Tuesday, March 19, 2013

The Fifth Child




The Fifth Child
(Special to the Jewish Week)

On Passover we read about the Four Children, each of whom approaches the Seder experience from a different angle. We are called upon to explain the Exodus story in the manner most developmentally appropriate for each child.

The Fourth Child is arguably the most challenging one, since that child doesn’t even know how to ask. I propose that this year we add a Fifth Child, updating a custom used back in the heyday of the Soviet Jewry movement, and more recently as a stand-in for Gilad Shalit or those facing debilitating illness. But now we have a new Fifth Child. Alongside the one who does not know how to ask, we must now include the one who can’t ask, not because she’s stuck in a Gulag or Gazan prison, but because she’s been killed, right here in America. This is the child whose inquisitive mind has been stilled forever by the magazines of a maniac’s assault rifle, or by the single bullet of a parent’s unlocked handgun, or at the hands of an abusive caregiver, or as the result of incessant bullying and unremitting cruelty. 

Deeply embedded in the Exodus narrative is a subtext, the idea that Egypt is not merely a place but also a metaphor. Rabbinic wisdom relates the Hebrew word for Egypt, Mitzrayim, to the term for “tight place,” in the sense of one’s being constricted. In this literary interpretation, the shackles of slavery are a reflection of our own narrow-mindedness. If Egypt is a metaphor, then we are enslaved not to Pharaoh, but to our own prejudice and anger — and to our pervasive culture of violence.

There are far too many Fifth Children out there, and we’ve allowed that to happen. We have produced a society where child sacrifice is once again in vogue. That child, though now residing in our cemeteries, deserves a place at this year’s table.

In this way, Passover is exceptionally relevant in the wake of Newtown. It points to the anger and violence that we are combating (I wish we could get beyond military terms.) in our society and within our hearts as well. The current struggle is about firearms for sure, but it’s also about our combustible souls.

According to Slate, in the nearly three months from Newtown to March 7, guns killed 2,659 Americans. That running tally is incomplete, but it is illustrative, and that tally includes nearly 200 teens and children. So in the three months since the children died at Newtown, there have been effectively ten more Sandy Hooks in this country. 

And still, Congress hems and haws. 

Military assault weapons and high capacity magazines continue to be freely available in a civilian society where they serve absolutely no good purpose. Even after Newtown, the best Washington appears able to do is come up with a plan to enhance the system of background checks. Our reps appear stuck in these narrow straits of Egypt, addicted to our culture of violence, bound to these narrow straits by political arm twisting and pressure lobbying. It seems as if our representatives are voting, metaphorically, with a gun to their heads. There is no other way to explain the lack of outrage and moral resolve in preventing future Newtowns and eliminating the 10th plague of gun violence from our society.

The sage Hillel famously said, “If not now, when?” In Congress, prodded by the NRA, that rabbinic call to arms (oops) has been transformed into a sullen teenager’s “If not now, whenever!” I have news for everyone: this is the “now” that Hillel was talking about. If large magazines and assault weapons aren't curtailed now, they never will be. And if they aren’t, more children will die — and their blood will be on our hands.

I was one of 4,000 clergy to sign a letter written by Newtown clergy imploring senators to vote for strong legislation to prevent gun violence. Four thousand! In this country it’s hard to get 4,000 clergy to agree that the sky is blue, but the cause of ending gun violence mends denominational differences even as it rends families and communities apart.

Ending this plague is the cry of our generation, a moral imperative and a Jewish imperative. It is universal and particularistic.  Before Newtown there was Northridge — the JCC shooting in 1999. As a Jew, I care about all innocent human beings, but I also know that my own people are especially threatened by a gun-running culture that allows, through gun show loopholes, for white supremacists like Buford Furrow Jr. to procure unconscionably lethal weapons without a problem and blast 70 gunshots into a JCC  complex with the intent of killing lots of Jewish kids.
So this Passover, we need to wonder about who is not at the table.  The children of Newtown need a voice. So do the four children of Shirley Chambers, the Chicago mother who lost all four of her children to gun violence. All human life is of equal value. Let all those children now become the Fifth Child at our Seders  all children, everywhere, who have fallen victim to our society’s gun-sanity. They are the child who cannot ask because we have allowed them to be killed on our watch.

We are killing our own children because we are letting them be killed. 

This crucial issue is the real “right to life” movement, for no matter what our beliefs regarding the origin or end of life, everyone agrees that first graders have a right to live.

Together, let us search for a common path that will lead us from Egypt, from the scourge of violence that has plagued us for far too long.

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman is spiritual leader of Temple Beth-El in Stamford, Conn.

Monday, March 18, 2013

TBE Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary: Max Zussman on Vayikra


Shabbat Shalom.

