Thursday, March 9, 2023

In This Moment: How the Bible is Everything, Everywhere and All At Once - What if Fox News covered the Golden Calf?

In This Moment

16th century map by Heinrich Bunting depicting Jerusalem and the Land of Israel as the center of the world. This map is featured in this (Thursday) evening's "Introduction to Judaism" class on the Bible and Ancient Israel. Click to watch the video of the introductory session, or to see any of the source materials.

God's Signature:

How the Bible is Everything, Everywhere and All At Once

What if Fox News Covered the Golden Calf?


This week's portion of Ki Tisa contains the climactic Golden Calf incident, or, as Tucker Carlson might describe it, "an afternoon tea party. No Big Deal. No debauchery. No idolatry. Just a sweet pastoral scene. A few baby cows, a few baby sheep. A few tourists in a lovely Yorkshire setting looking for landmarks from All Creatures, Great and Small. No fire and brimstone. No quaking mountain. No smashed tablets or windows. Nothing to see here."

 

Aaron?


"Totally innocent! He didn't make the calf. Antifa did."

 

And where was Moses this whole time?


"That's the crux of the problem. Mo is AWOL, nowhere to be found! That's what happens when you pick a leader who's 80 years old! And who chose him, anyway? The process was rigged!"

 

I could go on, but mercifully, I won't. However, this little parody raises a crucial question about the nature of transmitted truth. There is really only one documented way to understand what happened on January 6, 2021, and it's supported by a mountain of evidence and a cattle call of convictions. Yet some still choose to deliberately lie to further their own political and - in Fox's case, more to the point, commercial - agendas. How Fox

News could still be doing this at the very time they're being exposed by the Dominion

lawsuit revelations is the height of chutzpah. Fortunately, the attempt to whitewash what happened on the 6th will likely fail, especially in light of the growing desire of Republican leaders to finally let the lie go - to their credit.

 

But, if we turn our attention back to the Golden Calf, how can we be sure that the Torah's account of this sinful debauchery, and particularly Aaron's role in it, are to be accepted as the only possible version of events? The text and commentaries jostle over the relative guilt of Aaron in collecting the jewelry and constructing the idol. Some say was simply trying to stall for time. And the entire group present, all the people, are the true guilty party. After all, the punishment did not go to Aaron alone. Each individual Israelite was held responsible by God for this idolatry. Their donations of jewelry and participation in the idol worship rendered them all complicit.

 

Maybe not ALL.

 

On this day after International Women's Day, this juicy bit of Midrash is just perfect.

While the Hebrew verb for “they took off (their jewelry),” is masculine plural, it is typically seen as applying to a mixed-gender group of Israelites. But Bamidbar Rabbah 21:10 chooses to read the phrase literally: “They (the men) took” asserts that it was only the Israelite men who opted to participate and give over their gold. The Israelite women, says the midrash, refused to donate their valuables or to participate in idolatry.

 

And because of that, the women were granted a special gift, their own holiday, Rosh Hodesh (the New Month).

 

Is all of this "true," in the historical sense? If you look at the chart below (click on it to enlarge), you'll see that Conservative and Reform Judaism don't necessarily take the Torah literally. That should come as no surprise to those who know me. I've been shouting that message from the rooftops for the past four decades. To quote the Broadway version of Book of Mormon, "It's a metaphor."

But there is a difference between literal fact and a broader truth.


Joseph Campbell, the great chronicler of myth, delineated that distinction:


"...half the people in the world think that the metaphors of their religious traditions… are facts. And the other half contends that they are not facts at all. As a result we have people who consider themselves believers because they accept metaphors as facts, and we have others who classify themselves as atheists because they think religious metaphors are lies."


It is clear that Jewish sources stand on the side of deeper truth, rather than historical literalism, or as some call it, fundamentalismThe Talmud states that God's very signature is truth. We can debate precisely what truth is, but we know clearly what it isn't - you need look no further than the Dominion case depositions to find that.


