Friday, March 28, 2003

Shabbat-O-Gram, March 28, 2003, II Adar 25, 5763

 


Shabbat-O-Gram, March 28, 2003, II Adar 25, 5763

Shabbat Ha-hodesh

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

Our Prayers Go Out to Our Armed Forces and to all innocent human beings in Iraq, Israel, America and throughout the world.

 

Thank you to Charles Carter for becoming the first to sponsor a Shabbat-O-Gram, in honor of the birthday of his wife, Dorothy Davidson.

 

IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO SPONSOR A SHABBAT-O-GRAM IN HONOR OF YOUR FAMILY’S SIMCHA AND HELP OUR CONGREGATION AT THE SAME TIME – SIMPLY SEND A CHECK FOR $100 TO THE TEMPLE OFFICE, INDICATING THAT IT’S TO SPONSOR A SHABBAT-O-GRAM, LET US KNOW WHO IT IS HONORING, AND WE’LL DO THE REST! YOUR SIMCHA WILL BE SHARED WITH THE HUNDREDS OF OTHERS WHO ARE ON OUR MAILING LIST OR WHO HAPPEN BY OUR WEB SITE.

 

Previous Shabbat-O-Grams can be accessed directly from our web site (www.tbe.org).

Check out photos from Purim at our web site www.tbe.org.

 

“E-mail from the Front” 

As these fateful weeks continue, lots more new “E-mail from the Front” has come in.  Go to http://www.tbe.org/sog/Emailfromthefront.htm and scroll down to the most recent entries.

 

Spiritual Journey on the Web

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

A Prayer Wheel for the American Fighting Man and Woman

 

Thanks to Lisa Pomerance for forwarding to me the most moving poem that appears below.  It was forwarded to her as part of a “Prayer Wheel.”  The idea is that, when you reads this, please stop for a moment to say a prayer for all our fighting men and women, then forward this request and prayer to others, so that they too might pray on the soldiers’ behalf.  Ideally, the prayer will go all the way around the cyber-world and be returned to you by another human being who cares as passionately about this.  And even more ideally, it will be seen by our troops in Iraq, including a few from our own community, who will be inspired and comforted by our love.

 

Another Prayer Wheel for our servicemen and women can be found at http://www.hagmayer.com/PrayerAmericanSoldier.html.  Other prayers for their safety can be found at the following locations: Union of American Hebrew CongregationsUnited Synagogue of Conservative JudaismUnion of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America

The idea is that there is spiritual strength in numbers, an idea that Jews are very familiar with.  We call it a minyan!   An online Prayer Wheel multiplies that number by hundreds of thousands.   See http://www.lsj.com/lifestyles/religion/p_030215_prayer_3d.html for a good article describing the healing powers of Prayer Wheels.  Imagine being a marine in Iraq right now, knowing that millions of Americans are forwarding prayers to one another online, just to express concern for him.  Some of have occasional Internet access, and they can see for themselves.  Forward this Shabbat-O-Gram to a soldier!  Let them know we are praying for them!

 

Of course, at the same time, we also pray for the innocent civilians of Iraq, continually victimized by their own leaders and all too often caught in the crossfire.  And ultimately we pray for peace and security for all.

 

On the Internet, Prayer Wheels often appear in a Christian context (see http://www.pastornet.net.au/jmm/spir/spir0004.htm), but the idea is drawn from Eastern Traditions – a Tibetan model (which actually IS a wheel) can be found at http://dharma-haven.org/tibetan/prayer-wheel.htm and http://www.sonic.net/~jwatrous/prayerwheel-intro.html.  Find a prayer wheel for Earth at http://www.geocities.com/pathways2eden/prayer.html, complete with an audible mantra!  Jewish Prayer Wheels are harder to find on the Web, but a good place to start is http://www.lighthousewoods.com/jewish_renewal.html, which will lead you to some options for meditation.  A great site for Jewish renewal in general, with some links to other very good sites, is http://www.reclaimingjudaism.org/.

 

And now, a Poetic Tribute to our American Fighting Men and Women, the “prayer heard ‘round the net.”

 

 

The average age of the Infantryman is 19 years.
He is a short haired, tight-muscled kid who, under normal circumstances
is considered by society as half man, half boy.

Not yet dry behind the ears,

not old enough to buy a beer,

but old enough to die for his country.

He never really cared much for work and he would rather
wax his own car
than wash his father's; but he has never collected
unemployment either.

He's a recent High School graduate; he was probably an
average student,
pursued some form of sport activities,

drives a ten year old jalopy, and
has a steady girlfriend that either broke up with him
when he left,

Or swears to be waiting when he returns from half a world away.
 
He listens to rock and roll or hip-hop or rap or jazz or
swing and 155mm Howitzers.
He is 10 or 15 pounds lighter now than when he was at
home because he is working or fighting from before dawn to well after dusk.


He has trouble spelling, thus letter writing is a pain for him,

but he can field strip a rifle in 30 seconds and reassemble it
in less time in the dark.

He can recite to you the nomenclature of a machine gun or

grenade launcher and use either one effectively if he must.


He digs foxholes and latrines and can apply first aid like a
professional.

 

He can march until he is told to stop or

stop until he is told to march.

He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation, but he
is not without
spirit or individual dignity.

He is self-sufficient. He has two sets of fatigues: he
washes one and wears the other.

He keeps his canteens full and his feet dry.

 

He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never to clean his rifle.
He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes,

and fix his own hurts.

If you're thirsty, he'll share his water with you;

if you are hungry, his food.

He'll even split his ammunition with you in the midst of battle
when you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons

and weapons like they were his hands.

He can save your life - or take it, because that is his job.

He will often do twice the work of a civilian,

draw half the pay and still find ironic humor in it all.

He has seen more suffering and death
then he should have in his short lifetime.
 
He has stood atop mountains of dead bodies,

and helped to create them.
 