Life is filled with encounters with people, both friends and relatives and total strangers.  Each one has the potential to greatly affect you – to change everything.

When I was 6 or 7 years old, I was hanging out with neighbor Mahesh, who is four years older than me.  So I went over to his house to shoot baskets – it was almost the only time we ever played together.  I was just beginning to get interested in basketball.  So I asked, “What’s your favorite team?” and he said the Boston Celtics.  So I decided, why not, sounds good - and I became a Celtics fan for life.  I watch a lot of games and follow them more closely than any team in any sport.  And if you ask most of my friends, they would tell you right away that I am a h-u-g-e Celtics fan.

Mahesh went his way.  He’s in high school now and I don’t see him much.  We hardly ever played basketball together after that day.  But his influence on me is still very strong.  On a court on one day, one encounter changed my life and my sporting world.

Jewish history is all about how simple encounters, even with strangers, can make a big difference in our lives.  My portion is the first one in the book of Leviticus – Vayikra – which describes the ancient form of religious worship known as sacrifice.  We don’t do sacrifices anymore, but there are still lessons for us to learn.

One lesson is the word sacrifice itself – In Hebrew, it’s KORBAN, which comes from the Hebrew word “Karov” which means “close.”  To give a sacrifice was a way that our ancestors brought themselves closer to God.  But in doing that, they had to take a trip to Jerusalem, which could have taken many days, and on the way, they would have encounters with many different people, including a brief encounter with the priest who took the animal from them at the temple.

It’s similar today – no we don’t sacrifice animals (Don’t worry, Dylan).  But in being part of a synagogue, while we are praying to God, we are also coming closer to other people. On the first day of Hebrew School we meet a new teacher and new madrich,  or teacher’s aide, people that I may not have known that well.  By the end of the year it’s clear that they have made a big difference in our lives.  Mrs. Hammerman was a great teacher this year and made going to Hebrew School a more positive experience.  (The Rabbi did NOT tell me to say that).  It’s encounters like these that help us become who we are.   And it doesn’t just happen in a synagogue of course, it’s everywhere.
      
A few years ago, my family traveled to Guatemala.  It was a very fun trip but along the way, I did see a lot of poor, hungry people on the streets.  In the markets, people would sell you five bracelets for, like, 25 cents.  So I bought a couple of dozen and just gave them to all my friends.  True, we managed to lose almost all of them within a week, but this brief encounter in the market helped these poor people and it made my friends happy. 

For my mitzvah project, I am doing two things.  I’m volunteering my time at Person to Person, where I am helping to sort food, clothes, toys and tools, so that people in need can come and get them.  I’m also donating some of my bar mitzvah money to an organization that my grandma started in Hilton Head, called Backpack Buddies.  This charity provides food over the weekend for disadvantaged children who get free meals at school during the week.

Although I will probably never meet the people who I am helping at Person to Person or Backpack Buddies, I know that I am affecting their lives every bit as much as Mahesh changed mine – maybe even more.

Through acts of kindness like this, the brief encounter that can change a life doesn’t even require you to even be in the same state as the person you help.  But it still can change a life.

Minyan Matters

This coming week we mark the yahrzeit of Frank Rosner, Mr. Beth El, who was loved by all and who championed the morning minyan.  With that in mind, and with the ongoing challenges that have faced our morning minyan, our ritual committee asks all congregants to rededicate themselves to this important mitzvah.  We've even put up a sign at our Roxbury Rd. entrance to act as a constant reminder.  And if you happen to be driving by at 7:30 on a weekday morning (to or from Westhill drop off, perhaps), by all means, stop on by.  

See a complete guide to the morning minyan here, including explanations of all the prayers and explorations of the terms "minyan" and "daven."


Here is a personal note from Eileen Rosner.


Dear Congregant,

I am writing to ask you to consider attending our morning minyan.  As many of you know, Minyan was very important to my father and remains so for me.  Kaddish cannot be recited without ten people and this winter it has been a very challenging number to meet.  Normally we get there, but on some days, particularly Monday and Thursday (Torah reading days), it's been hard.   When people ask for a guaranteed minyan that typically helps, but some are uncomfortable asking for that, so many come without reciting their personal prayer.  If you have ever said Kaddish at our minyan, you know how powerful that experience can be, and how wonderful it is to have a supportive community around you.  Please know that your presence can be just as powerful for someone else with the similar needs.  If you've never been here on a weekday or Sunday morning, know that it can feel so good to help another person, and that performing that mitzvah can really lift your own spirits as you start your day.   Please consider doing this mitzvah just a little more frequently so that everyone has a chance to say Kaddish.  If every congregant pledged to come here just a couple of times each year (though monthly or weekly would be even better), we would never have to worry!

