Monday, March 18, 2013

Minyan Matters

This coming week we mark the yahrzeit of Frank Rosner, Mr. Beth El, who was loved by all and who championed the morning minyan.  With that in mind, and with the ongoing challenges that have faced our morning minyan, our ritual committee asks all congregants to rededicate themselves to this important mitzvah.  We've even put up a sign at our Roxbury Rd. entrance to act as a constant reminder.  And if you happen to be driving by at 7:30 on a weekday morning (to or from Westhill drop off, perhaps), by all means, stop on by.  

See a complete guide to the morning minyan here, including explanations of all the prayers and explorations of the terms "minyan" and "daven."


Here is a personal note from Eileen Rosner.


Dear Congregant,

I am writing to ask you to consider attending our morning minyan.  As many of you know, Minyan was very important to my father and remains so for me.  Kaddish cannot be recited without ten people and this winter it has been a very challenging number to meet.  Normally we get there, but on some days, particularly Monday and Thursday (Torah reading days), it's been hard.   When people ask for a guaranteed minyan that typically helps, but some are uncomfortable asking for that, so many come without reciting their personal prayer.  If you have ever said Kaddish at our minyan, you know how powerful that experience can be, and how wonderful it is to have a supportive community around you.  Please know that your presence can be just as powerful for someone else with the similar needs.  If you've never been here on a weekday or Sunday morning, know that it can feel so good to help another person, and that performing that mitzvah can really lift your own spirits as you start your day.   Please consider doing this mitzvah just a little more frequently so that everyone has a chance to say Kaddish.  If every congregant pledged to come here just a couple of times each year (though monthly or weekly would be even better), we would never have to worry!

I thank you for your consideration.  With warm wishes for a Sweet Passover, 

Eileen Rosner

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Coming to a Shul Gift Shop Near You: Bullet Proof Vests for Kids



I get emails from this Israel-Catalog for Judaica, DVDs etc.  Last week this came in. The latest cool fashions, soon to be sold at a synagogue gift shop near you. Ironically, gun violence is much less prevalent in Israel than here (and many fewer civilians possess them).

This weekend is Gun Violence Prevention Sabbath and we had a long discussion about the topic yesterday at services. Click here for the discussion packet distributed at services on Shabbat. And here to see more bullet proof attire for kids from Israel-Catalog.com.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Shabbat O' Gram for March 16

 

Shabbat Shalom 
  

This week’s Shabbat-O-Gram is  sponsored by Nicole and Ron Zussman
in honor of their son, Max, becoming a Bar Mitzvah.


Top O’ the Shabbat To You!

That’s the best I can do on the weekend of St. Patrick’s Day.  Lots of mazal tovs to go around this week:  Mazal tov to Max Zussman and family, as he becomes bar mitzvah this Shabbat.   Mazal tov and best wishes to our Catholic neighbors on the ascension of Pope Francis to his new role.  Among his many credentials cited over the past couple of days are the new pope’s close relations with the Jewish community of Argentina. Mazal tov also to Prime Minister Netanyahu (or “Bibi,” as president Obama has now taken to calling his good buddy) and his soon-to-be sworn in government.  The President’s trip to Israel next week (see the schedule here) promises to be filled with symbolism, if short on substance.  His highly touted interview on Israeli TV was aired last night and it is clear that direct outreach to the Israeli people will be a major theme next week.  Israelis are a cynical bunch, especially when it comes to Obama, but when someone comes to visit them, it can transform the relationship completely.  Anwar Sadat and Bill Clinton are the most compelling examples, but there have been others. 

This is National Gun Violence Prevention Sabbath, and with legislation pending both in Washtington and Hartford, this is most definitely a time to heed Hillel’s oft quoted maxim,  “If Not Now, When?” This is a time for all faiths to reflect on the plague of gun violence in our society.  And this Shabbat morning, we'll be doing just that.


Minyan Matters

This coming week we mark the yahrzeit of Frank Rosner, Mr. Beth El, who was loved by all and who championed the morning minyan.  With that in mind, and with the ongoing challenges that have faced our morning minyan, our ritual committee asks all congregants to rededicate themselves to this important mitzvah.  We’ve even put up a sign at our Roxbury Rd. entrance to act as a constant reminder.  And if you happen to be driving by at 7:30 on a weekday (to or from Westhill drop off, perhaps), by all means, stop on by.  Here is a personal note from Eileen Rosner.