He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat

and is unashamed.

He feels every note of the National Anthem vibrate through his body while
at rigid attention,

while tempering the burning desire to 'square-away'

those around him who haven't bothered to stand, remove

their hat, or even stop talking.

 

In an odd twist, day in and day out, far from home, he defends
their right to be disrespectful.
Just as did his Father, Grandfather, and Great-grandfather, he is paying
the price for our freedom.

Beardless or not, he is not a boy.
He is the American Fighting Man that has kept this
country free for over 200 years.


He has asked nothing in return, except our friendship and understanding.

Remember him, always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with
his blood.

 

The Prayer:

 
"Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as they protect us. Bless them and their families for the selfless acts they perform for us in our time of need. Amen."
 

AMEN

 

JUST THE FACTS…

Friday Night

Candles: 5:56 PM 

“Family Friday” Kabbalat Shabbat Service: 7:30 PM, in the sanctuary

Shabbat Morning:

Service: 9:30 AM

MAZAL TOV to Dara Gold, Who becomes Bat Mitzvah this Shabbat morning!

Children’s services: 10:30 AM

Torah Portion – Shmini, Shabbat Ha-Hodesh (a special Shabbat in which we announce the upcoming month of Nisan, considered to be THE month in the Jewish calendar, the month of liberation.

Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp. JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL's Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.torahcc.org/nechama/gilayonarchives.htm.  For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html.

Shabbat Mincha/Havdalah:

Service at 5:30 PM

MAZAL TOV to Andrew Silver who becomes Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat afternoon

 

Morning MinyanDaily at 7:30 AM, Sunday at 9:00 AM in the chapel

The New Weekday Sim Shalom Prayer Books HAVE ARRIVED!!!  We are now using them at our morning minyan.  Come by and check them out!

IF YOU WISH TO DEDICATE ONE OR MORE IN HONOR OF A LOVED ONE, PLEASE SEND A $25 DONATION, PER BOOK, TO OUR OFFICE.

 

 

 

 

 

Required Reading and Action Items 

 

 

Prayer service explains war to children  (CT Jewish Ledger) By Sherry Shameer  MARCH 28, 2003 STAMFORD — The day after the first bombs dropped over Iraq, Rabbi Joshua Hammerman led a special service at Temple Beth El to pray for victory, safety, and peace.

Israel National Information Center New online - The Israel National Information Center website contains on-line briefings, updates, and coverage.

Iraq Readying Toxic Arms
Statements from Iraqi prisoners of war and electronic eavesdropping on Iraqi government communications indicate that Saddam Hussein has moved chemical weapons to the Medina Division, one of three Republican Guard divisions guarding the approaches to Baghdad, Army officials said. They strongly believed he would use the weapons as allied troops moved toward Baghdad to oust him and his government. Intelligence information pointed to Mr. Hussein deploying 155-millimeter artillery weapons with shells carrying mustard gas as well as sarin, or nerve agents, an especially deadly weapon. Mr. Hussein used these chemical agents against the Iranians and the country's Kurdish population in the 1980s.
    Some military officers said Mr. Hussein had, in the last week or so, moved the artillery pieces that could fire chemical weapons into hiding, not only near the Medina Division, south of Baghdad, but in western Iraq. Intelligence officers said that although deployment of such weapons would give the lie to Mr. Hussein's denial that he had them, he might be calculating that the step would stunt the American assault. Officials said well-hidden Iraqi artillery sites about to launch such a weapon could possibly avoid detection. (New York Times)

After the Bush-Blair Meeting - Aluf Benn
After the press conference at Camp David by U.S. President George Bush and British Prime Minister Tony Blair, the president stood by his promise to Ariel Sharon and rejected the proposal of his British guest to step up the pressure on Israel in an effort to fend off the growing criticism of the war in Iraq. The paragraph on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict was pushed to the sidelines, and Bush reiterated, without overt enthusiasm, his commitment to the implementation of the "road map." It seems that Bush made it clear to his guest that he is not pleased with the expression of any doubts regarding his commitment to a solution to the conflict, and that he did not think there was any reason to reimburse the British for their support with Israeli concessions.
    At the Prime Minister's Office they say that Sharon does not oppose the implementation of the road map. On the contrary, he would like to push the diplomatic process when he has a Palestinian partner. The dispute revolves around the wording of the plan. Israel is demanding to present its comments on the road map before the official document is made public. (Ha'aretz)
    See also When Will Abu Mazen Visit Washington? - Uzi Benziman
Information obtained by Jerusalem says that Abu Mazen is signaling his refusal, at this stage, to receive an invitation to visit Washington. He is evidently seeking to avoid any open contacts with President Bush so as not to be perceived in the Arab world as a collaborator with the administration that has just invaded a large Arab nation and is marching on its capital. (Ha'aretz)

"Webloggers" Signing On as War Correspondents - Howard Kurtz
This has become the first true Internet war, with journalists, analysts, soldiers, a British lawmaker, an Iraqi exile, and a Baghdad resident using the medium's lightning speed to cut through the fog of war in Weblogs. (Washington Post )
See also Best of the Warblogs - Jane Perrone (Guardian-UK)

How the Media Warriors Invaded Iraq with Satellite Phones - Rogel Alpher
The uproar over the army's failure to provide access to critical information during the war in Afghanistan has given rise to the Pentagon's "embedding" program, which allows for the deep integration of members of the media in the combat units. Does this mean the public is getting more reliable information about the big picture of the war, or is the embedding program only helping the Pentagon isolate and control the reporters; to create a battle fog that is saturated with rumors and fabrications as part of a psychological warfare; to divert the public's attention by means of detailed but very partial reports about the fighting at a given moment at a particular square kilometer of the arena; and to buy the collaboration of the broadcast channels in America in not showing graphic images of prisoners of war (since the media and the military are fighting in Iraq "together"). (Ha'aretz)

