2) If you can't make it here for whatever reason, we are now live streaming our services weekly. You'll recall that our system was installed a little while back, dedicated to the memory of Hesh Romanowitz. We are now rolling it out in full. Click here to find our TBE Livestream home page and follow us. You'll receive an e-mail link to each service we are streaming. You can also see some archived services there. Now, wherever you are in the world, our services can be there with you. While the quality of the video is pretty good, it doesn't come close to the experience of being here. But our music is just too good to keep to ourselves - we want to share our light with the world.
On Shabbat morning, as we celebrate 100th anniversary of Albert Einstein's theory of
Relativity, we'll look at light from both scientific and Jewish perspectives (Einstein, after all, was both scientific and Jewish!). Preview the packet, taken from the Hanukkah collection, "A Different Light," by Noam Zion and Barbara Spectre.
Check out my archive of Hanukkah postings and information. Also see:
Special Blessings for Each Night, from the Rabbinical Assembly:
- What you need to know about the Hanukkah story
- Hanukkah 101 Brush up on the basics of the festival of lights.
- Hanukkah At Home Home rituals celebrating light as a metaphor for spiritual freedom.
- For Families Eight days of fun.
- Hanukkah In the Community Jewish communities around the world celebrate Hanukkah with parties, songs, and games.
- Candlelighting There is a set procedure that is followed in this home ritual.
- Blessings Blessings for lighting the Hanukkah candles.
- Publicizing the Miracle The home ceremonies followed today were the conscious creation of the Talmudic rabbis.
- Video: How to Light The Adventures of Todd and God.
- How To Play Dreidel Rules for the popular Hanukkah game
- This modern Talmud page offers four classical rabbinic commentaries on the mitzvah of Chanukah, each paired with a reflection by a member of the T'ruah staff..
- These two short texts open a discussion about light and darkness, hope and despair, in the arena of human rights.
We Can Light Up the Darkness...
On November 30, 2015 the Attorney General's office wrote a letter to Rabbi Shmuel Rabinowitz, administrator of the Western Wall and Holy Places, in response to Women of the Wall's campaign. The bottom line: the Hanukkah candle-lighting ceremony he has conducted until now constitutes discrimination and a violation of the commitments of the government's report on the exclusion of women in the public sphere. In the closing of her unprecedented letter, Assistant Attorney General Dana Zilber writes, "Preventing women from participating in national ceremonies is wrongful discrimination and we request that [Rabinowitz] ensure this fact is not taken for granted and that steps are being taken to include women in the national candle-lighting ceremony on this coming Hanukkah at the Western Wall." Zilber requested that the AG's office receive a list of all those expected to participate in the ceremony this year, to assist with the enforcement of the decision on the matter.
Anat Hoffman, Women of the Wall Chair: "It is almost graphic how Women of the Wall were the match that ignited the flame on the first candle to ever be lit by a woman at the national Hanukkah ceremony at the Kotel. Whatever woman is chosen for this great honor, she is standing on the shoulders of Women of the Wall who struggled for 27 years to achieve freedom for women at the Western Wall. It is clear to me that one candle dispel a whole lot of darkness but no amount of darkness can extinguish that candle."
Read more about this Miracle at the Kotel. And stay tuned to see what happens...
We Can Light Up the Darkness...
December 4 is an important date on the Jewish calendar. The Jewish calendar? Yes, it's true, since this is the day when a prayer in the weekday Amida switches to winter mode, asking for "rain and dew for a blessing" rather than simply "a blessing." Click here to read the full explanation, much more than you ever thought you would wanted to know about this topic!
Fear is all around us. We live in a constant state of uncertainty. We can leave to the pundits to argue over what constitutes terrorism, and whether we should be more afraid of people who murder because of ideology, religion, mental instability or simple, unadulterated hate. Murder is murder. The fact that so many have the desire to commit mass, random murder is not new. The fact that they have the ability to do so, and acquire sophisticated weaponry so easily, is.
In the portion Vayeshev, chapter 39 of Genesis, Joseph is confronted by the greatest test of his young life, the advances of Potiphar's wife. She finds him handsome, wants him and from her position of power, and proceeds to embark in a campaign of what we would call in our day sexual harassment in the workplace. The Torah gives us Joseph's response to those advances in verse 8, "But he refused, and said unto his master's wife: 'Behold, my master, having me, knows not what is in the house, and he has put all that he has into my hand."
It all sounds very clear-cut and courageous. But the musical cantillation for the word "he resisted," "Va-y'ma'en," tells another story entirely. It's a shalshelet, a note found only four times in the entire Torah (listen to it here). This roller-coaster of a note goes up and down three times, and wherever it is used it connotes hesitation, accompanied by the recognition of a fateful personal choice that needs to be made.
Rabbi Steven Nathan comments that Joseph was actually living in a world of shalshelet. He writes, "For at various times in our life we all live in the shalshelet, that long, drawn out, wavering place where all seems uncertain." In his commentary, he is speaking about sexuality and identity. But I think the analogy can also apply to violence and fear.
We often speak of becoming numb to the endless wave of mass murder, and to a degree that's true. The list of mass shootings has become so endless that we barely have time to assimilate Colorado Springs before we need to shift focus to San Bernardino. Attempts at mass murder have become daily occurrences in so many locations, including, of course, Israel and the West Bank. See the list of recent attacks here. Media outlets by now have routinized their coverage of these events, just as the politicians have routinized their responses. Murder has become all so routine.
It's easy to become numb, to be paralyzed both by overwhelming, apparently unstoppable wave of horror that we confront, and by our fear to do anything or say anything about it.
The Talmud (Yoma 36a) shows how Mrs. Potiphar tried to seduce her prey.
"Each day, the wife of Potiphar would attempt to seduce him with words. Clothing she wore for him in the morning she would not wear for him in the evening. Clothing she wore for him in the evening she would not wear for him in the morning. She said to him, 'Surrender to me.' He answered her 'No.' She threatened him, 'I'll confine you in prison...I'll subdue your proud stature...I'll blind your eyes,'" but Joseph refused her. She then gave him a huge sum of money, but he did not budge."
Not even Mrs. Robinson went to such lengths to seduce Benjamin Braddock.
The Talmud (Sota 36b) then provides a detailed picture of Joseph's inner struggle:
"The image of his father appeared to him in the window and said, 'Joseph, your brothers' names are destined to be inscribed on the stones of the [high priest's] apron, and you will be among them. Do you want your name to be erased? Do you want to be called an adulterer?'"
With the wave of terror so intense in our lives, we need to say "No! No!No!" to it by affirming life in the face of death.
How do we do that?
- By celebrating life wherever and whenever we can.
- By acting courageously to defeat the ideology of mass murder. We so often hear people calling for moderate Muslim leaders to publicly reclaim Islam from the extremists, who have distorted their religion and defamed God. I know many who do, and I agree that they should. But I need to have the courage to do the same. For there are extremist rabbis who have distorted the meaning of Judaism as well. While Jewish terrorists have not done nearly the damage that Muslim terrorists have (by a long shot), I see little difference between those who blow themselves up for Allah and those who kill a 1 year old baby by burning his home, scribbling "Long live the Moshiach" in Hebrew as their calling card. They are all -perversions of ancient, life-affirming traditions. They all must be condemned and defeated.
- By acting courageously to remove the means of mass murder. Common sense gun laws. Greater regulation of social media as a forum for incitement, recruitment and training of death-cult volunteers. That's just the beginning. We need to have the courage to stand up to powerful lobbies and intractable legislators.
- By living lives of senseless beauty, practicing random acts of kindnesswherever we go, guided by an ethos of an unbounded love of neighbor.