So while the concept of "truth" is somewhat fluid, a lie is as plain as the Pinocchio nose on their face; and our sources detest liarsThe Talmud states:


"The Holy One, blessed be God, hates a person which says one thing with his mouth and another in his heart."


That's how you define a liar. Clean and simple.


The sages understood the fragility of the trust that people place in those who recount the stories, and who make the laws based on those stories.


As we read and retell our sacred stories again and again, year after year, there is a certain trust that accompanies that reading, a faith that these events were initially communicated, and later interpreted, in good faith, however subjectively, Not by an agenda-driven cynical egomaniac out to hold onto power and make a few billion bucks for his media empire. We've got to believe that the editors and story tellers who passed the Torah stories down to us believed, on some level, that what they were telling was "true."


The same is true for all faith traditions. I may have serious questions as to the historicity of the Red Sea parting, just as a Christian might question the events on Golgotha. But with these stories, like the Golden Calf, there is an internal integrity that makes them timeless and able to yield priceless truths. The Golden Calf midrash about the courageous women lays bare so many lies and stereotypes. There are myths to explode and moral lessons to explore, so many in just one brief story.

 

But it all depends on the integrity of the teller. For me to accept the Bible as "true" and divine, I need to place my faith in the authors, scribes, bards and redactors who developed and transmitted the stories for all these centuries. Because these stories passed through so many hands - and mouths - they have survived a vetting process unlike any other in history. The Hebrew Bible was possibly the world's first - and still best - crowdsourced document, written in the original Multiverse, a mishmash of "everything, everywhere and all at once." John Riches wrote in The Bible: A Very Short Introduction (Oxford University Press):


"The biblical texts were produced over a period in which the living conditions of the writers – political, cultural, economic, and ecological – varied enormously. There are texts which reflect a nomadic existence, texts from people with an established monarchy and Temple cult, texts from exile, texts born out of fierce oppression by foreign rulers, courtly texts, texts from wandering charismatic preachers, texts from those who give themselves the airs of sophisticated Hellenistic writers."

Over those centuries, the process of editing, re-editing, translating, and interpreting, left us with a document richly layered in the (often contradictory) truths of the human experience.


If any of it was written with Tucker Carlsonesque malevolence, millions of proofreaders could question, cajole and tug at the text and bring forth new fruit. But they can tug and comment and remaster all they want; still, the Golden Calf will never become a jolly holiday in the Yorkshire countryside. You can put lipstick on this golden calf and it will still be an idol. You can put lipstick on January 6, 2021 and the purveyor of falsehood will still be a liar. And now, a deposed one, sworn to tell the truth, whatever that means to an entrenched liar.


In this week of great parody, from Purim masks to Fox News unmasked to Mel Brooks' long awaited sequel to his "History of the World, Part One," we need to believe that our sacred stories come to us relatively untarnished - but rather, varnished to a deep shine by the eyes of a billion readers spanning hundreds of generations. There can be truth in numbers.

 

What Fox News continues to do in spreading such devastating lies about the 2020 Election is a sin that is downright biblical in nature, with consequences bordering on apocalyptic. We've only seen a glimpse of what the world can be like when it is run by power hungry manipulators who have no respect for the people they supposedly serve. At some point, the greatest casualty will become truth itself. But before that happens, Dominion will go to trial, more truths will emerge - and the verdict will await God's signature.

This Week's Hebrew Headlines


...see today's Israeli front pages on the bottom of this email

The front page headline from Yediot says"Protest Spreading Among Reserves." That is below the smaller headline that states that a quarter of a million hit the streets in protest last Saturday night. The Purim photo on the bottom right, captioned "A grand holiday for children, echoing the lyrics of the song "Hag Purim," is strangely comforting.


When an Israeli reserve fighter announced why he is not reporting for training, that was greeted by accusations by the Information Minister Galit Distel that he and his comrades are "pathetic deserters." He responded with this unbelievable letter.