Syrian, Palestinian Volunteers Join Saddam - Ze'ev Schiff
Dozens of volunteers, primarily Palestinians from the refugee camps in Lebanon, have crossed over into Iraq through Syrian-controlled border posts. Syrian military analyst Hitham al-Kilani told Al Jazeera on 24 March, that "the Syrian border was opened to Syrian, Arab, and Muslim volunteers wishing to reach Iraq and participate in the fighting against the American invasion." Syria is the sole country that has opened its border to volunteers seeking to join the Iraqi forces, unlike Iran, Turkey, and Jordan, whose borders remain blocked. It has been reported that there are many volunteers in Jordan who are interested in crossing into Iraq. Hamas has called on all of Iraq's neighbors to open their borders and allow volunteers through. (Ha'aretz)

Powell Plans Post-Iraq Pressure on Sharon Concerning Road Map - Richard Cohen
Secretary of State Colin Powell is planning to take the Israelis and the Palestinians and knock their heads together. Only recently has the administration said it is serious about getting - "imposing" is probably the better word - a plan to end the incessant violence between Israelis and Palestinians. I asked Powell who besides him in the administration favored a plan that would mean going to the mat with Sharon. "The president," he responded quickly. "He understands that the whole world is going to be looking to him to do something about the Middle East once Iraq has been dealt with." Before the Israelis and the Palestinians can get their act together, however, the Bush administration will have to do the same. At the moment, the State Department, which used to conduct American foreign policy, has been outgunned by the Pentagon, the National Security Council (now with Elliott Abrams), and Dick Cheney, a vice president with very strong views about the Middle East. (Washington Post)

Kofi Annan's Offense - Charles Krauthammer
Turkey's refusal to let us send the 4th Infantry Division to attack Baghdad from the north has cost us heavily. It has allowed Saddam Hussein to concentrate his defenses to the south and essentially cut in half the size of the heavily mechanized enemy he has to deal with. Even more important, we've been held back by our own scrupulousness. There has never been a conflict in which one belligerent has taken more care not to harm the civilians of the other. And it has already cost us. We know that the "irregulars" - the SS thugs whose profession heretofore had been torture and repression in the service of Hussein's psychopathic son Uday - use human shields, fight in civilian disguise and attack under a fake flag of surrender. Our restraint in choice of targets and in the treatment of those who appear to be civilians and those who appear to have surrendered has cost us not just time and territory but lives. And yet, being who we are, we do not change the rules of engagement.
    Kofi Annan's pronouncement Wednesday that he was "getting increasingly concerned by humanitarian casualties in this conflict" is doubly disgusting because he said nothing about Iraq's use of human shields, of fake surrenders, of placing a tank in a hospital compound - flagrant Iraqi violations of the laws of war. Nor does he denounce the parading of POWs on television and the apparent execution of American and British POWs. (Washington Post)

Leisure & Arts BY MICHAEL MEDVED On Oscar night, Hollywood thanks everyone but the troops (Journal Online)

Saddam Hiding Scuds, Launchers under Bridges (Jerusalem Post) Israel Television Channel 1 reported that Saddam is hiding missile launchers, of Russian manufacture, and Scud missiles on specially constructed trucks which move around the country and hide under bridges, making them invisible to satellite surveillance and coalition warplanes.    According to Israeli officials, some of these trucks may have been hidden in western Iraq, and coalition forces have been bombing bridges and trucks in that part of the country intensively for the past few days.    Israeli officials say these trucks are fully capable of launching Scud missiles.
    Israel sees this as a threat and it is for this reason that Israel's threat assessment has not changed. Israel is still on high alert.

High-Level Team Drawing Up Alternative to Quartet Peace Plan - Herb Keinon (Jerusalem Post) A blue-chip panel established by Defense Minister Shaul Mofaz is drawing up a plan for an Israeli diplomatic initiative that could serve as an alternative to the Quartet's road map for peace in the Middle East. The committee, headed by National Security Advisor Ephraim Halevy, includes Mossad head Meir Dagan, Shin Bet head Meir Dichter, and Chief of General Staff Lt.-Gen. Moshe Ya'alon. According to Halevy's plan, the Palestinians are to abandon their demand for the right of Palestinian refugees to return to pre-1967 Israel even before Israel agrees to a Palestinian state with provisional borders. The plan also stipulates that Israel's agreement to a Palestinian state will be conditional on the Palestinian agreement to declare an end of the conflict with Israel. Both the right of return and the end of conflict clause are considered by many to have been what doomed the Camp David talks in the summer of 2000.

French Jews Attacked at Anti-War Rally Several dozen assailants struck two young Jews with metal bars on the sidelines of a demonstration against the war in Iraq Saturday, the Hashomer Hatzair youth organization in Paris reported. (AP/Ha'aretz)

Palestinians Rejoice at Saddam's "Victories" - Khaled Abu Toameh
Palestinians in Ramallah celebrated the capture of American and British soldiers by the Iraqi army on Monday. "This is a big day for the Iraqi people and all the Arabs and Muslims," says a mustachioed Palestinian policeman at Yasser Arafat's headquarters in the city. "They have just shot down two Apache helicopters," an excited merchant shouted hysterically as he ran out of his shop. Manarah Square in the center of Ramallah, the scene of daily pro-Saddam demonstrations, is decorated with Iraqi flags and posters of Saddam Hussein. (Jerusalem Post).  See also Saddam's Support Wide in West Bank (Boston Globe)

The Iraq war is far from over, but where the road map is concerned, the Day After may already be here As the hour of decision draws near in Baghdad, a separate Middle East moment of truth for George Bush and Tony Blair - a battle to implement the "road map" for peace between Israel and the Palestinians - may also be close at hand. (Ha-aretz)

 

 

 

Quotes of the Week 

 

 

 