I thank you for your consideration.  With warm wishes for a Sweet Passover, 

Eileen Rosner

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Coming to a Shul Gift Shop Near You: Bullet Proof Vests for Kids



I get emails from this Israel-Catalog for Judaica, DVDs etc.  Last week this came in. The latest cool fashions, soon to be sold at a synagogue gift shop near you. Ironically, gun violence is much less prevalent in Israel than here (and many fewer civilians possess them).

This weekend is Gun Violence Prevention Sabbath and we had a long discussion about the topic yesterday at services. Click here for the discussion packet distributed at services on Shabbat. And here to see more bullet proof attire for kids from Israel-Catalog.com.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Shabbat O' Gram for March 16

 

Shabbat Shalom 
  

This week’s Shabbat-O-Gram is  sponsored by Nicole and Ron Zussman
in honor of their son, Max, becoming a Bar Mitzvah.


Top O’ the Shabbat To You!

That’s the best I can do on the weekend of St. Patrick’s Day.  Lots of mazal tovs to go around this week:  Mazal tov to Max Zussman and family, as he becomes bar mitzvah this Shabbat.   Mazal tov and best wishes to our Catholic neighbors on the ascension of Pope Francis to his new role.  Among his many credentials cited over the past couple of days are the new pope’s close relations with the Jewish community of Argentina. Mazal tov also to Prime Minister Netanyahu (or “Bibi,” as president Obama has now taken to calling his good buddy) and his soon-to-be sworn in government.  The President’s trip to Israel next week (see the schedule here) promises to be filled with symbolism, if short on substance.  His highly touted interview on Israeli TV was aired last night and it is clear that direct outreach to the Israeli people will be a major theme next week.  Israelis are a cynical bunch, especially when it comes to Obama, but when someone comes to visit them, it can transform the relationship completely.  Anwar Sadat and Bill Clinton are the most compelling examples, but there have been others. 

This is National Gun Violence Prevention Sabbath, and with legislation pending both in Washtington and Hartford, this is most definitely a time to heed Hillel’s oft quoted maxim,  “If Not Now, When?” This is a time for all faiths to reflect on the plague of gun violence in our society.  And this Shabbat morning, we'll be doing just that.


Minyan Matters

This coming week we mark the yahrzeit of Frank Rosner, Mr. Beth El, who was loved by all and who championed the morning minyan.  With that in mind, and with the ongoing challenges that have faced our morning minyan, our ritual committee asks all congregants to rededicate themselves to this important mitzvah.  We’ve even put up a sign at our Roxbury Rd. entrance to act as a constant reminder.  And if you happen to be driving by at 7:30 on a weekday (to or from Westhill drop off, perhaps), by all means, stop on by.  Here is a personal note from Eileen Rosner.


Dear Congregant,

I am writing to ask you to consider attending our morning minyan.  As many of you know, Minyan was very important to my father and remains so for me.  Kaddish cannot be recited without ten people, as you know, and this winter it has been a very challenging number to meet.  Normally we get there, but on some days, particularly Monday and Thursday (Torah reading days), it's been hard.   When people ask for a guaranteed minyan that typically helps, but some are uncomfortable asking for that, so many come without reciting their personal prayer.  If you have ever said Kaddish at our minyan, you know how powerful that experience can be, and how wonderful it is to have a supportive community around you.  Please know that your presence can be just as powerful for someone else with the similar needs.  If you've never been here on a weekday or Sunday morning, know that it can feel so good to help another person, and that performing that mitzvah can really lift your own spirits as you start your day.   Please consider doing this mitzvah just a little more frequently so that everyone has a chance to say Kaddish.  If every congregant pledged to come here just a couple of times each year (though monthly or weekly would be even better), we would never have to worry!

I thank you for your consideration.  With warm wishes for a Sweet Passover, 

Eileen Rosner

Yes, you can get haroset flavored ice cream in Israel this year. As someone commented on my Facebook page, either this is going to be delicious... or disgusting!

Pesach is Coming

Plan to join Cantor Mordecai, Rev Kate Heichler, the New World Chorus and myself, along with a host of others from many faiths, at our second annual Interfaith Seder, here next Thursday, March 21.  See the flyer here. Last year's Seder attracted well over a hundred people, and the theme for this year is compelling: "From Egypt to Sinai, Selma to Sandy Hook: Liberation from a Culture of Violence."  

SEDER MATCH-UP

With an "early" Passover sneaking up on us quickly, it's easy to be caught off guard regarding Seder preparations.  As in years past, I'd like to compile a list of households with space at the table for guests who might be looking.  If you have room at your table, please indicate how many spaces and for which night(s), whether you can accommodate children and any other information that would be helpful to know.  I would get back to you with names of prospective guests to invite, as the need arises.

PESACH GUIDES AND HAMETZ

Find the complete 2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide at this link.
Find a Search for Hametz guide with study materials here.
Read about the laws and customs of hametz here.
  