Dear Congregant,

I am writing to ask you to consider attending our morning minyan.  As many of you know, Minyan was very important to my father and remains so for me.  Kaddish cannot be recited without ten people, as you know, and this winter it has been a very challenging number to meet.  Normally we get there, but on some days, particularly Monday and Thursday (Torah reading days), it's been hard.   When people ask for a guaranteed minyan that typically helps, but some are uncomfortable asking for that, so many come without reciting their personal prayer.  If you have ever said Kaddish at our minyan, you know how powerful that experience can be, and how wonderful it is to have a supportive community around you.  Please know that your presence can be just as powerful for someone else with the similar needs.  If you've never been here on a weekday or Sunday morning, know that it can feel so good to help another person, and that performing that mitzvah can really lift your own spirits as you start your day.   Please consider doing this mitzvah just a little more frequently so that everyone has a chance to say Kaddish.  If every congregant pledged to come here just a couple of times each year (though monthly or weekly would be even better), we would never have to worry!

I thank you for your consideration.  With warm wishes for a Sweet Passover, 

Eileen Rosner

Yes, you can get haroset flavored ice cream in Israel this year. As someone commented on my Facebook page, either this is going to be delicious... or disgusting!

Pesach is Coming

Plan to join Cantor Mordecai, Rev Kate Heichler, the New World Chorus and myself, along with a host of others from many faiths, at our second annual Interfaith Seder, here next Thursday, March 21.  See the flyer here. Last year's Seder attracted well over a hundred people, and the theme for this year is compelling: "From Egypt to Sinai, Selma to Sandy Hook: Liberation from a Culture of Violence."  

SEDER MATCH-UP

With an "early" Passover sneaking up on us quickly, it's easy to be caught off guard regarding Seder preparations.  As in years past, I'd like to compile a list of households with space at the table for guests who might be looking.  If you have room at your table, please indicate how many spaces and for which night(s), whether you can accommodate children and any other information that would be helpful to know.  I would get back to you with names of prospective guests to invite, as the need arises.

PESACH GUIDES AND HAMETZ

Find the complete 2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide at this link.
Find a Search for Hametz guide with study materials here.
Read about the laws and customs of hametz here.
  

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Friday, March 8, 2013

Shabbat-O-Gram for March 8


Israeli Political Watershed, thoughts on "The Gatekeepers," Hummus on Passover? Being a Jewish Mutt, Spring Ahead: Setting our Jewish Clocks

Shabbat Shalom 
   
Yes it is snowing today, but tonight will be nice, so join us for our Kabbalat Shabbat service at 7:30 (as 200 did last week) and tomorrow morning too, when we'll hear about 300 Ways to Enhance our Seders.  If you are looking for a snowy day thing to do, see Eddie Weinstein's excellent d'var Torah from last Shabbat; and while you are at it, see last week's discussion packet: Aaron vs. Moses:  Who is the Ideal Jewish Leader? So who would YOU pick?  The guy who threw down the tablets or the guy who built the Golden Calf?  And while you are moving the clocks forward,  take a look back at our great winter (despite the weather) ...see our Purim photo albumour Temple Rock  album and our fall-winter album too!


Spring Ahead: Setting our (Jewish) Clocks
  
As we prepare to leave this snow behind us and move the clocks forward, here's a "timely" blog entry by TBE's Early Childhood Director Ronnie Brockman,  "Daylight Savings as an Opportunity."  
  
In fact, we are setting our Jewish clocks this weekend too, moving them both back through history and forward toward Passover.  It's Shabbat ha-Hodesh, the "Sabbath of the Month," where we read a special Torah selection proclaiming that the month of Passover is about to begin, and our preparations start in earnest. 
  
The Torah states that the coming month of Nisan is the first month of the year. Not Tishrei, not Rosh Hashanah, but Nisan.  If the world was created in Tishrei, then why is Nisan considered the first month of the year?

Ramban understood the rationale of this law in the following way:
    "The children of Israel should mark this month as the first, and should count months in relation to this one; the second, the third, to the 12th month. This is to ensure that we remember the great miracle (of yetziat Mitzrayim - the Exodus) for whenever we mention the month, we will (effectively) be mentioning the miracle. That is why there are no names of months in the Torah, but the Torah will say (for example): "And it came to pass in the third month" (19:1) or "In the second month of the second year" (Bamidbar 10:11). This is the same notion as our counting the days of the week in relation to Shabbat. And this is why it says in the verse 'it shall be the first of the months of the year FOR YOU'. In truth it is not the first month of the year (as the world was created in Tishrei), but it is the first month for you as it is a remembrance of our redemption."

The establishment of the calendar is a vital step in pursuit of freedom - all sorts of freedoms, both collective and personal.  A slave is not a master of his or her own time. When I create my own calendar, I control my time: when I work, play, rest and celebrate. That holds true for nations and religions as well.   Just as the Jewish week always revolves around Shabbat, so do the Jewish months always point back - and forward - to redemption from Egypt, to freedom, to release.

And as Shabbat haHodesh ends, we can then set our clocks forward, a ritual that reminds us that soon we will be released, only from Egyptian slavery, but from winter's grip as well.    

