzy on this reminds me of some old family seders when the matza balls come out (and I must say, I prefer my matza balls inflated and fluffy rather than dense and pebbly).  All around, this is a story about ego.

One modern commentator delinates Hametz from Matza in this manner:  Chametz is nothing but puffed up matza. But what chametz is actually made out of is nothing less than matza itself! So too there is an idea that the ego is nothing but a corrupt twisted desire that actually has its basis in a drive coming from the soul. For example:

·         The soul wants only to give, to help humanity and fix the world. The ego's perverted version of this noble drive is the desire for power and control, the urge to conquer the world.

·         The soul wants to connect with the Divine. The ego wants to use spirituality to serve its needs (this is the basis for idol worship).

·         The soul wants to connect with other people meaningfully. The ego corrupts this desire into a drive to manipulate and take from people.

By seeing that the ego is often nothing but a corruption of a noble desire we can easily move past it and bring even the ego to serve God.

Some interesting lessons about the need to deflate our egos, to be “Matza Mensches” in all we do. 

Which brings me right back to Harry Kraft.


Shabbat Shalom