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Friday, March 8, 2013

Shabbat-O-Gram for March 8


Israeli Political Watershed, thoughts on "The Gatekeepers," Hummus on Passover? Being a Jewish Mutt, Spring Ahead: Setting our Jewish Clocks

Shabbat Shalom 
   
Yes it is snowing today, but tonight will be nice, so join us for our Kabbalat Shabbat service at 7:30 (as 200 did last week) and tomorrow morning too, when we'll hear about 300 Ways to Enhance our Seders.  If you are looking for a snowy day thing to do, see Eddie Weinstein's excellent d'var Torah from last Shabbat; and while you are at it, see last week's discussion packet: Aaron vs. Moses:  Who is the Ideal Jewish Leader? So who would YOU pick?  The guy who threw down the tablets or the guy who built the Golden Calf?  And while you are moving the clocks forward,  take a look back at our great winter (despite the weather) ...see our Purim photo albumour Temple Rock  album and our fall-winter album too!


Spring Ahead: Setting our (Jewish) Clocks
  
As we prepare to leave this snow behind us and move the clocks forward, here's a "timely" blog entry by TBE's Early Childhood Director Ronnie Brockman,  "Daylight Savings as an Opportunity."  
  
In fact, we are setting our Jewish clocks this weekend too, moving them both back through history and forward toward Passover.  It's Shabbat ha-Hodesh, the "Sabbath of the Month," where we read a special Torah selection proclaiming that the month of Passover is about to begin, and our preparations start in earnest. 
  
The Torah states that the coming month of Nisan is the first month of the year. Not Tishrei, not Rosh Hashanah, but Nisan.  If the world was created in Tishrei, then why is Nisan considered the first month of the year?

Ramban understood the rationale of this law in the following way:
    "The children of Israel should mark this month as the first, and should count months in relation to this one; the second, the third, to the 12th month. This is to ensure that we remember the great miracle (of yetziat Mitzrayim - the Exodus) for whenever we mention the month, we will (effectively) be mentioning the miracle. That is why there are no names of months in the Torah, but the Torah will say (for example): "And it came to pass in the third month" (19:1) or "In the second month of the second year" (Bamidbar 10:11). This is the same notion as our counting the days of the week in relation to Shabbat. And this is why it says in the verse 'it shall be the first of the months of the year FOR YOU'. In truth it is not the first month of the year (as the world was created in Tishrei), but it is the first month for you as it is a remembrance of our redemption."

The establishment of the calendar is a vital step in pursuit of freedom - all sorts of freedoms, both collective and personal.  A slave is not a master of his or her own time. When I create my own calendar, I control my time: when I work, play, rest and celebrate. That holds true for nations and religions as well.   Just as the Jewish week always revolves around Shabbat, so do the Jewish months always point back - and forward - to redemption from Egypt, to freedom, to release.

And as Shabbat haHodesh ends, we can then set our clocks forward, a ritual that reminds us that soon we will be released, only from Egyptian slavery, but from winter's grip as well.    

A Watershed in Israeli Politics

Yes, it's true that there has been a plague of locusts in southern Israel this week, just in time for Passover.  And AIPAC had a nice, uneventful Policy Conference - uneventful is a good thing if it means that Democrats and Republicans are making nice and not turning Israel into a wedge issue, and AIPAC successfully avoids getting mixed up in ill advised confirmation disputes over cabinet members, while highlighting Israel's extraordinary achievements in technology, it's shared values and strategic military partnership with the US and the common threat posed by Iran.   But that's not the big news.

Just as we move the clocks forward here, the stars seemed aligned for what could be a major change in the relationship between religion and state in Israel.  Because of the rock-solid alliance forged by Yesh Atid (Yair Lapid's party) and Habayit haYehudi (led by Naftali Bennett), one a centrist and pluralist and the other right wing and modern Orthodox, this strange set of bedfellows has put Benjamin Netanyahu in a bind.  He must either form a government with them, and without his natural allies, the Haredim, or give up his chance to be Prime Minister.  And while at another time he might be so bold as to opt for new elections, a certain President of the United States is scheduled to be coming to town before Passover, and that trip would be cancelled if no Israeli government is formed.  So Bibi-Bennett-Lapid it will be, with Lieberman and Livni in supporting roles.  

While there is no hope of this government achieving a peace agreement, it has potential to start meaningful negotiations, and even if not, the inclusion of Lapid and Livni will help to ease Israel's diplomatic isolation.  But the changes that Lapid is demanding in the area of religion and state are nothing less than revolutionary; among them a national "sharing of the burden" (meaning army or national service for thousands of Haredim, plus fewer financial subsidies and needed educational reform in Haredi schools), civil marriage and liberalized conversion requirements and a change in the status of the chief rabbinate.  Lapid is reportedly going for legalized gay marriage as well, but Bennett is balking at that.  He's also looking to have more public bus transportation on Shabbat - and maybe he'll put an end to the scourge of gender segregated buses too.  And then there are the economic changes he is fighting for, including affordable housing for those living in Israel proper (it will be interesting to see how Lapid and Bennett divide that pie among those on either side of the Green Line).