A Watershed in Israeli Politics

Yes, it's true that there has been a plague of locusts in southern Israel this week, just in time for Passover.  And AIPAC had a nice, uneventful Policy Conference - uneventful is a good thing if it means that Democrats and Republicans are making nice and not turning Israel into a wedge issue, and AIPAC successfully avoids getting mixed up in ill advised confirmation disputes over cabinet members, while highlighting Israel's extraordinary achievements in technology, it's shared values and strategic military partnership with the US and the common threat posed by Iran.   But that's not the big news.

Just as we move the clocks forward here, the stars seemed aligned for what could be a major change in the relationship between religion and state in Israel.  Because of the rock-solid alliance forged by Yesh Atid (Yair Lapid's party) and Habayit haYehudi (led by Naftali Bennett), one a centrist and pluralist and the other right wing and modern Orthodox, this strange set of bedfellows has put Benjamin Netanyahu in a bind.  He must either form a government with them, and without his natural allies, the Haredim, or give up his chance to be Prime Minister.  And while at another time he might be so bold as to opt for new elections, a certain President of the United States is scheduled to be coming to town before Passover, and that trip would be cancelled if no Israeli government is formed.  So Bibi-Bennett-Lapid it will be, with Lieberman and Livni in supporting roles.  

While there is no hope of this government achieving a peace agreement, it has potential to start meaningful negotiations, and even if not, the inclusion of Lapid and Livni will help to ease Israel's diplomatic isolation.  But the changes that Lapid is demanding in the area of religion and state are nothing less than revolutionary; among them a national "sharing of the burden" (meaning army or national service for thousands of Haredim, plus fewer financial subsidies and needed educational reform in Haredi schools), civil marriage and liberalized conversion requirements and a change in the status of the chief rabbinate.  Lapid is reportedly going for legalized gay marriage as well, but Bennett is balking at that.  He's also looking to have more public bus transportation on Shabbat - and maybe he'll put an end to the scourge of gender segregated buses too.  And then there are the economic changes he is fighting for, including affordable housing for those living in Israel proper (it will be interesting to see how Lapid and Bennett divide that pie among those on either side of the Green Line).

Ladies and gentlemen, this is a Big Deal.  If Lapid could accomplish this, and then top this agenda off with some meaningful electoral reform, the messiah might not come, but he might make good on his prediction that he'll become Prime Minister in 18 months. 

There is little Israel can do to control what's going on in its turbulent neighborhood right now; but there is plenty Israel can do to change what is most problematic about Israeli society.  

All the while, they and the US will keep a mindful eye on Iran.


"The Gatekeepers"  

Last week, I noted that "The Gatekeepers," Israel's Oscar nominated documentary, was opening locally at the Avon.  I saw it and think it should be required viewing for every American Jew.  I wouldn't mind if Obama and Netanyahu watched it together (Netanyahu already said he wouldn't see it).  There is absolutely nothing anti-Israel about a film featuring "60 Minutes" style interviews with six of the past seven heads of the Shin-Bet - the seventh is dead.  These interviews are gripping, as the leaders come to grips with the past five decades of Israel's existence, the moral challenges of fighting a permanent war in unbearable conditions - of being both the occupier and the besieged. And although it's a documentary, it is also a gripping, edge-of-your-seat drama.

We see the life and death decisions they've had to make.  Do you drop a one ton bomb on an apartment building in the middle of Gaza when you know that the entire leadership of Hamas is meeting there?  Or do you compromise and drop a quarter ton bomb?  Israel chose the latter and while the second floor of the building was destroyed, the meeting was taking place on the first, and the Hamas leaders lived to fight another day. 

They say shocking, haunting things.  Avraham Shalom, the veteran of the group, compared Israeli occupiers to Germans in World War Two.  Yes, you read that correctly.  He went on to clarify that he was not comparing what Israeli soldiers do to what Nazis did to Jews, but rather what the Germans did to the Dutch or the Czechs or other peoples they occupied.  Thank you very much.  Imagine if anyone else were to say that.  But, although one might easily refute that hyperbole, the film shows how, step by step, the occupation has come eerily close to fulfilling Professor Yeshayahu Leibowitz's famous prediction back in 1968, that Israel, if it remained an occupier, would become a "Shin Bet state, with all that this implies for education, freedom of speech and thought, and democracy."

The film takes a dark turn in describing the growing phenomenon of Jewish fanaticism, leading to the plot to blow up the Dome of the Rock and later, the murder of Prime Minister Rabin.   The perpetrators of these crimes have been glorified by many in Israeli society and, when compared to non Jewish perpetrators of terrorism, they have gotten off far too easy.