“…[If] the background noises emerging from various quarters in London and Washington are any indication, the fall of the Iraqi dictator may portend the rise of yet another brutal regime, one located a few hundred miles to the west, in Palestinian-controlled Ramallah. Fearful of the Arab world’s anger over Western intervention in Iraq, British P.M. Tony Blair has forged an axis with U.S. Secretary of State Powell, pushing and cajoling George W. Bush to make ‘Palestine’ his number one post-Iraq priority. Media reports this week that the CIA is establishing a special department to oversee implementation of the ‘road map’ leading to a Palestinian state are but the latest in a string of indications that Israel will soon be asked to pay the political price for the war in Iraq. Call it the Mother of All Ironies: Saddam’s downfall may turn into his most formidable of triumphs, as the removal of his regime sets the state for the creation of Palestine, at Israel’s expense…”—Columnist Michael Freund (Jerusalem Post, March 26)

 

“…The new, Islamic-influenced government of Recep Tayyip Erdogan transformed that formerly staunch U.S. ally into Saddam’s best friend. The main reason Turkey now permits U.S. overflights is that America has demonstrated its capability of doing it the long, hard way, from the west through Jordan. For that, America owes King Abdullah plenty; it owes Erdogan nothing… Fortunately, President George W. Bush sent a firm message to troublesome Turks: ‘We expect them not to go into northern Iraq.’ Maybe, after undermining the genuine friendship between Turkey and the U.S. by helping Saddam make the war longer and bloodier, Islamist politicians and secular generals in Ankara will agree to fulfill Bush’s expectation.”—Columnist William Safire (N.Y.T., March 24)

 

“I wanted to join the human shields in Baghdad because it was direct action which had a chance of bringing the anti-war movement to the forefront of world attention… [By] the time I left Baghdad five weeks later my views had changed drastically. I wouldn’t say that I was exactly pro-war…but I have a strong desire to see Saddam removed… I was shocked when I first met a pro-war Iraqi in Baghdad, a taxi driver… I explained that I was American and said, as we shields always did, ‘Bush bad, war bad, Iraq good.’ He looked at me with an expression of incredulity. [H]e…started to speak in broken English about the evils of Saddam’s regime… This guy was telling me how all of Iraq’s oil money went into Saddam’s pocket, and that if you opposed him politically he would kill your whole family. It scared the hell out of me… Anyone with half a brain must see that Saddam has to be taken out. It is extraordinarily ironic that the anti-war protesters are marching to defend a government which stops its people exercising that freedom.”—Daniel Pepper (Jer. Post, March 26)

 

 

 

 

Announcements 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

AT THE BOOK FAIR ON SUNDAY APRIL 6, RABBI HAMMERMAN WILL  BE DISCUSSING HOW TO TALK TO OUR KIDS ABOUT GOD, BASED ON A NEW BOOK FOR WHICH HE IS A CONTRIBUTING AUTHOR, “I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS ABOUT GOD.”  THIS IS AN ESPECIALLY IMPORTANT TOPIC THESE DAYS.  THE DISCUSSIONS WILL TAKE PLACE AT 9:30 AND 12:30

 

Communal PASSOVER SEDER at TBE

Thursday, April 1 7, 7:00 p.m.

RESERVATIONS ARE POURING IN AND

SPACE IS LIMITED

(REMEMBER THE SHABBATON!)

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B i k u r  C h o l i m

T r a i n i n g

 

Know someone who is sick or alone?

 

We do.

 

Jewish Patients need you !

 

Become a Bikur  Cholim  volunteer . **

 

** Bikur Cholim is Hebrew for “visiting the sick”.

 

 Jewish Family Service of Stamford & the Rabbi Isaac N. Trainin Bikur Cholim Coordinating Council of the Jewish Board of Family and Children’s Services,

in collaboration with

Temple Beth El, Temple Sinai, Congregation Agudath Shalom, Young Israel Synagogue, The Fellowship For Jewish Learning, Chavurat Aytz Chayim and the Jewish Community Center

 are sponsoring a training program for Bikur Cholim volunteers. We will all learn how to be more effective, compassionate and competent visitors to the sick,

homebound and elderly.

 

The training program includes:

q       Introduction to Bikur Cholim; The Role of the Visitor

q       How to relate to patients with sensitivity and compassion

q       How to listen and respond to patients

 

TEENS WELCOME!

 

Sunday, March 30th at the Jewish Community Center, 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT

9:45   Registration and Coffee

10:00-11:30   Bikur Cholim Training

11:30-12:00   Follow Up Meeting

 

For more information & to RSVP call Sara Jamison, MA, MSW @ (203) 921-4161

 

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SAVE THE DATE

 

“Six Million Times One”

 

Community Yom Hashoah

April 28, 2003

7:00 PM

at

Temple Beth El

 

Request to the Community:

If you would like to include photographs of your loved ones who perished during the Shoah in our community event, please call Ilana De Laney, 321-1373, ext. 114.

 

Excitement and celebration!

SAVE THE DATE

Sunday, May 4, 2003

5:00 pm

Installation of Cantor Deborah Jacobson

Light Supper Reception

 

Followed by...

 

Spectacular Musical Concert with

Danny Maseng "Soul on Fire"

Watch your mail for your invitation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Attention high school students!

Absentee letters, for the attendance office at your school, are now available for the last two days of Passover (April 23-24).  Call Mindy at ext. 301 or e-mail your request to office@tbe.org.

 

 

The Web link for this week's Shabbat-O-Gram is - http://www.tbe.org/sog/030328.htm - The site is continually updated during the week with corrections and additions.  Feel free to forward this link to your friends. People can subscribe to the weekly Shabbat-o-Gram at www.tbe.org.   I also send out mailings to college students, Gen Xers and teens, so let us know if you wish to be placed on any of those lists.  If you wish to unsubscribe, contact office@tbe.org.  