Ladies and gentlemen, this is a Big Deal.  If Lapid could accomplish this, and then top this agenda off with some meaningful electoral reform, the messiah might not come, but he might make good on his prediction that he'll become Prime Minister in 18 months. 

There is little Israel can do to control what's going on in its turbulent neighborhood right now; but there is plenty Israel can do to change what is most problematic about Israeli society.  

All the while, they and the US will keep a mindful eye on Iran.


"The Gatekeepers"  

Last week, I noted that "The Gatekeepers," Israel's Oscar nominated documentary, was opening locally at the Avon.  I saw it and think it should be required viewing for every American Jew.  I wouldn't mind if Obama and Netanyahu watched it together (Netanyahu already said he wouldn't see it).  There is absolutely nothing anti-Israel about a film featuring "60 Minutes" style interviews with six of the past seven heads of the Shin-Bet - the seventh is dead.  These interviews are gripping, as the leaders come to grips with the past five decades of Israel's existence, the moral challenges of fighting a permanent war in unbearable conditions - of being both the occupier and the besieged. And although it's a documentary, it is also a gripping, edge-of-your-seat drama.

We see the life and death decisions they've had to make.  Do you drop a one ton bomb on an apartment building in the middle of Gaza when you know that the entire leadership of Hamas is meeting there?  Or do you compromise and drop a quarter ton bomb?  Israel chose the latter and while the second floor of the building was destroyed, the meeting was taking place on the first, and the Hamas leaders lived to fight another day. 

They say shocking, haunting things.  Avraham Shalom, the veteran of the group, compared Israeli occupiers to Germans in World War Two.  Yes, you read that correctly.  He went on to clarify that he was not comparing what Israeli soldiers do to what Nazis did to Jews, but rather what the Germans did to the Dutch or the Czechs or other peoples they occupied.  Thank you very much.  Imagine if anyone else were to say that.  But, although one might easily refute that hyperbole, the film shows how, step by step, the occupation has come eerily close to fulfilling Professor Yeshayahu Leibowitz's famous prediction back in 1968, that Israel, if it remained an occupier, would become a "Shin Bet state, with all that this implies for education, freedom of speech and thought, and democracy."

The film takes a dark turn in describing the growing phenomenon of Jewish fanaticism, leading to the plot to blow up the Dome of the Rock and later, the murder of Prime Minister Rabin.   The perpetrators of these crimes have been glorified by many in Israeli society and, when compared to non Jewish perpetrators of terrorism, they have gotten off far too easy.

There were shocking revelations about Palestinians too, like the Palestinian leader who told one of the security heads (who was flabbergasted that he was claiming victory when Israel had crushed the Intifada), "Victory for us is making you suffer."

Does anything hopeful emerge from this film?  Absolutely.  It shows that Israel's security chiefs are moral, rational people, imbued with Jewish values regarding the sanctity of life and the pursuit of peace.  Israel is not an apartheid state and most Israelis yearn for a two state solution.  But the corrosive effect of these past few decades is undeniable, and these six Shin Bet leaders, step by eye-popping step, show us how and why it happened.


Pesach is Coming

Plan to join Cantor Mordecai, Rev Kate Heichler, the New World Chorus and myself, along with a host of others from many faiths, at our second annual Interfaith Seder, here on March 21.  See the flyer here. Last year's seder attracted well over a hundred people, and the theme for this year is compelling: "From Egypt to Sinai, Selma to Sandy Hook: Liberation from a Culture of Violence."  


SEDER MATCH-UP

With an "early" Passover sneaking up on us quickly, it's easy to be caught off guard regarding Seder preparations.  As in years past, I'd like to compile a list of households with space at the table for guests who might be looking.  If you have room at your table, please indicate how many spaces and for which night(s), whether you can accommodate children and any other information that would be helpful to know.  I would get back to you with names of prospective guests to invite, as the need arises.

PESACH GUIDES AND HAMETZ

Find the complete 2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide at this link.
Find a Search for Hametz guide with study materials here.
Read about the laws and customs of hametz here.
  

Call Me Ashke-sphard, the Jewish Mutt

Everyone has their favorite Passover store.  When I am in Boston, as I was this week, I love to go to the Butcherie on Harvard Street.  For Passover, they have the best knishes and a great variety of baked goods and appetizers.  But I was not prepared for the extent of the offerings with Kitniyot (legumes), something that you see everywhere in Israel, but I really haven't seen so much here. 