Ms. Distel,


You, who were appointed as a minister thanks to your proclivity for lying and gossip, ought to read the following carefully:


“A pathetic bunch of deserters,” you called them. They are the people thanks to whom you can get into bed at night. While you continue to search for more sick ways of spreading your lies, “they” fly at night on stealth missions around the Middle East.


You don’t have the tools, intelligence, or ability to understand what it’s like to climb into the cockpit in the dead of night, take off with a plane loaded with fuel and bombs and fly to an enemy country.


Try to get this into your head—one engine, hundreds of kilometers of flight in enemy territory to reach the target, missiles are fired at you, and you can find yourself, in seconds, dangling from your parachute on your way to captivity.


You, Distel, will never understand what it is to love the country for which you are willing to sacrifice your life, and you do not have the tools to understand the devoted friendship on the part of that helicopter pilot who is willing to risk his life at an absurd altitude, in order to rescue a group from Sayeret Matkal [an elite commando unit], wounded Golani soldiers or a fallen pilot.


Those very same “treasonous leftists” and the “pathetic group of deserters” are the ones who destroyed the air forces of Egypt, Syria and Jordan in 1967, saved (yes, saved) the State of Israel from destruction, defended its borders in 1973, brought the troops to Entebbe, brought Ethiopian Jews to Israel, destroyed the nuclear reactors in Baghdad in 1981 and in Syria in 2007, and continue steadily and unceasingly in their secret work every day.


Thirteen young men from my [pilots’] course have fallen in their roles as pilot—


and you will not tarnish their memory.


Go, Distel, speak with the sickening government of which you are a part, a government that relies on draft dodgers, crooks, liars and thieves, and explain to them that here in this country there will be democracy, and that we will fight for it—at any cost.

This article below from Ha'aretz (in Hebrew and then in the English edition), which seems like good news, gives us just one example of an individual freedom that will undoubtedly be ripped away if the judiciary coup succeeds and the radical right wing government is allowed to run roughshod over human rights. It is easy to imagine Conservative and Reform synagogues being forced to close. Pluralism at the Kotel will become a pipe dream and LGBTQ persecution will go far beyond being denied wedding cakes. With nothing to restrain them, they've already telegraphed what they will do. As Thomas Friedman wrote this week in the NYT, now is the time for American Jews to choose sides. Who's side are you on? The government's? Or the "pathetic deserters?"


See also: A New Prayer for Israel (Washington Jewish Week)

Passover is Coming!

Click here to read more of the R.A Pesach Guide.....


...and here to see the R.A's Exploring Judaism info on Pesach.

Parsha Packs for Ki Tisa and Shabbat Parah

Take Two Tablets:

Why the Second Set?


The two sets of commandments correspond to two different ways to serve God. According to Rav Huna, the broken and the new sets lay side by side in the ark.

The Jewish Gender Gap


The Israelite women refused to surrender their earrings for the Golden Calf. A tribute to International Women's Day.


Who is the Ideal Jewish Leader?

Mr Cool vs Mr. Hot-Under-the-Collar? Mr. Patience or Mr. Action? Moses v. Aaron in a leadership contest.

The Other Ten Commandments


Compare the "ritual" Ten Commandments, found in this portion, with the "ethical" sets found elsewhere in the Torah, How do they complement one another?

Judaism and Cannibis


The biblical roots of Marijuana are found in this portion. Were Europe's great rabbis a bunch of stoners? Read about the Baal Shem Tov's pipe.

Monster Snowstorms? Golden Calves?

Where is God???