Friday, March 21, 2003

Shabbat-O-Gram, March 21, 2003, II Adar 18, 5763


Shabbat-O-Gram, March 21, 2003, II Adar 18, 5763

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

Our Prayers Go Out to Our Armed Forces and to all innocent human beings in Iraq, Israel, America and throughout the world.

 

Thank you to Charles Carter for becoming the first to sponsor a Shabbat-O-Gram, in honor of the birthday of his wife, Dorothy Davidson.

 

IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO SPONSOR A SHABBAT-O-GRAM IN HONOR OF YOUR FAMILY’S SIMCHA AND HELP OUR CONGREGATION AT THE SAME TIME – SIMPLY SEND A CHECK FOR $100 TO THE TEMPLE OFFICE, INDICATING THAT IT’S TO SPONSOR A SHABBAT-O-GRAM, LET US KNOW WHO IT IS HONORING, AND WE’LL DO THE REST! YOUR SIMCHA WILL BE SHARED WITH THE HUNDREDS OF OTHERS WHO ARE ON OUR MAILING LIST OR WHO HAPPEN BY OUR WEB SITE.

 

Previous Shabbat-O-Grams can be accessed directly from our web site (www.tbe.org). New E-mail from the Front can be found at http://www.tbe.org/sog/Emailfromthefront.htm

Check out photos from Purim at our web site www.tbe.org.

The Shabbat-O-Gram will be updated as more important information comes in about the War

 

“E-mail from the Front” 

As these fateful weeks continue, more new “E-mail from the Front” keeps coming in, including a new dispatch from Jan Gaines in Netanya.  Go to http://www.tbe.org/sog/Emailfromthefront.htm and scroll down to the most recent entries.

 

Spiritual Journey on the Web

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

JUST THE FACTS…

Friday Night:

Candles: 5:49 PM 

Tot Shabbat: 6:30 PM, in the lobby

Kabbalat Shabbat Service: 7:30 PM, in the sanctuary

Shabbat Morning:

 

Service: 9:30 AM

Children’s services: 10:30 AM

MAZAL TOV to Michael Staines as he becomes Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat morning

Torah Portion – Tzav, Shabbat Parah

Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp. JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL's Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.torahcc.org/nechama/gilayonarchives.htm.  For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html.

Morning MinyanDaily at 7:30 AM, Sunday at 9:00 AM in the chapel

Reminder of our “No School No Shul” policy: On days when Stamford public schools are cancelled or delayed, morning minyan is also cancelled.  On Sunday, when our religious school is cancelled because of weather, minyan is also cancelled.   Friday night and Shabbat morning services are never cancelled, but people are asked to use their own good judgment (we call it “sechel”) on days when the weather is very bad.

 

What is Shabbat Parah? (from www.ou.org)

"This is the decree of the Torah, which Hashem has commanded, saying: Speak to the Children of Israel, and they shall take to you a completely red cow, which is without blemish, and upon which a yoke has not come." (BaMidbar 19:2)

This is an example of Law of the Torah, which is considered completely above human comprehension.  The paradox is that those who are involved in the preparation of the ashes of the cow become ritually impure, while the sprinkling of water with those ashes is used to remove contamination! It is an example of a Law, which must be accepted on faith alone.

On the Shabbat after Purim, two Torah Scrolls are removed from the Ark. The Sidrah of the week is read from the first, and from the second, the chapter of Parah Adumah, the Red Cow (or Red Heifer), is read. It gives the procedure through which people can purify themselves from the contamination caused by a human corpse.

The reading of this chapter was instituted for this time of the year because Jews were required to purify themselves before coming to Jerusalem for the pilgrimage festival of Passover.

The Haftarah read on the Sabbath of Parashat Parah contains the verse, "And I shall sprinkle pure water upon you, that you be cleansed. From all your contamination and from all your filth will cleanse you" (Ezekiel 36:25). There are other parallels in the Haftarah between the concepts of sin represented by contamination, and atonement represented by purity.

This idea is discussed in the commentary to the ArtScroll Ezekiel (pp.534-5), as follows: Freedom of will in moral matters is the first and irreplaceable condition for living one's life on the higher plane demanded by the Torah. Belief in man's freedom of action, however, is endangered by the fact that man cannot avoid death and that he is subject to the superficial limitations imposed by the forces of nature.

This belief is particularly shaken by the sight of a dead human being. If the whole human being has succumbed to death, been overpowered by physical forces - If man, like all other organic beings, cannot escape the spell of an overpowering force - then there is no room for the moral "you shall" next to the physical "you must." Moral freedom of will would then be an illusion, and the Divine law of morality with its demand for total free-willed devotion to the illuminating, purifying fire of its sanctuary would be incomprehensible. (R'Hirsch, Numbers 19:22)

Thus, sin is related not only to death, but also to contamination, which is closely associated with death. Because the sinner is shackled by his desires, he loses spiritual control of actions. He is swept along by the physical lusts that have overpowered his spiritual self. Thus, the most meaningful part of life, the spiritual, has been killed. For this reason, when G-d forgives man's sin and grants him a new heart and a new spirit, He is imbuing him with purity, the state of mind in which man is the sole master of his actions.

A living (and therefore a pure) person uses his body as he wills; it is his tool to use as he sees fit. The regenerate sinner, upon returning to the state of purity, joins once more the state of the living - and the free. (Chazon HaMikra)

 

More Mazal Tovs:

Mazal Tov to Pamela Blomberg, who became engaged to Scott Schwartz.  Mazal Tov also to Pam’s parents, Richard and Susan Blomberg.

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The New Weekday Sim Shalom Prayer Books HAVE ARRIVED!!!  We are now using them at our morning minyan.  Come by and check them out!

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Required Reading and Action Items 

 

 

 

Israel National Information Center New online - The Israel National Information Center website contains on-line briefings, updates, and coverage of the recent events in the Middle East from government sources.