Let me cut to the chase, they had hummus.  If I'm willing to go Sefardic, the hummus is mine! 

With Pesach approaching, Jews of Sephardic extraction, particularly in Israel, will be able to get away with things that would make most American Jews turn karpas-green with envy. They get to eat the rice and legumes ("kitniyot") that Sephardi Jews have always eaten, foods that their more stringent Ashkenazi cousins have avoided.  Cleanup is also not as difficult as in an Ashkenazi kitchen.  All of this, and the only drawback is having to do "hagba" (lifting the Torah) with those heavy, encased Torah scrolls. So where do I sign up to become Sephardi? A few years ago, the Masorti (Conservative) movement in Israel came out with a rabbinic ruling indicating that it was OK for Ashkenazi Israelis to adapt a Sephardi posture with regard to kitniyot on Pesach (see the ruling here). The feeling was it would make sense to relax the practice in order to allow all Jews in Israel to "break bread" together on the holiday, so to speak.

Here, is a list of those items considered "legumes" for Pesach purposes:

Anise, Ascorbic Acid (May be Chometz), Asparatame (Nutrasweet), Beans, Black Eyed Peas, Buckwheat, Calcium Ascorbate, Canola Oil, Caraway, Citric Acid (May be Chometz), Chickpeas, Confectioners' sugar with corn starch, Coriander, Corn, Corn Syrup, Cumin, Dextrose, Fennel, Fenugreek, Flax Seeds, Hemp, Hydrolyzed Vegetable Oil, Kasha, Kimmel, Lecithin, Lentils, Licorice, Lucerne, Lupine, Malto Dextrins (Chometz or Kitnios derived), Millet, MSG, Mustard, Peanuts, Polysorbates (May be Chometz), Popcorn, Poppy Seeds, Rice (Vitamins added may be Chometz), Sesame Seeds, Snow Peas, Sodium Citrate (May be Chometz), Sodium Erythorbate (May be Chometz), Sorbitol (Could be Chometz if outside the U.S.), Soy Oil, Corn Oil, Soy, String Beans, Sunflower Seeds, Tofu (from soy), Vitamin C (may be Chometz), Wild Rice, Xanthan gum (May be Chometz). NOTE: Flax seed and Hemp seed are not Kitniyot and can be used after checking for other grains. 

Imagine what you could do with sesame seeds at your Seder.  Imagine just saying "Sesame Seed Seder" five times fast. 

But Israel is Israel, with a majority Sephardi population, and America is America, where the European legacy prevails. So a few years ago, when I offered the Masorti ruling as a valid Passover option, and when I said that, as a vegetarian, I would be adopting it myself,  people went ballistic.  It was as if I had just sanctioned the eating of pork, except that a number of certified pepperoni pizza eaters were among those who scoffed at the impudence of my OK to eat kitniyot.  Despite the resistance of these inveterate Ashkenazim, it's clear the distinctions are dissolving. For the pattern of the past several centuries of Jewish life has been to create acute cultural divisions, pump lots of anger into these feuds, and then to see them run out of gas within a few generations.

We Jews divide like amoebas, but our internal conflicts tend to dissipate quickly. The Litvaks and the Galicianers, bitter enemies in the Old Country, now lie down like the lion and the lamb; the Zionist Revisionists and Laborites have shared unity governments, and today's Hasidim act more like their former arch enemies, the Mitnagdim, than did the original Mitnagdim two centuries ago, who defined themselves by the fact that they hated Hasidim. As for the religious denominations, growing numbers of Jews shun the old labels, choosing to identify themselves as "post-denominational," "Reformstrucative" or "Renewal-Orthoprax." Rarely do the labels matter anymore because the sands of Jewish identity are shifting too quickly.

So call me Sephardi this year when Pesach rolls around. Call me Sephardi when I say the Kaddish ("YIT-gadal") but Ashkenazi when I say "Good Shabbos." I like to combine a Sephardi diet with an Ashkenazi soul; my blood churns Ladino hot and my humor spouts Yiddish irony. I daven Orthodox, hum Hasidic, philosophize Conservative, innovate Reconstructionist, meditate Kabbalist and do social action Reform. I'm Likud on terrorism and Yesh Atid on pluralism. I'm Meretz meets ha Bayit haYehudi; and they do meet - in me. I'd have been a Zealot on Masada yet a Pharisee in Yavneh a Saul supporter on Gilboa and a Davidite in Jerusalem. I've got the Gaon of Vilna in my mind and the Baal Shem Tov in my heart. Dig deep enough and you may even find that I've got a little Karaite in me, too.

In short, I'm a Jewish mutt. All of Jewish history culminates in each of us. We all are the synthesis of Torah and time. Seemingly irreconcilable opposites are reconciled in the intractable, complex matrix of the individual Jewish soul. 