Is God in the storm? In the sin? In the tragedy? In the Death Camp? Also, a comparison of the Red Cow anf the Golden Calf (for Shabbat Parah - the Shabbat of the Cow)

Recommended Reading



  • 'A History of the World, Part II’ Is a Triumph of Jewish Comedy (Kveller) - What does it mean to have something so laugh-out-loud funny, and so comfortably Jewish, in a year like this?...If we had only gotten a sketch about a character from the Torah? Dayenu! If we had only gotten that and a funny “Fiddler” parody that extends over several episodes? Dayenu! If we had only had those and the much-anticipated “Hitler on Ice” that was promised in the ending credits of Part I? Dayenu! But we have so, so much more. There are jokes about kashrut, antisemitism, an onslaught of Yiddishisms, and mentions of every Jewish food staple from lox to celery soda.





  • ‘Purimfest 1946!’ (Jeff Jacoby) Streicher imagined that Hitler and Germany would succeed where Haman had failed; in the end, approaching the gallows, he knew it was a “Purimfest” all over again. But the defeat of anti-Semitism is never permanent. The hatred of Jews is again on the march, even in America, where for so long it was banished from respectable society. Purim is a joyous holiday, but more and more Jews are watching their backs.





Today's (Thursday's) Israeli headlines

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Wednesday, March 1, 2023

In This Moment: Israel at the Precipice; The Mitzvah of Memory; Purim Jokes from the John

In This Moment



Cantor Kaplan leading last weekend's lovely post-Shabbat music & Havdalah

Shabbat Shalom


This weekend brings us to March, which apparently now is the onset of winter. Yes, the first snow was somewhat delayed for us this year, but they just got plenty in, of all places, L.A. No big deal - upending norms is what Purim is all about, and what Purim prepares us for, Jews have come to expect the unexpected in our long and topsy-turvy history.


On Friday night we once again join with hundreds of synagogues in the annual celebration of Shabbat Across America. We'll be joined by TBE congregant and CT State Representative Matt Blumenthal, who will speak during the service.


This is also Shabbat Zachor, the Sabbath of Remembrance, which always occurs on the Shabbat before Purim. Here's some more background....


Zachor: The Mitzvah of Memory


In Maimonides’ register of the 613 mitzvot, Zachor, the commandment to remember the evil of Amalek, takes up three spots at the tail end of his mitzvah list.


598: Wipe out the descendants of Amalek (Deuteronomy 25:19) 

599: Remember what Amalek did to the Jewish people (Deuteronomy 25:17); 

and 600: Not to forget Amalek’s atrocities and ambush on our journey from Egypt in the desert (Deuteronomy 25:19)


Now, after Auschwitz, Zachor has gained many new shadings of meaning.


For one thing, it is a call for vigilance in the face of evil. “Never Forget” and “Never Again” have become our prime rallying cries, much closer in significance to Commandment #1 than 600. But even though the commandment speaks of wiping out the memory of an enemy, Zachor has never really been about bloodthirsty revenge. Through the centuries, commentators like Maimonides looked for ways to reinterpret this call so that it would not appear so genocidal, by asserting that since Amalek no longer exists as a nation, the command to entirely wipe out a national population no longer applies.


Early Hasidic commentators tried to internalize Amalek. They met the enemy, and Amalek is us. Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berdichev wrote:


Not only are Jews commanded to wipe out Amalek, who is the descendant of Esau, but each Jew has to wipe out that negative part that is called Amalek hidden in his or her heart. When the power of evil in each of us arises, Amalek is present in the world. 


After the Holocaust, that call to wipe out our inner Amalek resonates at a time when so many have sought vengeance in the name of Jewish victims. Zachor was the inspiration for Baruch Goldstein’s murderous spree in Hebron on Purim of 1994, when he took the commandment, which is inextricably connected to that holiday, and played it out in grotesque fashion by murdering 29 Muslims at prayer. After that horrific distortion of even the most extreme interpretation of Zachor, Jonathan Sacks, Chief Rabbi of Great Britain, added:


Such an act is an obscenity and a travesty of Jewish values. That it should have been perpetrated against worshippers in a house of prayer at a holy time makes it a blasphemy as well . . .Violence is evil. Violence committed in the name of God is doubly evil. Violence against those engaged in worshipping God is unspeakably evil.