There were shocking revelations about Palestinians too, like the Palestinian leader who told one of the security heads (who was flabbergasted that he was claiming victory when Israel had crushed the Intifada), "Victory for us is making you suffer."

Does anything hopeful emerge from this film?  Absolutely.  It shows that Israel's security chiefs are moral, rational people, imbued with Jewish values regarding the sanctity of life and the pursuit of peace.  Israel is not an apartheid state and most Israelis yearn for a two state solution.  But the corrosive effect of these past few decades is undeniable, and these six Shin Bet leaders, step by eye-popping step, show us how and why it happened.


Pesach is Coming

Plan to join Cantor Mordecai, Rev Kate Heichler, the New World Chorus and myself, along with a host of others from many faiths, at our second annual Interfaith Seder, here on March 21.  See the flyer here. Last year's seder attracted well over a hundred people, and the theme for this year is compelling: "From Egypt to Sinai, Selma to Sandy Hook: Liberation from a Culture of Violence."  


SEDER MATCH-UP

With an "early" Passover sneaking up on us quickly, it's easy to be caught off guard regarding Seder preparations.  As in years past, I'd like to compile a list of households with space at the table for guests who might be looking.  If you have room at your table, please indicate how many spaces and for which night(s), whether you can accommodate children and any other information that would be helpful to know.  I would get back to you with names of prospective guests to invite, as the need arises.

PESACH GUIDES AND HAMETZ

Find the complete 2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide at this link.
Find a Search for Hametz guide with study materials here.
Read about the laws and customs of hametz here.
  

Call Me Ashke-sphard, the Jewish Mutt

Everyone has their favorite Passover store.  When I am in Boston, as I was this week, I love to go to the Butcherie on Harvard Street.  For Passover, they have the best knishes and a great variety of baked goods and appetizers.  But I was not prepared for the extent of the offerings with Kitniyot (legumes), something that you see everywhere in Israel, but I really haven't seen so much here. 

Let me cut to the chase, they had hummus.  If I'm willing to go Sefardic, the hummus is mine! 

With Pesach approaching, Jews of Sephardic extraction, particularly in Israel, will be able to get away with things that would make most American Jews turn karpas-green with envy. They get to eat the rice and legumes ("kitniyot") that Sephardi Jews have always eaten, foods that their more stringent Ashkenazi cousins have avoided.  Cleanup is also not as difficult as in an Ashkenazi kitchen.  All of this, and the only drawback is having to do "hagba" (lifting the Torah) with those heavy, encased Torah scrolls. So where do I sign up to become Sephardi? A few years ago, the Masorti (Conservative) movement in Israel came out with a rabbinic ruling indicating that it was OK for Ashkenazi Israelis to adapt a Sephardi posture with regard to kitniyot on Pesach (see the ruling here). The feeling was it would make sense to relax the practice in order to allow all Jews in Israel to "break bread" together on the holiday, so to speak.

Here, is a list of those items considered "legumes" for Pesach purposes:

Anise, Ascorbic Acid (May be Chometz), Asparatame (Nutrasweet), Beans, Black Eyed Peas, Buckwheat, Calcium Ascorbate, Canola Oil, Caraway, Citric Acid (May be Chometz), Chickpeas, Confectioners' sugar with corn starch, Coriander, Corn, Corn Syrup, Cumin, Dextrose, Fennel, Fenugreek, Flax Seeds, Hemp, Hydrolyzed Vegetable Oil, Kasha, Kimmel, Lecithin, Lentils, Licorice, Lucerne, Lupine, Malto Dextrins (Chometz or Kitnios derived), Millet, MSG, Mustard, Peanuts, Polysorbates (May be Chometz), Popcorn, Poppy Seeds, Rice (Vitamins added may be Chometz), Sesame Seeds, Snow Peas, Sodium Citrate (May be Chometz), Sodium Erythorbate (May be Chometz), Sorbitol (Could be Chometz if outside the U.S.), Soy Oil, Corn Oil, Soy, String Beans, Sunflower Seeds, Tofu (from soy), Vitamin C (may be Chometz), Wild Rice, Xanthan gum (May be Chometz). NOTE: Flax seed and Hemp seed are not Kitniyot and can be used after checking for other grains. 

Imagine what you could do with sesame seeds at your Seder.  Imagine just saying "Sesame Seed Seder" five times fast. 

But Israel is Israel, with a majority Sephardi population, and America is America, where the European legacy prevails. So a few years ago, when I offered the Masorti ruling as a valid Passover option, and when I said that, as a vegetarian, I would be adopting it myself,  people went ballistic.  It was as if I had just sanctioned the eating of pork, except that a number of certified pepperoni pizza eaters were among those who scoffed at the impudence of my OK to eat kitniyot.  Despite the resistance of these inveterate Ashkenazim, it's clear the distinctions are dissolving. For the pattern of the past several centuries of Jewish life has been to create acute cultural divisions, pump lots of anger into these feuds, and then to see them run out of gas within a few generations.