Click here for the defense establishment procedure in the event of an Iraqi strike on Israel

 

With the start of the war against Iraq, CAJE has made its new publication, The Ethics and Morality of War, available online, at www.caje.org/war,even as it is being mailed out to members.   Lesson plans, curricula, essays, and a resource list will be available online as quickly as possible. Please keep checking the website for new material.

 

 Saddam's Caution - Ze'ev Schiff
As long as Saddam Hussein still believes that international public opinion will come to his aid against the U.S. offensive, he will avoid using non conventional weapons or Scud missiles against Israel and Kuwait, weapons banned by the UN Security Council. U.S. ground forces may soon complete the occupation of the Western Desert, which will diminish the threat to Israel. (Ha'aretz)

 

Saddam's Casualty Strategy - Editorial
The great paradox of the escalating Iraq War is that the attacking allies want fewer Iraqi casualties than does Saddam Hussein. His only hope is to delay the outcome as long as possible, while imposing as many casualties both on Americans and in particular on Iraqis. If he can show off enough destruction and carnage long enough for the TV cameras, perhaps he can induce world and especially American opinion to cause President Bush to halt the war. This is how he survived the first Gulf conflict. We were especially glad to hear President Bush say on Wednesday night, "I assure you, this will not be a campaign of half measures and we will accept no outcome but victory." The faster Saddam is defeated, the sooner Iraqis will stop being his victims. (Wall Street Journal)

 

Keep One Eye on the Saudis - Editorial
By allowing the U.S. to fly aircraft over their long border with Iraq and use a key command facility near Riyadh, the Saudi royal leaders have made the war much easier for the American military. Their move is a signal that they want Saddam Hussein out. If the U.S. does set up a friendly government in Baghdad, it will end the Saudi need to have U.S. forces on its territory as defense against a threatening Iraq. (Christian Science Monitor)

 

Operation Scare and Divide - Fred Barnes
In the first 24 hours of war with Iraq, the twin economic scare scenarios didn't occur. One projected event was a surge in oil prices. Instead they plummeted. The other speculated that war with Iraq might prompt pandemonium in the financial markets. On the contrary, the run-up to the war, and now the war itself, have been accompanied by a strong stock market surge. Also, predictions that the "Arab street" would erupt across the Middle East with riots and violent protests against America proved false. Finally, the U.S. showed that it can fight Iraq and terrorists at the same time, with American troops beginning a major operation in Afghanistan to rout the remaining elements of al Qaeda, including Osama bin Laden, just as bombs were dropping in Iraq. (Weekly Standard)

Air Raid on Saddam Kills Palestinian Terrorist Officer - Michael Ladeen (National Review)
 The U.S. surgical strike on Wednesday night got an unexpected bonus: a terrorist from the Palestine Liberation Front.
 PLF statement released in Sidon (Syrian-occupied Lebanon) identified the man as 1st Lt. Ahmed Walid Raguib al-Baz, killed "while confronting the treacherous U.S. air bombardment on Iraq." The PLF has long been one of the most lethal Palestinian terrorist groups, and achieved notoriety for its high-tech killings.
The PLF has also been one of the main conduits for Iraqi money to Palestinian suicide bombers.

Jenin to Baghdad - Yigal Henkin
As American forces prepare to enter Iraq, U.S. military planners would be wise to learn the lessons of the battle of Jenin. Political scientist Michael Desch called urban battles "the great equalizer." Urban warfare necessitates intense fighting at close range, neutralizing the attacking forces' greater numbers and technological superiority.
    In Jenin, 23 Israeli soldiers were killed alongside 52 Palestinians (Israelis believe all but seven were combatants). Israeli military strategists knew the battleground was heavily boobytrapped and that its houses were hiding enemy snipers. Initial battle plans called for using combat bulldozers to clear the area. Nonetheless, Israelis refrained from operating bulldozers and tanks in Jenin to try to prevent extensive destruction and to avoid collateral damage and bad publicity. It was only after 13 Israeli soldiers were killed in a single ambush that the Israelis changed tactics and put bulldozers into massive use. Had the IDF gone in, full force, from the beginning, as initially planned, the fight might have ended more quickly and there likely would have been fewer casualties on both sides. In Baghdad, American forces will likely face a similar moral dilemma. (Jerusalem Post)

Bible Prophecy Fans See Message in Iraq War (Beliefnet)

 

U.S. Hints Forces Operating in Western Iraq to Foil Scud Attacks on Israel
The U.S. passed messages to Israel early Thursday indicating that American forces are apparently already operating in western Iraq in an effort to head off possible Iraqi Scud missile attacks against Israel. Senior Israeli officials said Thursday that Secretary of State Powell gave Prime Minister Sharon a 90-minute advance warning before the opening phase of the American-led offensive against Saddam. (Ha'aretz)

 

Israel Will Defend Itself If Attacked - Defense Minister Shaul Mofaz (TIME)

 

Israeli Public Told to Carry Gas Masks
The IDF Home Front Command has instructed the public to open their protective kits, practice putting on their gas masks, and carry them at all times. However, sources from the General Staff, Military Intelligence, Air Force, and the uppermost echelons of the Defense Ministry all agreed that, "Nothing will happen here." (Ha'aretz)

 

As the war approaches, Palestinian fears rise  http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/pages/ShArt.jhtml?itemNo=274800&contrassID=2&subContrassID=5&sbSubContrassID=0&listSrc=Y

 

“The Israel Card Both Sides Can Play It” http://www.andrewsullivan.com/main_article.php?artnum=20030317

 

U.S. Hunting Saddam's Hidden Billions - Robin Gedye (Telegraph-UK)
    Saddam, named by Forbes magazine as equal third-richest ruler in the world with Prince Hans-Adam of Liechtenstein - overshadowed only by King Fahd of Saudi Arabia and the Sultan of Brunei - has a known personal wealth exceeding £1.3 billion.    Saddam has found ways to earn more than £1.6 billion a year since the Gulf war, despite sanctions, through elaborate oil and cigarette smuggling operations and via illegal kickbacks.