Given the rampage (some call it a pogrom) perpetrated on the Arab village of Hawara last weekend following the reprehensible killing of two Jews, and the support the rampagers received from government officials, this Purim could well see more Baruch Goldsteins emerge.


Here are some more new shadings of this commandment of Zachor for our time:


When we remember the evil of Amalek, that commandment specifically about keeping alive the memory of the Holocaust itself.


Zachor is not a call to punish the villains or simply to remember the Holocaust as a singular event. Rather it is a call to remember the victims—each individual, those who were killed and those who have clung to life. Our task is to ensure that never again should a cry from the depths of despair, danger and loneliness go unheeded— from anywhere and anyone, not just victims of the Holocaust itself.


The commandment is not simply to remember the victims but to remember their stories, their legacies and most of all, their names. Names are the currency of memory. In the Holocaust, Jews and other victims were denied their names, and therefore their humanity, their individuality and their uniqueness. Victims were stripped of their human dignity. Their names were replaced by numbers. Their shoes, jewelry and clothing were ripped from them. Even their hair, perhaps a human’s most distinct, individuating feature, was shorn. To have a name is to be unique, loved and connected. The book of Proverbs states that while most things in life are transitory, a good name lasts forever.


And Zachor is not simply a call to preserve the memory of one dark chapter in history, but to preserve all historical memory, “Never forget” means to remember that there is an authentic basis for experienced truth, that facts matter and we should be accountable to them. The sin of Holocaust denial murders each victim yet again, by murdering their memory.


So the commandment Zachor, as filtered through the Holocaust, has come to mean that we’ve got to remember and to cherish the uniqueness and sanctity of every human being, down to even the smallest shreds of their existence—every strand of hair, every single letter of every name.


Which, incidentally, is why Nazis hate Jews—then and now. Nazis have always been about numbers, while Jews have always been more about names. The second book of the Torah is called “Shmot,” “names.” Jews refuse to forfeit the distinctiveness of each human being. Jews refuse to degrade anyone’s sanctity and dignity, body and soul. In fact, the Hebrew word for soul, neshama, has the word shem—name—right at its heart. Jews are, after all, Semites—descendants of Noah’s son Shem—so Jews are literally “Name-ists.”


And the hater of Jews is, by definition, an anti-Shemite—the “Denier of names.” One who defiles God is one who perpetrates what is called a “Hillul ha-shem,” a desecration of the Name; and one who dies the holiest of deaths, as a martyr, dies, “Al Kiddush hashem,” in an act of ultimate sanctification of the Name.


When Jews say the Mourner’s Kaddish, after Auschwitz there is an added purpose. We are praying not only to restore the sanctity of God’s name in the traditional sense, but also to affirm the infinite value of each human life. The words of this ancient prayer call for the restoration of cosmic wholeness in the face of a shattered present, and that wholeness can only be achieved through the renewal and re-sanctification of the “Great Name.”


Ultimately, Zachor is not a commandment at all, but a destiny. For we know that no matter what we do, Amalek won’t let us forget Amalek. Amalek has a way of popping up every so often to remind us never to forget. These days it seems to be popping up quite a bit. As King Saul discovered in his day and Mordechai in his, there is something in the very nature of the universe that won’t allow us to destroy Amalek completely. And yet we must never stop trying.



We must never forget to blot out the memory of genocidal evil. 


Since Auschwitz, Zachor has become the most important commandment.


Portions of this essay adapted from my book, Embracing Auschwitz: Forging a Vibrant, Life Affirming Judaism that Takes the Holocaust Seriously (Ben Yehuda Press) 

Purim

  • Recovering the Lost Sisterhood of Vashti & Esther (Moving Traditions) Often we talk about who the better queen or the better feminist was. But today let’s explore something else: what if Esther and Vashti had a chance to be in a community together? Vashti, the leader who says no, I’m leaving, I’m in charge of my own body. I’m willing to risk everything for what I know to be right. And Esther the leader who takes her time, considers her choices and how to stay safe, calls upon her community for support, and leads her people to safety. What could they have learned from each other?