We Jews divide like amoebas, but our internal conflicts tend to dissipate quickly. The Litvaks and the Galicianers, bitter enemies in the Old Country, now lie down like the lion and the lamb; the Zionist Revisionists and Laborites have shared unity governments, and today's Hasidim act more like their former arch enemies, the Mitnagdim, than did the original Mitnagdim two centuries ago, who defined themselves by the fact that they hated Hasidim. As for the religious denominations, growing numbers of Jews shun the old labels, choosing to identify themselves as "post-denominational," "Reformstrucative" or "Renewal-Orthoprax." Rarely do the labels matter anymore because the sands of Jewish identity are shifting too quickly.

So call me Sephardi this year when Pesach rolls around. Call me Sephardi when I say the Kaddish ("YIT-gadal") but Ashkenazi when I say "Good Shabbos." I like to combine a Sephardi diet with an Ashkenazi soul; my blood churns Ladino hot and my humor spouts Yiddish irony. I daven Orthodox, hum Hasidic, philosophize Conservative, innovate Reconstructionist, meditate Kabbalist and do social action Reform. I'm Likud on terrorism and Yesh Atid on pluralism. I'm Meretz meets ha Bayit haYehudi; and they do meet - in me. I'd have been a Zealot on Masada yet a Pharisee in Yavneh a Saul supporter on Gilboa and a Davidite in Jerusalem. I've got the Gaon of Vilna in my mind and the Baal Shem Tov in my heart. Dig deep enough and you may even find that I've got a little Karaite in me, too.

In short, I'm a Jewish mutt. All of Jewish history culminates in each of us. We all are the synthesis of Torah and time. Seemingly irreconcilable opposites are reconciled in the intractable, complex matrix of the individual Jewish soul. 

So good Shabbos to you, a zisen Pesach ... and please pass the hummus.

  
Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

Interfaith Seder

Call me Ashke-Sephard, Pass the Pesach Hummus!


When I am in Boston before Passover, as I was this week, I love to go to the Butcherie on Harvard Street.  They have the best knishes and a great variety of baked goods and appetizers.  But I was not prepared for the extent of the offerings with Kitniyot (legumes), something that you see everywhere in Israel, but I really haven’t seen so much here in the States.
Let me cut to the chase, they had hummus.  Honest to goodness K for P hummus.  If I’m willing to go Sephardic, the Hummus is mine! 
With Pesach approaching, Jews of Sephardic extraction, particularly in Israel, will be able to get away with things that would make most American Jews turn karpas-green with envy. They get to eat the rice and legumes (“kitniyot”) that Sephardic Jews have always eaten, foods that their more stringent Ashkenazi cousins have avoided.  Cleanup is also not as difficult as in an Ashkenazi kitchen.  All of this, and the only drawback is having to do “hagba” (lifting the Torah) with those heavy, encased Torah scrolls.
So where do I sign up to become Sephardi? A few years ago, the Masorti  movement in Israel came out with a rabbinic ruling indicating that it’s OK for Ashkenazi Israelis to adapt a Sephardi posture with regard to kitniyot on Pesach (see the ruling here). The feeling was it would make sense to relax the practice in order to allow all Jews in Israel to “break bread” together on the holiday, so to speak.
But Israel is Israel, with a majority Sephardi population, and America is America, where the European legacy prevails. So when I offered the Masorti ruling to my congregants as a valid Passover option, and when I told them that, as a vegetarian, I would be adopting it myself,  people went ballistic. It was as if I had just sanctioned the eating of pork, except that a number of certified pepperoni pizza eaters were among those who scoffed at the impudence of my OK to eat kitniyot.
Despite the resistance of these inveterate Ashkenazim, it’s clear the distinctions are dissolving. For the pattern of the past several centuries of Jewish life has been to create acute cultural divisions, pump lots of anger into these feuds, and then to see them run out of gas within a few generations.
We Jews divide like amoebas, but our internal conflicts tend to dissipate quickly. The Litvaks and the Galicianers, bitter enemies in the Old Country, now lie down like the lion and the lamb; the Zionist Revisionists and Laborites have shared unity governments, and today’s Hasidim act more like their former arch enemies, the Mitnagdim, than did the original Mitnagdim two centuries ago, who defined themselves by the fact that they hated Hasidim. As for the religious denominations, growing numbers of Jews shun the old labels, choosing to identify themselves as “post-denominational,” “Reformstrucative” or “Renewal-Orthoprax.” Rarely do the labels matter anymore because the sands of Jewish identity are shifting too quickly.
So call me Sephardi this year when Pesach rolls around. Call me Sephardi when I say the Kaddish (“YIT-gadal”) but Ashkenazi when I say “Good Shabbos.” I like to combine a Sephardi diet with an Ashkenazi soul; my blood churns Ladino hot and my humor spouts Yiddish irony. I daven Orthodox hum Hasidic, philosophize Conservative, innovate Reconstructionist, meditate Kabbalist and do social action Reform. I’m Likudon terrorism and Yesh Atid on pluralism. I’m Meretz meets haBayit haYehudi; and they do meet — in me. I’d have been a Zealot on Masada yet a Pharisee in Yavneh a Saul supporter on Gilboa and a Davidite in Jerusalem. I’ve got the Gaon of Vilna in my mind and the Baal Shem Tov in my heart. Dig deep enough and you may even find that I’ve got a little Karaite in me, too.
In short, I’m a Jewish mutt. All of Jewish history culminates in each of us. We all are the synthesis of Torah and time. Seemingly irreconcilable opposites are reconciled in the intractable, complex matrix of the individual Jewish soul.
So good Shabbos to you, a zisen Pesach … and please pass the hummus.