So good Shabbos to you, a zisen Pesach ... and please pass the hummus.

  
Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Interfaith Seder

Call me Ashke-Sephard, Pass the Pesach Hummus!


When I am in Boston before Passover, as I was this week, I love to go to the Butcherie on Harvard Street.  They have the best knishes and a great variety of baked goods and appetizers.  But I was not prepared for the extent of the offerings with Kitniyot (legumes), something that you see everywhere in Israel, but I really haven’t seen so much here in the States.
Let me cut to the chase, they had hummus.  Honest to goodness K for P hummus.  If I’m willing to go Sephardic, the Hummus is mine! 
With Pesach approaching, Jews of Sephardic extraction, particularly in Israel, will be able to get away with things that would make most American Jews turn karpas-green with envy. They get to eat the rice and legumes (“kitniyot”) that Sephardic Jews have always eaten, foods that their more stringent Ashkenazi cousins have avoided.  Cleanup is also not as difficult as in an Ashkenazi kitchen.  All of this, and the only drawback is having to do “hagba” (lifting the Torah) with those heavy, encased Torah scrolls.
So where do I sign up to become Sephardi? A few years ago, the Masorti  movement in Israel came out with a rabbinic ruling indicating that it’s OK for Ashkenazi Israelis to adapt a Sephardi posture with regard to kitniyot on Pesach (see the ruling here). The feeling was it would make sense to relax the practice in order to allow all Jews in Israel to “break bread” together on the holiday, so to speak.
But Israel is Israel, with a majority Sephardi population, and America is America, where the European legacy prevails. So when I offered the Masorti ruling to my congregants as a valid Passover option, and when I told them that, as a vegetarian, I would be adopting it myself,  people went ballistic. It was as if I had just sanctioned the eating of pork, except that a number of certified pepperoni pizza eaters were among those who scoffed at the impudence of my OK to eat kitniyot.
Despite the resistance of these inveterate Ashkenazim, it’s clear the distinctions are dissolving. For the pattern of the past several centuries of Jewish life has been to create acute cultural divisions, pump lots of anger into these feuds, and then to see them run out of gas within a few generations.
We Jews divide like amoebas, but our internal conflicts tend to dissipate quickly. The Litvaks and the Galicianers, bitter enemies in the Old Country, now lie down like the lion and the lamb; the Zionist Revisionists and Laborites have shared unity governments, and today’s Hasidim act more like their former arch enemies, the Mitnagdim, than did the original Mitnagdim two centuries ago, who defined themselves by the fact that they hated Hasidim. As for the religious denominations, growing numbers of Jews shun the old labels, choosing to identify themselves as “post-denominational,” “Reformstrucative” or “Renewal-Orthoprax.” Rarely do the labels matter anymore because the sands of Jewish identity are shifting too quickly.
So call me Sephardi this year when Pesach rolls around. Call me Sephardi when I say the Kaddish (“YIT-gadal”) but Ashkenazi when I say “Good Shabbos.” I like to combine a Sephardi diet with an Ashkenazi soul; my blood churns Ladino hot and my humor spouts Yiddish irony. I daven Orthodox hum Hasidic, philosophize Conservative, innovate Reconstructionist, meditate Kabbalist and do social action Reform. I’m Likudon terrorism and Yesh Atid on pluralism. I’m Meretz meets haBayit haYehudi; and they do meet — in me. I’d have been a Zealot on Masada yet a Pharisee in Yavneh a Saul supporter on Gilboa and a Davidite in Jerusalem. I’ve got the Gaon of Vilna in my mind and the Baal Shem Tov in my heart. Dig deep enough and you may even find that I’ve got a little Karaite in me, too.
In short, I’m a Jewish mutt. All of Jewish history culminates in each of us. We all are the synthesis of Torah and time. Seemingly irreconcilable opposites are reconciled in the intractable, complex matrix of the individual Jewish soul.
So good Shabbos to you, a zisen Pesach … and please pass the hummus.

Thursday, March 7, 2013

DAYLIGHT SAVINGS AS A AN OPPORTUNITY…


DAYLIGHT SAVINGS AS A AN OPPORTUNITY…

Here's a "timely" blog entry by TBE's Early Childhood Director Ronnie Brockman - head of our Shorashim Nursery School

Remembering daylight savings time has always been easy if I think of it as “spring ahead.”  And, I will admit to having a hard time with this whole spring thing as I watch the snow falling and feel the temps dropping.  But, it’s a great time to use that extra hour of daylight for a winter nature walk.

Taking a walk after dinner is one of the easiest ways for families to get in some play outdoors time every day. Not only that, it helps us slow down, reconnect with each other and run off any last bits of energy before getting ready for bed.