Taba Mythchief - David Makovsky (National Interest/Washington Institute for Near East Policy) If an American push should come to vigorously pursue the Arab-Israeli peace process after dealing with Iraq, it would be tragic were it plagued by a misleading mythology that Israelis and Palestinians were at the verge of peace in January 2001 as they met at Taba.

·  From Iraq's Neighbors, Reason to Hope for Peace and Reform - Dennis Ross
Many Arab leaders in the Middle East began several weeks ago to adjust to what they perceive to be a new reality. They stopped trying to prevent the war and instead began signaling that they wanted neither to be on the wrong side of the conflict nor on the wrong side of the U.S. The political culture in the region has always put a premium on power and adjusted to it. (Wall Street Journal)

2.2 Million Internet Surfers in Israel (Globes)
    2.2 million Israelis over 13 years of age, amounting to 32.8% of Israel’s total population, currently use the Internet, according to a TNS Teleseker survey.
    Some 50% of all Jewish households have an Internet connection. Every day, 1.5 million Israelis go online.

Thanks to Mark Fox for calling my attention to this article by Bernard Lewis, ”On Liberty and Faith.”

Any discussion of Islam and Democracy must begin with some definition of these two words, both of unstable and therefore explosive content. Click here to view the entire article: http://www.jpost.com/NASApp/cs/ContentServer?pagename=JPost/A/JPArticle/ShowFull&cid=1046324595705

 

How Iran Planned the Buenos Aires Blast - Ze'ev Schiff (Ha'aretz) Israeli intelligence has uncovered most of the details of Iran's involvement in the July 1994 bombing of the Jewish community center in Buenos Aires that left some 100 people dead and 250 wounded.  The decision for the strike was made in principle in August 1993 at a meeting of the Iranian Supreme Council for National Security chaired by Iranian spiritual leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei. Other participants included President Rafsanjani, Intelligence Minister Ali Fallahian, and Khamenei's intelligence and security adviser, Muhamed Hijazi.
    The bomber was Ibrahim Hasin Baro, a Hizballah man from Lebanon.
    The bombing of the Israeli Embassy in Buenos Aires on March 17, 1992, in which 30 people were killed and more than 200 were wounded, was also conducted by Iranian intelligence services, with Hizballah playing a key role in its execution. The methods of operation in both cases were the same.
    See also Mossad: Hizballah behind Buenos Aires Attacks - Herb Keinon (Jerusalem Post)
    See also Suit Begins Against Iran in Marine Barracks Bombing
More than 600 relatives of the 241 U.S. servicemen killed in a 1983 bombing of the Marines barracks in Beirut charged in U.S. District Court in Washington that Iran was responsible for the bombing. Attorneys Thomas Fortune Fay and Steven Perles noted that while militants belonging to the Lebanese group Hizballah participated in the bombing, the leadership of Iran designed and carried out the attack, using an Iranian suicide-bomber to drive the truck. (Washington Post)

Hizballah's Threat to Regional Security - Col. (res.) Dr. Eran Lerman
(Institute for Contemporary Affairs/Jerusalem Center for Public Affairs) Hizballah is an international terrorist organization that has been killing Americans and other Westerners for decades. Indeed, Deputy Secretary of State Richard Armitage said if al-Qaeda is the B-team of terrorism, Hizballah is the A-team. Hizballah has a very large capability to do harm throughout northern Israel, with hundreds of Grad missiles, dozens of short-range missiles like the "Fajar 3" and "Fajar 5," and longer-range rockets of Iranian make that can reach 40-70 km. Israel asked the Turkish government to prohibit the Iranians from using Turkish airspace to fly supplies to Hizballah via Damascus. The Turks agreed, had a couple of Iranian planes land for inspection, and the traditional supply route to Hizballah was closed. It is imperative to get Syrian policy to change. Lebanese prime minister Harari believes Lebanon cannot be both "Hong Kong" (today, Lebanon carries on its shoulders the ability of Syria to survive economically) and "Hanoi" (an adventurous revolutionary state). Hizballah, and the Iranians who back them, are currently more focused on supporting terrorist organizations in the Palestinian arena, primarily Islamic Jihad, which is directly responsive to Iranian directives. The spin that Hizballah and many others in the Arab world put on Israel's withdrawal from Lebanon in May 2000 has had a direct impact on the minds of the Palestinian leadership, who decided to return to the armed struggle.

IT’S SPRING!!!!!!!

“Spring Fever… Catch it!”  http://www.aish.com/societywork/arts/Spring_Fever_-_Catch_It!.asp

 

 

Quotes of the Week 

 

 

 

“For the last four and a half months, the United States and our allies have worked within the Security Council to enforce that council's long-standing demands. Yet some permanent members of the Security Council have publicly announced that they will veto any resolution that compels the disarmament of Iraq. These governments share our assessment of the danger, but not our resolve to meet it… The United Nations Security Council has not lived up to its responsibilities, so we will rise to ours… All the decades of deceit and cruelty have now reached an end. Saddam Hussein and his sons must leave Iraq within 48 hours. Their refusal to do so will result in military conflict commenced at a time of our choosing.”—U.S. President George W. Bush, announcing U.S. plans to invade Iraq should Saddam Hussein not leave the country by 8:00 PM eastern time tonight. (New York Times, March 18)

 

"Tell our allies that at the very moment of action, at the very moment when they need our determination, that Britain faltered? I will not be party to such a course… To retreat now, I believe, would put at hazard all that we hold dearest, turn the United Nations into a talking shop, stifle the first steps of progress in the Middle East, leave the Iraqi people to the mercy of events on which we would have relinquished all power to influence for the better. Back away from this confrontation now and future conflicts will be infinitely worse and more devastating in their effects."—British Prime Minister Tony Blair, challenging his Parliament to consider the consequences of not supporting British participation in the war against Iraq. With the backing of most of the Tory opposition, the government defeated an anti-war motion by 179 votes, 396 to 217, and won a mandate for war by 412-149, with 83 Labour MPs voting against. However, two of Blair’s ministers, and former foreign secretary Robin Cook, resigned in protest. (Int. Her. Trib., March 19)

 

 

 

 

 

Announcements 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What is a Hevra Kadisha (literally "Sacred Fellowship")?