Thursday, March 7, 2013

DAYLIGHT SAVINGS AS A AN OPPORTUNITY…


DAYLIGHT SAVINGS AS A AN OPPORTUNITY…

Here's a "timely" blog entry by TBE's Early Childhood Director Ronnie Brockman - head of our Shorashim Nursery School

Remembering daylight savings time has always been easy if I think of it as “spring ahead.”  And, I will admit to having a hard time with this whole spring thing as I watch the snow falling and feel the temps dropping.  But, it’s a great time to use that extra hour of daylight for a winter nature walk.

Taking a walk after dinner is one of the easiest ways for families to get in some play outdoors time every day. Not only that, it helps us slow down, reconnect with each other and run off any last bits of energy before getting ready for bed.

Always remember to:

Dress for the weather. Your kids will stay happy if they’re warm.

Keep it short. Most kids are usually pretty tired by the time dinner is over and you make it outside for your nighttime walks. Which is why we it’s best to keep them pretty short – usually about 15 minutes. 

And if you’re feeling especially ambitious, make it a Winter (it still is) Nature 
Scavenger Hunt.

This is just a few things you can hunt for before spring starts sprouting:

*A tree that has lost all its leaves
*A tree with only a few leaves on it.
*An evergreen tree.
*Buds on trees. (FYI…Deciduous trees form a winter bud to protect the developing leaf.)
*Animal tracks in the mud or snow.
*A bird.
*A  feather
*A pinecone.
*Fungi or moss on a tree.
*A plant with berries.
*Something with thorns.
*An insect.
Things to hear:
*The wind. (Can you tell which direction the wind is blowing?)
*A bird chirping.
Things to feel:
*A smooth rock.
*A tree with smooth bark

The best winter nature walks allow you to get a sense of what the season looks and feels like in your neighborhood. Pay attention to the details and use your five senses in searching for nature’s treasures. 

Instead of using a pre-made winter scavenger hunt list, you can also make up your own in just a few minutes. Keep it simple with things like “something red,” “something round,” “something old,” “something wet” and so on.
Enjoy Daylight Savings Time!
Ronnie

Materials for Class on Joshua

for Tanakh b'Shanah class on Joshua, some background materials:
Maps and study material

2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide and Other Resources

Find the complete 2013 Rabbinical Assembly Passover Guide at this link.
For Sale of Hametz: fill out this form and submit to me by the morning before Passover.
Find a Search for Hametz guide with study materials here.
Read about the laws and customs of hametz here.


Tuesday, March 5, 2013

TBE Bar Bat Mitzvah Commentary: Edward Weinstein on Ki Tissa


Shabbat Shalom!

Now that my childhood is over, I can look back at all the good times and bad.J Some of the best times have occurred out on the field, for baseball and soccer, and on the court for basketball.  If I’m not in the classroom or asleep, you’ll probably find me on one of those.

In some cases, the most challenging times became the best times, all in the same game.  I can remember one baseball game when my team came back from nine runs down in the late innings.  It was amazing

In my mind there were four keys to the comeback.

1)      We were patient.  We came back a little at a time, not just by swinging for the fences but by getting on base and starting a rally.

2)      We never lost hope.  Once the rally started, we could imagine what it would be like to win the game.

3)      We stayed together.  No one blamed a teammate or picked a fight.  And

4)      We didn’t give in to fear but turned the negative feelings into positive action.
In my Torah portion, the Israelites faced a similar situation.  Moses had gone up to the mountain to get the Torah, but he never came back.  For days and weeks the people waited.  Many feared that he was dead.  Finally, they gave in to the fear and built a golden calf and started to worship it.
     