Always remember to:

Dress for the weather. Your kids will stay happy if they’re warm.

Keep it short. Most kids are usually pretty tired by the time dinner is over and you make it outside for your nighttime walks. Which is why we it’s best to keep them pretty short – usually about 15 minutes. 

And if you’re feeling especially ambitious, make it a Winter (it still is) Nature 
Scavenger Hunt.

This is just a few things you can hunt for before spring starts sprouting:

*A tree that has lost all its leaves
*A tree with only a few leaves on it.
*An evergreen tree.
*Buds on trees. (FYI…Deciduous trees form a winter bud to protect the developing leaf.)
*Animal tracks in the mud or snow.
*A bird.
*A  feather
*A pinecone.
*Fungi or moss on a tree.
*A plant with berries.
*Something with thorns.
*An insect.
Things to hear:
*The wind. (Can you tell which direction the wind is blowing?)
*A bird chirping.
Things to feel:
*A smooth rock.
*A tree with smooth bark

The best winter nature walks allow you to get a sense of what the season looks and feels like in your neighborhood. Pay attention to the details and use your five senses in searching for nature’s treasures. 

Instead of using a pre-made winter scavenger hunt list, you can also make up your own in just a few minutes. Keep it simple with things like “something red,” “something round,” “something old,” “something wet” and so on.
Enjoy Daylight Savings Time!
Ronnie

Materials for Class on Joshua

for Tanakh b'Shanah class on Joshua, some background materials:
Maps and study material

2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide and Other Resources

Find the complete 2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide at this link.
For Sale of Hametz: fill out this form and submit to me by the morning before Passover.
Find a Search for Hametz guide with study materials here.
Read about the laws and customs of hametz here.


Tuesday, March 5, 2013

TBE Bar Bat Mitzvah Commentary: Edward Weinstein on Ki Tissa


Shabbat Shalom!

Now that my childhood is over, I can look back at all the good times and bad.J Some of the best times have occurred out on the field, for baseball and soccer, and on the court for basketball.  If I’m not in the classroom or asleep, you’ll probably find me on one of those.

In some cases, the most challenging times became the best times, all in the same game.  I can remember one baseball game when my team came back from nine runs down in the late innings.  It was amazing

In my mind there were four keys to the comeback.

1)      We were patient.  We came back a little at a time, not just by swinging for the fences but by getting on base and starting a rally.

2)      We never lost hope.  Once the rally started, we could imagine what it would be like to win the game.

3)      We stayed together.  No one blamed a teammate or picked a fight.  And

4)      We didn’t give in to fear but turned the negative feelings into positive action.
In my Torah portion, the Israelites faced a similar situation.  Moses had gone up to the mountain to get the Torah, but he never came back.  For days and weeks the people waited.  Many feared that he was dead.  Finally, they gave in to the fear and built a golden calf and started to worship it.
     
           The central figure in this story is Aharon.  The Torah text sort of paints him as the one responsible for building the calf.  But the midrash tries to explain his actions in a way that makes him appear less guilty.  It states that Aharon was a great peacemaker and, really, he had no power to stop the people – but he did have the power to slow things down.  So he asked for their jewelry, thinking that they wouldn’t give it up.  But when they did, he melted it down, thinking that it would take a long time to build the idol – but the midrash says that some Egyptian magicians who left Egypt with them made the calf appear.  Then Aharon stalled some more by building an altar for the calf to be placed on.  But even then, Moses still didn’t return.

                I think Aharon did the right thing in trying to stall – it’s a lot like the patience we had to show when coming from behind in baseball.  He bought some time and hoped for Moses to return.  It’s also important that he never lost hope, much like my team.  Also, he never got into a fight with anyone – he tried to keep the peace so that things would not get out of control.

                But in the end, I still think he should have prevented b’nai Yisrael from actually worshipping the calf. 

                Even though things didn’t work out as well for Aharon as they did for my team, there are some important lessons here that have helped the Jewish people through many tough times.  And because of that, we’ve always been able to overcome our challenges. 

                After the Holocaust, miraculously the Jewish people lived on and three years later, we created the state of Israel.  Our own history teaches us, time and time again, that we should be patient and never lose hope. 

                As all of you know, our Portuguese Water dog Jeter is a very important member of our family who also has taught us the meaning of patience. J Here in Stamford, there are many dogs and cats that do not have owners who can care for them. As a result, they are found at the Stamford Animal Shelter, hopefully waiting to be adopted. An organization called OPIN (Outreach for Pets in Need) was founded by shelter volunteers to promote adoption of homeless animals and support the shelter. As you can see on the Bimah, in response to their “wish list” we will be giving these baskets filled with dog and cat food, toys and supplies to the Stamford Animal Shelter to help them care for the cats and dogs.