Jokes from the John...


John Graubard, that is. Our resident source for Purim jokes. Here's what he shares with us for this year...


A Buddhist monk goes to a (kosher) hot dog vendor and says, “Make me one with everything.” 


The vendor hands him a Hebrew National hot dog on a bun with mustard, ketchup, relish, onions, and kraut. He then says, “That will be four dollars.”


The monk hands the vendor a $20 bill. The vendor puts it in the cash box but doesn’t give anything back to the monk.


The monk says, “Don’t you owe me something?” The vendor relies, “Change must come from within.”

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A customer at a Jewish deli orders chicken soup. A few minutes later the waiter returns with a bowl of soup. The customer tells the waiter, “It’s not hot enough; take it back.”

“But you haven’t tasted it,” says the waiter. “How do you know it’s not hot enough?”

“Because your thumb is in it.”


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I didn’t think I needed orthopedic shoes, but now I stand corrected. (Source – Alan Jaffe)


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A priest, a minister, and a rabbit all walk into a bar. The bartender says to the rabbit, “What will you have?” The rabbit replies, “I don't know. I’m only here because of autofill.”

 

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An older man in San Diego is parking his car when he slightly touches the new Ferrari in the next space. The 20-something owner of the Ferrari sees this and is furious, demanding that the older man pay him $10,000 or he will beat the man up.

“I don’t have $10,000,” says the older man. “But I will call my grandson who works with dolphins, and he will help me.” So he gets on the phone and tells his grandson what happened.


About 10 minutes later a black SUV pulls up, and four large men get out. One of them walks over to the Ferrari owner and tells him to leave his grandfather alone or he will be the one on the receiving end. The Ferrari owner immediately gets in his car and drives off.

The older man says to his grandson, “I knew you would take care of it.” The grandson replied, “No problem, gramps. But please try to remember that I don’t work with dolphins. I work with Navy Seals.

We could use a little more moral ambiguity at a time when people increasingly demonize the Other, rather than humanize. So why not compare Haman to Elphaba from “Wicked?” In truth, Haman’s already taken up residence in the Emerald City. After all, in Hebrew, Hamentaschen are called, literally “Haman’s ears, or “OZ-nay Haman.” Check out this essay on my substack pageAnd while you're there, feel free to subscribe! It's free!



Some of my favorite Purim costumes...

Israel's Greatest Crisis


Things continue to go from bad to worse. The cycle of terror and reprisal has intensified, particularly on the West Bank, and the rush headlong toward absolute rule seems inexorable. But the people are fighting back. TBE's Pinchas Gross, who is in Israel this week, reports that he joined over 100,000 on the streets last Saturday night, and he sent me this video (click on photo) of the massive strikes taking place in Tel Aviv on Wednesday. The demonstrations had been primarily peaceful, but things heated up on Wednesday. See this report from Times of Israel: "As protests sweep nation, police use aggressive means to clear Tel Aviv rally."


Cops, for the first time since protests began some two months ago, deployed tear gas, stun grenades and water cannons to disperse demonstrators near the Azrieli towers. At least 11 people injured in clashes with police arrived in hospitals for treatment for various bruises, cuts and burns. One man was said to have lost an ear, apparently after being hit with a stun grenade.


It is my hope that by now, American Jews, those of us who love Israel, are beginning to understand the urgency of this moment. Israel has known many existential, life and death moments in it's brief history. This feels like it could be the greatest threat of all. This is no time to be coddling the Prime Minister (memo to Chuck Schumer and the Conference of Presidents), but for laying down strict red lines.

This Week's Hebrew Headlines

(see today's English Ha'aretz front page at bottom)

"Attack follows attack...." "Terror Wave: 14 killed in attacks within the past month." (Including West Hartford native Elan Geneles, remembered for his wit and friendship.)