           The central figure in this story is Aharon.  The Torah text sort of paints him as the one responsible for building the calf.  But the midrash tries to explain his actions in a way that makes him appear less guilty.  It states that Aharon was a great peacemaker and, really, he had no power to stop the people – but he did have the power to slow things down.  So he asked for their jewelry, thinking that they wouldn’t give it up.  But when they did, he melted it down, thinking that it would take a long time to build the idol – but the midrash says that some Egyptian magicians who left Egypt with them made the calf appear.  Then Aharon stalled some more by building an altar for the calf to be placed on.  But even then, Moses still didn’t return.

                I think Aharon did the right thing in trying to stall – it’s a lot like the patience we had to show when coming from behind in baseball.  He bought some time and hoped for Moses to return.  It’s also important that he never lost hope, much like my team.  Also, he never got into a fight with anyone – he tried to keep the peace so that things would not get out of control.

                But in the end, I still think he should have prevented b’nai Yisrael from actually worshipping the calf. 

                Even though things didn’t work out as well for Aharon as they did for my team, there are some important lessons here that have helped the Jewish people through many tough times.  And because of that, we’ve always been able to overcome our challenges. 

                After the Holocaust, miraculously the Jewish people lived on and three years later, we created the state of Israel.  Our own history teaches us, time and time again, that we should be patient and never lose hope. 

                As all of you know, our Portuguese Water dog Jeter is a very important member of our family who also has taught us the meaning of patience. J Here in Stamford, there are many dogs and cats that do not have owners who can care for them. As a result, they are found at the Stamford Animal Shelter, hopefully waiting to be adopted. An organization called OPIN (Outreach for Pets in Need) was founded by shelter volunteers to promote adoption of homeless animals and support the shelter. As you can see on the Bimah, in response to their “wish list” we will be giving these baskets filled with dog and cat food, toys and supplies to the Stamford Animal Shelter to help them care for the cats and dogs.

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Do Jews Run Hollywood? "The Gatekeepers" comes to town, Moses vs. Aaron, A Stiff-Necked Shabbat-Across-America-O-Gram



   
 Ah, the craziness of Purim; for more photos see OUR PURIM ALBUM


The Shabbat-O-Gram is sponsored by Mia and Lonny Weinstein
in honor of their son, Edward, becoming a Bar Mitzvah.


Shabbat Shalom 

This weekend is the 17th annual Shabbat Across America. Even if you are not signed up for our SAA dinner, there are two things you can do join thousands of others who are becoming part of the biggest, boldest continent-wide event unifying Jewish communities across North America:

1)     Have a great Shabbat dinner at home or at a friend's.  You can download this packet of materials with all the info you need to do Shabbat on your own.

2)     THEN COME HERE FOR OUR Musical "Shabbat With a Global Spin." (see flyer at bottom). Cantor Mordecai has put together a very special service with the help of some superb musicians from NYC.  Come and bring lots of friends!!!!!  

Mazal tov to Eddie Weinstein and family - Eddie becomes Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat morning.  During the service we're going to focus on the two key figures of the Golden Calf episode, which is read in the Torah that morning: Aaron and Moses.  One was known for patience, the other for action.  Which trait makes for a better leader?   See the parsha packet for a sneak preview.  It's also Shabbat Parah.  Read about its significance.


Oscar Follow Up: "The Gatekeepers" in Stamford

One of Israel's two best-documentary nominees is coming to the Avon this weekend.  The Gatekeepers has been called "A documentary potent enough to alter how you see the world..." by the L.A. Times.  It features interviews with a half dozen former heads of Israel's secret security services, and their testimony is - from what I hear - mind boggling.  At a time when Israel is justifiably wary of all that is going on, it is hard to consider what it could be doing to advance the chances for a two state solution; but evidently that does not stop these Shin Bet leaders from suggesting that Israel could still be doing much more.  I'll have to see the film before further comment.

 I will not be at AIPAC next week, but I look forward to Shalom TV's coverage (channel 138) and hearing about it from our TBE congregants attending, including three of our teens - and if you are going there, look for my son Dan, who has been putting in mega-hours as an AIPAC intern this semester in Washington.  You can download the AIPAC 2013 app from iTunes and follow a live stream of the conference on AIPAC's website.


Oscars Follow Up: Do the Jews Run Hollywood?

Last week's Academy Awards presentation was noteworthy for its tasteless humor.  Although I am one of the handful of people who actually liked the film "Ted" when it came out last summer (must be those scenes at Fenway), the Seth MacFarlane teddy bear character crossed the line last week in comments made about secret synagogue meetings and Jews running Hollywood. 