And what is it doing in Stamford???

Everything You've Been "Dying" to Know...

About the Mitzvah that is called "The Greatest Act of Kindness" and the volunteers who perform it.

Find out at a special program on

 Sunday, March 23rd at 9:30 a.m.

Guest speaker:  Jan Simblist

 

Jan has been a member for twelve years.  She is a medical technologist with experience both in the research and clinical areas of laboratory science.  She has been a consultant to nursing homes in Connecticut on infection control issues for Quest Diagnostics.  She is a former board member of Agudath Sholom who, last year, was elected as vice president of the Hevra Kadisha. 

 The men and women who serve as volunteers in our community would like the rest of the Jewish community to know that there is such a service available.  Here's Beth El's chance to find out all about it.

And if you like what you see, you can attend the…

 

“PRACTICAL  KABBALAH”

with RABBI ANDREA COHEN-KIENER

Sundays March 23rd and March 30th

10:30 am—12:00 pm in the lobby



A part theoretical and part experiential look at our mystical tradition.

Although somewhat of a continuation of last year’s course, some key teachings

will be reviewed, so first timers are welcome!



 

 

NEXT FRIDAY IS FAMILY FRIDAY, FEATURING OUR JUNIOR CHOIR.  JOIN US IN THE SANCTUARY AT 7:30 

WE’LL SUPPLY THE “EGGS.”

 

Communal PASSOVER SEDER at TBE

Thursday, April 1 7, 7:00 p.m.

RESERVATIONS ARE POURING IN AND

SPACE IS LIMITED

(REMEMBER THE SHABBATON!)

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B i k u r  C h o l i m

T r a i n i n g

 

Know someone who is sick or alone?

 

We do.

 

Jewish Patients need you !

 

Become a Bikur  Cholim  volunteer . **

 

** Bikur Cholim is Hebrew for “visiting the sick”.

 

 Jewish Family Service of Stamford & the Rabbi Isaac N. Trainin Bikur Cholim Coordinating Council of the Jewish Board of Family and Children’s Services,

in collaboration with

Temple Beth El, Temple Sinai, Congregation Agudath Shalom, Young Israel Synagogue, The Fellowship For Jewish Learning, Chavurat Aytz Chayim and the Jewish Community Center

 are sponsoring a training program for Bikur Cholim volunteers. We will all learn how to be more effective, compassionate and competent visitors to the sick,

homebound and elderly.

 

The training program includes:

q       Introduction to Bikur Cholim; The Role of the Visitor

q       How to relate to patients with sensitivity and compassion

q       How to listen and respond to patients

 

TEENS WELCOME!

 

Sunday, March 30th at the Jewish Community Center, 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT

9:45   Registration and Coffee

10:00-11:30   Bikur Cholim Training

11:30-12:00   Follow Up Meeting

 

For more information & to RSVP call Sara Jamison, MA, MSW @ (203) 921-4161

 

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SAVE THE DATE

 

“Six Million Times One”

 

Community Yom Hashoah

April 28, 2003

7:00 PM

at

Temple Beth El

 

Request to the Community:

If you would like to include photographs of your loved ones who perished during the Shoah in our community event, please call Ilana De Laney, 321-1373, ext. 114.

 

 

Youth Activities

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

Attention high school students!

Absentee letters, for the attendance office at your school, are now available for the last two days of Passover (April 23-24).  Call Mindy at ext. 301 or e-mail your request to office@tbe.org.

 

 

And don’t forget…..

 

8th Grade Overnight at USY Spring Convention

March 22nd - 23rd

Holiday Inn, North Haven, CT

 

We all need a good laugh these daysso here are some jokes that were forwarded to me, with a twist.  Instead of “Jewish Jokes,” which we’ve all heard too many of, how about some “Gentile Jokes.”  Here are a few good ones:


A Gentile goes into a clothing store and says, "This is a very fine jacket.  How much is it?"  The salesman says, "It's $500."  The Gentile says, "OK, I'll take it."
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Two Gentiles meet on the street.  The first one says, "You own your own business, don't you?  How's it going?" The other Gentile says, "Just great!  Thanks for asking!"
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Two Gentile mothers meet on the street and start talking about children. Gentile mother 1 (said with pride): "My son is a construction worker!" Gentile mother 2 (said with more pride): "My son is a truck driver!"
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A man calls his mother and says, "Mother, I know you're expecting me for dinner this evening, but something important has come up and I can't make it."  His mother says, "OK."
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A Gentile couple goes to a nice restaurant. The man says: "I'll have the steak and a baked potato, and my wife will have the julienne salad with house dressing.  We'll both have coffee." The waiter says, "How would you like your steak and salad prepared?" The man says,” I’d like the steak medium......the salad is fine as is." The waiter says, " Thank you."
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A Gentile man calls his elderly mother.  He asks, " Mom, how are you feeling?  Do you need anything?"  She says, "I'm feeling fine, and I don't need anything.  Thanks for calling.

The Web link for this week's Shabbat-O-Gram is - http://www.tbe.org/sog/030321.htm - The site is continually updated during the week with corrections and additions.  Feel free to forward this link to your friends. People can subscribe to the weekly Shabbat-o-Gram at www.tbe.org.   I also send out mailings to college students, Gen Xers and teens, so let us know if you wish to be placed on any of those lists.  If you wish to unsubscribe, contact office@tbe.org.