"Eighth week of protests: More than 200,000 protesting all over the country." "Netanyahu to his ministers, opposing the protesters: 'I want to give you a fist to fight them with.'" And below see today's (Thursday's) front page (headline says "Day of Battle.") Click on it to see full-size pdf.

The bestselling author of "Sapiens" cries out a warning this op-ed which appeared in translation in the Washington Post. "I have never seriously considered leaving Israel. But I doubt I would stay in a place that lacks meaningful protection for minority rights and free expression." Harari writes:


Under the new legal regime, it is unclear what would prevent either the present government or a future one from passing laws that, for example, close down opposition newspapers, deny workers the right to strike, abolish academic freedom, criminalize homosexuality, outlaw Arab parties, disenfranchise Arab citizens or — perhaps most crucially — change the electoral system itself in a way that would guarantee a permanent hold on power.
When asked what would preclude such scenarios, protect minority rights and shield even the majority of citizens from governmental abuse of power, coalition members answer, in effect: “Our goodwill. Trust us.” This is a blood-curdling answer, familiar to the victims of every tyrant, mobster and abusive spouse in history. Dictators always say “trust us, we will protect you. But be careful not to lose our goodwill, yes? We don’t want anything bad to happen to you.” If you happen to meet anyone describing the antidemocratic coup in Israel as a benign democratic reform, there is one key question to ask them: “Explain to me: What mechanism would limit the power of the government under the new regime? Is there even one thing that the government will not be allowed to do?”


  • 134 Zionist historians, in Israel and the diaspora, wrote an open letter expressing similar fears. "Since its establishment, there has never been a graver political crisis in Israel that poses such an immediate danger to the very existence of the state."













Other Recommended Reading

Adar 9 (Today) is a special but virtually unknown commemoration in the Jewish calendar. The 9th of the Hebrew month of Adar marks the day that, two thousand years ago, healthy disagreements “for the sake of Heaven” between Beit Hillel and Beit Shammai turned destructive. Today it is marked in some circles by discussions of sources related to the conflict itself as well as to how the rabbis resolved so many others before they reached this point. See the packet of rabbinic sources. And see this current article on a related topic: How not to cancel each other (Salkin, RNS).









  • ‘Our state is at war with our family’: Clergy with trans kids fight back (WaPo) - “Daddy, do you think God could make me over again as a boy?”
Rabbi Daniel Bogard had just finished reading a story to his 6-year-old twin daughters one evening in 2019 when the older one by 15 seconds asked that question. Bogard wasn’t sure what to say, so he tucked them into bed, kissed them good night and left.
“It shook me,” he recalled. As the months passed, and the child began asking people to use “boy words” to refer to him, cropping his hair short and joining the boys’ soccer team, the change just seemed to make sense. Friends, family and schoolmates accepted him as a boy, and he flourished.
All of which had brought the family to this fateful moment three years later. As Bogard and his now 9-year-old son piled into the family minivan at dawn for one of their regular four-hour round trips to the Missouri Capitol in Jefferson City to share their story with lawmakers, the rabbi worried what might lie ahead. Bills “to protect children,” as some Republicans described their measures restricting gender-affirming health care and limiting how schools treat gender identity, have become this year’s rallying cry in this state and elsewhere.
“Our state is at war with our family,” Bogard said. “It’s not an exaggeration that we are up at night talking about when and how far we might have to flee.”




Clean hands and a pure heart: Parsha Packet for Tetzave. This packet came out right at the beginning of the pandemic in 2020. it might have been our last in-person service. It's a veritable time capsule of a terrifying moment.

Intro to Judaism Class

My Intro to Judaism Class begins this evening (Thursday) at 7 PM. All are welcome, We already have about 50 signed up. Please register in advance if you can. Here's a sneak preview - our study packet on Jewish ethics Also see this list of Jewish Values (Middot) based on Tractate PIrke Avot 6:6. Click below for the full packet.

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