The comments in and of themselves weren't horribly out of place in a culture where crude and self consciously offensive humor has become the norm - and often is seen as mocking real prejudice, misogyny and homophobia.  I think of  Broadway's "Book of Mormon" (and its South Park relations)  as an excellent example, and Monty Python's Spamalot - with its hilarious song about, yes, Broadway and Jews.  

So what made MacFarlane's bit so distasteful as to incur the wrath of the ADL and theWiesenthal Center?  From what I can see, the contents of his remarks were secondary to the setting.  If his character had said the same thing on "Family Guy," a billion people all over the world would not have been watching, many of whom happen to believe the very things he was saying.

But the other factor that made his remarks so offensive is that they simply were not funny.  They came off sounding like rehashed canards, not piercing satire.  The Spamalot bit is funny.  Jon Stewart's "War on Purim" segment this week was hilarious.  The "Ted" bit was not. Dov Hikind in blackface was not. If people aren't laughing, therefore it is not a joke.  It's that simple.  And if it's not a joke, and it was said, the words are out there, naked, and when they fall flat, they hurt.

Still, I was prepared to let it all go, until, a few days later, I was talking to a former student, a young adult struggling with his Jewish identity.  And in the middle of the conversation he suddenly asked if it's true that the Jews run Hollywood.  At that moment I realized that MacFarlane's unfunny bit had caused the most damage where we can least afford it: not in the minds of Iranian mullahs who hate us anyway, but in the hearts of young Jewish adults who are impressionable and confused.

No, we don't run Hollywood, nor is there a "Jewish lobby" running Washington or a Jewish cabal running the media.  Jews don't run the banks nor are Jewish radicals intent on taking them down.  Jews aren't neocon warmongers intent on getting America into another foreign entanglement, nor are we the peaceniks whose naiveté will get Israel destroyed.

What we are is a "stiff-necked people," an expression that comes from this week's portion, Ki Tisa.  In the words of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, this stubbornness which is seen primarily as a negative characteristic is actually not a tragic failing but a noble and defiant loyalty.  We are a people marked by persistence, and that persistence drives us not simply to achieve, but to seek truth and justice and to fight beyond all measure for a better world.  Persistence is what turns dreams and ideals in to Pulitzer Prize winning exposes, Nobel winning discoveries and Oscar winning scripts.

If Jews have succeeded in Hollywood and elsewhere, you can blame the stiff neck, just as Moses and God do in our portion. 

One can only wonder when Moses and God talked about us in those mocking tones, were they laughing?

Latest on Gun Violence

See this inspiring Photo Montage from the "March for Change"   Because it is so important to see this thing through, I continue to run weekly updates sent to clergy by our Interfaith Council Exec., Rev. Kate Heichler. 


GUN VIOLENCE PREVENTION SABBATH - March 15-17
Please sign on to participate in this important weekend of worship and witness in support of stronger and more protective gun laws in our nation.     Faiths United to Prevent Gun Violence hopes that thousands of faith groups from all across the country will join in. The more that are registered as participants, the stronger the message to decision-makers and media that we are serious in our desire for action. 

Participation can be as simple as including a prayer for gun victims orlegislators in your worship that weekend, or more involved, such as preach- ing on the subject or incorporating an activity like writing letters tolawmakers encouraging action on proposed legislation.    

MORE ACTION IN CONNECTICUT

Every Friday at 9:30 (the time of the Sandy Hook shooting)
 Call your legislator or members of the Gun Violence Task Force
and remind them it has past time we had a package of legislation to pass.  

Come hear Marian Wright Edelman in Hartford March 14:
Follow-up to the March for Change -RSVP here
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13th at 7:30pm, McMANUS ROOM, Westport Library
FRIDAY, MARCH 15th at 10:00am, CHRIST and HOLY TRINITY CHURCH, 75 Church Lane, Westport 

OUR GUN VIOLENCE PREVENTION AGENDA in CONNECTICUT: 
  1. Strengthens our assault weapons ban with a focus on improving current list and strengthening functionality features; apply "one military feature" test to definition of assault weapons.  Bans possession and sale with no grandfathering.
  2. Bans large capacity ammunition magazines of more than 7 rounds.  No grandfathering.
  3. Requires universal background checks on ALL sales and transfers, including long guns.
  4. Requires registration of handguns with annual renewal. Require annual fee and annual background check for all guns owned; stipulation that they are still in the possession of original purchaser or transferee; explanation for any gun still not being in their possession. Require safety inspection every three years. Charge fee on initial registration and renewal.
  5. Make gun owners liable for negligent storage if any person gains access to firearms and injures himself or another person or causes damage to property. The violation would be a Class D felony.
  6. Requires permit/license to purchase and carry all guns, including long guns, and to purchase ammunition
  7. Prohibits sales of guns or ammunition via internet to CT residents.
  8. Restricts handgun sales to one gun/month.    


Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman